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Worst/best weekend EVER - my dad died twice and now he is back to life

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  1. SEO20

    SEO20 Elite Member

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    What a weekend. The worst ever and also one of the best.

    My dad got a heart-attack - he died - got back to life again with help from doctors. Should be moved to another hospital - then died again and was gone long - but got back again after they worked on him for very long.

    Now he is much much better and is no longer a critical patient.

    Pheeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwww - crazy.

    Life is great but also so fragile.
    With the family now - just wanted you to know.
     
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  2. Chronos

    Chronos Junior Member

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    And people say there is no such thing as miracles.

    I can't imagine how nerve-racking all this was for you (and your family)!
     
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  3. hitman247

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    Geez....I couldn't even imagine....and personally, I have never heard of such a thing.

    Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
     
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    good doctors.
     
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  5. Erik Creed

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    I hate death I lost my dad this summer from a brain stroke...

    As if that wasn't enough his wife and all his friends started fighting over the will/money.
    We live in a BS world with BS people. I would have never thought my mom would turn into a money loving wh*** but reality sucks and truth is that money does change most people.

    Just make sure you tell your dad how much you love him...
    It has now been several months since I lost my dad and I have a big image of him hanging next to my PC. It's really hard to say goodbye, I hope your father lives for many more years to come so you don't suffer what I've just been through, I wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy it's worse than hell.

    Oh well take well care of your dad now and let God know how greatful you are.

    God Bless him
     
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    I was thinking why you were not coming online.
    Yes, life gets crazy sometimes, i have gone through similar situations when my grandpa passed away. I wish him a speedy recovery...
    Satyawrat
     
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    If we can do anything to help let me know. Just this year I have had 3 staff members have a family member pass by a heart attack. So i know what strain this puts on a family. If you need any help following up with customers or just getting business taken care of shoot me an IM.

    Brady
     
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    My sincere prayers for your dad
     
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    Hope everything goes okay mate - can't even imagine what you're all going through.
     
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    Here is my friend who also died for 10-15 min and came back to life.But may your father get well soon and live well.
     
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    Whoa what a story!

    All the best to your dad and your whole family.

    We are with you!
     
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    Thats crazy to hear... dieing and coming back to life.. damn
     
  13. moose88

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    death is a good reminder to us to prioritize what matters the most in our lives, thankfully your dad didnt die, and now would be the perfect time to tell him how much you love him, and clear any bad things that may have happened in the past.
     
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    Death is good to get out of a physical limited body that costs a fortune to run on food, that ages, living on a controlled polluted planet


    Thats my personal opinion

    Death is just an illusion- ITs just Consciousness

    How many times do I have to keep posting ?
     
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    WOW...You know, in the movies they make it look like it's so "easy" to bring somebody back when in fact it's actually pretty rare.

    For them to do it for your father TWICE is nothing short of a miracle.

    I'm happy to hear he is alright & I hope he stays that way for a long time to come & I wish the best for you as well.

    Take care of yourself & your Dad man, family is so important.
     
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    Congrats guy, will send some well wishes your way. I don't know how old you are but you know, at any age, love your parents while you got em. I know life gets busy but by the time you get old enough to really appreciate them usually, they are getting old and on the way out themselves. And sometimes we just need a good old fashioned shaking up to make us pay attention to what matters most. I wish your family the best.
     
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  17. glew

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    Wow, that's an astonishing weekend man! It's just so crazy how life can be taken away at any moment but, it never really hits you until it happens to someone your close to. I can't imagine the range of emotions you and your family went through. You be sure to tell that man you love him every chance you get and enjoy every second he's here with you!

    Thank god he's ok now. Stay strong and our prayers go out to you and yours :)
     
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    When he died again was it from another heart attack? Or a complication?
    Posted via Mobile Device
     
  19. irie08

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    Wow, what a sobering post. I wish you and your family all the best in the future.

    A lot of sons take their fathers for granted, including myself. We don't tell them how much we love them until it's too late. I think I'll call mine up today and make sure to let him know...thanks for this
     
  20. honeyandthemoon

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    I'm not normally a believer in much, but if there's anything I've read in a long time to say that you need to live your life as you want and need to do, and live it to its best until your final day (which it wasn't your dad's on that day clearly), then it's this.