I figured this would be the perfect place to ask this question since it's full of guys and you all seem like the straight forward type. I need advice of the relationship kind. Someone translate guy-speak for me? I new this guy a while ago. he was involved though so while we flirted nothing ever happened. Fast forward to recently and i run into him by accident. Totally out of the blue after a lot of time has passed. Anyway, we go out a couple times and end up spending the night together. Here's the thing. He lives far away. I know this and yet I still slept with him. He now wants me to drive out to his new place and see him and spend the night. I honestly thought Id be fine with it if I never heard from him again after we slept together, but now I find that I actually like having him around. I enjoy his company and I cannot tell if he just wants me to be his booty call or if he thinks there could be more to it. I could be ok with us being casual for a while, but I would not want it long term. Id want more eventually and I don't know if he will. I cannot tell and I don't want to set myself up to get hurt. We we are together we talk and get along great. But this whole thing about me driving out there to see him just screams booty call to me and I don't want to put myself into that trap. I don't do FWB type relationships. So guys....knowing what you do about being male, what vibe do you get from this? If I drive out there will I put myself solely into the "booty call" category and never be able to get out? Is a man that behaves this way toward a woman even though he lives so far away a dead give away that it's just a booty call? In short, I don't speak guy and I need someone to translate the signals he's giving out. Pretty please, help a girl out? My girlfriends are great, but they don't speak guy either unfortunately. I want to see him again, but I just cannot be sure it wouldn't be a bad choice on my part.