Why don't I take action? I'm feeling useless and not productive

Envyliciouz

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Ok guys. Something is really wrong with me. I have a hard, real problem. I'm in IM, making websites, SEO area from 3 years that said I still don't have any stable income. I've made a few bucks but all this money got home so no money for investment.

I saw thread "The Real #1 Reason Why 95% Of You Will Always Fail - No Matter How Hard You Try"

And I am here:

"3. You have some success already. You might even earn a 4 or 5 figure income already. But your dreams are much bigger than that. The only thing is, you hit some kind of plateau and you just don?t get to the next level. You know you have the knowledge and determination but you are stuck with this level of income."

The sad thing is I don't try hard, that's wrong with me. I want money, I want peace days but lol I'm feeling like I'm useless and I'm not productive, no efficience and performance. I have just a big wtf for me. I mean seriously, I'm in a bad situation but I'm not doing anything for this. God dammit... really something is very wrong with me. I'm in this mood for 1 week ago, even more. Last times this last 1-2 days and then move on but now I'm feeling stuck. Wtf is wrong with my mind...

Thank you guys. Hope I can get a few advices how you moved on when you had bad situations.
 

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do some things for yourself. Do something you really enjoy, sports or so. more, try to find out what really motivates you. it's maybe not just money alone ;)
 

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There are 2 ways to get rid of your problem.

1. Try to get a job,in less then 2 weeks,you'll get back on internet completing cpa offers for websites,and earning the same ammount from home.

2. As the guy above said,get some money,way more then you spend in a week,and spend them all on a night,not limiting yourself from anything.

You'll see the results.
 

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I have been in a similar place to you. Take some time away from the computer and evaluate the areas of IM that you really enjoy. Focus just on these things and dont try every tactic under the sun, concentrate on the ones you like doing. It gets easier then I promise.
 

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do some things for yourself. Do something you really enjoy, sports or so. more, try to find out what really motivates you. it's maybe not just money alone ;)

So you want another strange thing? I don't feel like doing anything before not having money... I'm really in a strange psihologicly situation
 

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Take a break and then come back to work.. If you don't feel like taking a break either then you're probably having periods!
 

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Maybe you feel overwhelmed? If you are looking at a project and it feels like there is so much you need to do it may help to break it up into tiny chunks. As you finish each chunk you will feel as though you are getting closer to your goal and will gain some confidence.
 

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That's called an obstacle, a mental one.

You need to go through it, no matter how hard man.

I mean, you may be too lazy to think or you just fear to fail, but you keep convincing yourself that the reason is:
1) No money for investing in stuff.
2) Feeling desperate
3) whatfuckingever.

But the real thing man, is that you have to get of your butt and just start to do stuff. It's really simple:

Work your ass off (in learning, doing and learning) = Success and happiness for you and your family

Stay in this shitty situation (not learning, not doing) = Failure and same shitty situation.

No offense bro, I'm just trying to shake you, so you can just get up and take action.

WizIMS
 

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Yes, I am mind blocked. I'm stuck in a period like I want and I don't do as much as It needs to happen that. That's strange, I'm feeling useless, no confidence.

I think. I need to find a method to move on, fast.
 

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You said: "I want money, I want peace days"?

So you know where you are and where you want to be.

Why not keep in mind where you want to go and watch all roads that get to the destination you want.
Give yourself half a chance and realize all the things you can do, and you will do them now.

Your best solution is in your own words. ;)
 

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Yes, I am mind blocked. I'm stuck in a period like I want and I don't do as much as It needs to happen that. That's strange, I'm feeling useless, no confidence.

I think. I need to find a method to move on, fast.

I can absolutely relate to what you've been through - I myself was for 2+ years in the exact same situation - no kidding!

Try to go out and inhale as much fresh air on a daily basis as you can; do some sports; listen to some motivational CDs which are focused on how to get things done.

Remember: ANY kind of action taken - even the smallest one - causes momentum and began is half done.

I highly recommend that you listen to the Affirmation Track below - at least 2~3 times a day as long as needed:
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http://www.mediafire.com/?v9k3jtuqslyeuhc
VT:
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My best to you,.

M.
 
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You should try to use once a part of the money you got from IM, for entertainment purposes like e.g. Amsterdam & co. You will feel so motivated that within the next months you will triple your income, and yet, still work and not spend it on rubbish.

Because you will realize and get the taste of what truly motivates you. Or maybe, sometimes, you just have to hit the bottom to feel free and start again.
 

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Get in the gym. Your endorphins will increase, you will feel energized and better in yourself and therefore more positive. Works for me. good luck :)
 

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just relax, away from your computer. read steve jobs standford speech, after a day or two you will regain your confidence.
 

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God dammit... really something is very wrong with me. I'm in this mood for 1 week ago, even more. Last times this last 1-2 days and then move on but now I'm feeling stuck. Wtf is wrong with my mind...

I'm not trying to be funny so please don't take this as sarcasm but maybe you are clinically depressed and need some anti-depressant drugs to help you out.
 

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I feel the same. I'm an SEO consultant as a day job for small agency and I can't seem to get it together.

I just got like a 13% pay rise and I'm still over spending every month. I come up with a great idea to work on. Do it for a day. Don't actually take action and then come up with a new idea the next day.

I'm all talk and no walk.
 

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This will be my real motivational thread. Hope this will help me figure out what is should do...:flypig:
 

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You just need some motivation thats all. Think about how much more you could do with a sable income and how you can take care of the ones you love.
 

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So you want another strange thing? I don't feel like doing anything before not having money... I'm really in a strange psihologicly situation

then get a mini-job. something thats not too hard. after a while you'll become accepted and this makes miracles with your self-esteem. don't worry that you loose time on IM. you can make plans in your head while you are doing your 9-5. i was in a same situation a while ago, the most important thing is to get out of your head. do something were you are forced to take action. the most important thing now is not to go too deep into your mind. also i would recommend you to go to a psychologist or church ( whatever fits in the most) from my point of view, this sounds like a depression. i might be wrong cause i don't know you personally, but an ounce of prevention is better than a pund of cure. Feel free to PM or skype me :)
 
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