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Why do people treat you so different when you have money?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by drkwrld, Feb 17, 2013.

  1. drkwrld

    drkwrld Regular Member

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    Hello, I noticed that people treat me different whenever i get my hands on some good money. But when i dont have shit they stop calling and they treat me like shit. They say a man is like a bank account if u dont have funds you lose interest. I guess the saying is right.

    What are your thoughts about this and if anyone else relates to this thread please feel free to share ur opinions.
     
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    True.

    Also, when you have money, they treat you more seriously and with a base of respect (note that I didn't just say respect, but a base of respect). But it also comes with envy. And envy isn't a good thing because they would also like to see you fail.

    But screw that. Just bank and live your life.
     
  4. GiorgioB

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    Why does the world spin on itself?

    Why is the sky blue?

    Why why why?

    >Because its like that. Human nature, selfish people only interested in their personal gain. Its sad, but humans are selfish animals, if we weren't our species wouldn't have survived so long. At the same time, we are also a social animal which means we like to regroup in communities such as BHW and help each other out.

    Different people have different balances of this selfish-social equilibrium which means that you have assholes and you have awesome selfless people.

    by the way i'm just coming up with this as I go, i have no idea if this is true or valid or what, just my opinion!
     
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    They want it...
     
  6. drkwrld

    drkwrld Regular Member

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    Thanks man. Its crazy how money change ppl around u n even ur own family.
     
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    dont let people know you have money, you can still have friends without money.
     
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    You are definitely right.. the more you have money in your pocket... the more 'friends' you have beside you.. but
    if people knew you don't have money in your pocket... they started to loose interest with you...

    this means...people loves your money.. not the real you...
     
  9. drkwrld

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    I mean out of all my friends i will say i have like 4 that are true friends. But even my own girlfriend which i was for almost 8 years dumbed me beccause i didnt have a job due to a felony i got for some dumb shit. N now that i have str8n my shit she wants back. But honestly i dont want a girl to be with me cause of wat i got feel me?
     
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    You can probably count the true friends you have on one hand. If ppl are treating you nicely when you have money and then don't want to know you when you haven't, simply don't deal with them. Try to keep them at arms distance - but remember, they might come in useful oneday so always have that thought on your mind. You don't have to be nasty, weigh up the pros and cons before deciding on what a course of action. Are they of any value to you or not? Would you be at a major disadvantage if you lost them or didn't bother with them? You can play them, it's not a one way street!
     
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    This only happens because we all live in a world which to a great extent has caste aside all values while at the same time brainwashing folks into believing that MONEY IS GOD!

    Or to simplify that!

    We live in a 'F**ked up World!'
     
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    These questions are quite easily answer with science.
     
  13. drkwrld

    drkwrld Regular Member

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    It iis sad. I had to learn how to be by myself for this n various reason. I barely socialize with people because i really dont trust anyone. But i guess is part of the game.
     
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    That's the power of money. Money can sever family ties, it can also make them do things against their dignity and will (e.g: prostitution, escorting, finding a sugar daddy, robbing a bank, .etc), if you're a man and have the money, it can attract all kinds of women to you.

    Most women whom said, "no, I like a guy for who he is, not for his money." I tell them to fuck off, because they're just lying without knowing. If I don't have money, I wouldn't have bought proper clothing, and other materials to make me look "normal" or attractive. If you don't look normal in terms of fashion or attractive, no girls would even want to look at you. I don't see a gold-hearted beggar having a woman with her arms around him.

    As a matter of fact, especially in my country, you only see attractive women with rich jerks.

    If there wasn't software privacy, I wonder how could average guys even download photoshop or other essential softwares for their needs. Money can also give you the best education, and also let you invest in other means to yield even more money.

    Those whom said money doesn't buy love or money doesn't buy happiness. I tell them to fuck off because they obviously haven't been rich or have never been poor before. Those whom agree are either in denial or they just want to feel better for themselves.

    I was from a poor family and right now I'm banking well. I can't tell you how much comfortable, secure, and happy I feel.

    Not that money has changed me, but I have a different mindset on money all together.

    But of course, I'm not saying money isn't the answer to everything. I despise those whom think everything can be bought by money that they offer a decent woman to spread her legs. Now that's fuck up.

    I know it may sound contradicting, but its explanation is very near the line that it sounds contradicting. Or perhaps I'm just lousy in putting it in words. What I'm saying is... know the power of money; but don't let it corrupt you. Treat real money like how you treat money in games. In fact, I also donate money generously. Like I tip cab drivers and even donate to the needys on the street.

    Don't take money seriously, but know its power.

    You don't need many friends; a few close and best friends are better than a million friends.
    Unless it's just for networking, where you know you're using him/her for connections and a purpose, and so is he/she.
     
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  15. drkwrld

    drkwrld Regular Member

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    Great post man. Appeciate ur kind words. It is hard to find good women now days. Im not an angel but i was raise with manners i also come from a poor family n i kno struggle n hunger. But people take me for granted because im kind with most ppl that around me. Excuse my english is not my native language.
     
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    Give respect, demand respect, get respect
     
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    Ages ago when the hunter came back from a successful hunt they would sign songs and they would dance around the fire to celebrate.

    The internet is the jungle and your prey is money. You are the hunter, so if you bring trophies you will gain respect, affection, trust and ENVY.

    There is no mystery, that is what success will bring. You want it? Then get it. But assume the consequences before taking actions.
     
  18. jazzc

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    Lots of kinds of people in the world. You need to choose the types of people you hang with. Then you'll have no issues.
     
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    Jazzc got it right.

    You don't have any control over the thoughts and perceptions of people, but you do have control over the choice of your friends. After all, you're the first person to be blamed for being in the group of people who start behaving weird after you have money. Choose your friends and surrounding carefully. That's all I can say. I have only 4-5 close friends, but these guys have stayed with me since childhood days irrespective of my financial situation.
     
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    Yeah, I got it too. I've lots of friend like that. They just respect when we have big money even in rich. For me, i cannot be close coz every time I really wanna kick and hit all of them if I am close.

    Staying away its a good way for me, I dont wanna make new problem.