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Why are women such a pain?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by coreygeer, Apr 22, 2009.

  1. coreygeer

    coreygeer BANNED BANNED

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    Now, don't take this too offensively women.. I know there are some good honest and nice girls out there and this doesn't apply to all of you :)

    Time for a little rant...

    I usually don't get involved in relationships anymore or even attempt to date anymore for one good reason.. Women are royal pains..

    Now to your defense.. men are stupid. Yes.. I will give you that.. men are just totally and utterly just retarded.

    Just some quick questions for you women:
    - Why can't you ever just tell a guy something? Instead it has to be a little puzzle or a mind game that we always have to figure out.

    - Why can't you ever just make up your minds? You can't deny this one.. women are always and constantly changing their minds over what they want.

    - Why aren't women ever satisfied? No matter what you do for them, or what they have, it's just not enough. I'm not talking about the super material girls who are filthy rich, but most women in general.

    - If you don't want to date some one, why do you women drag them along to see how long it takes them to figure it out?

    Now, like I said.. this isn't all women.. some women are good and honest but I can tell you this. This is why guys are mostly players.. it's easier to play the field than to deal with the ref.

    /end Rant
     
  2. shm03

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    They are women...
     
  3. tonlilaz

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    can we not go here? the next thing you know, every loser on this board will start jumping on the band wagon and making general stereotypical.....
     
  4. GrotesqueGoddess

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    Just some quick questions for you women:
    - Why can't you ever just tell a guy something? Instead it has to be a little puzzle or a mind game that we always have to figure out.

    Well, and I am speaking about how us women think in general, we are extremely sensitive to feelings and these little "tests" we give men are just our way to pick through your brain to see if what are you saying is actually what you mean... which is quite hypocritical since we rarely, if ever, say what we mean.

    - Why can't you ever just make up your minds? You can't deny this one.. women are always and constantly changing their minds over what they want.

    We are perfectionists by nature and always have a million things on our minds. EDITING TO ADD: We sometimes are overprotective of our feelings and sometimes change our minds if we fear we're going to get hurt.

    - Why aren't women ever satisfied? No matter what you do for them, or what they have, it's just not enough. I'm not talking about the super material girls who are filthy rich, but most women in general.

    The truth is, we are, we sometimes just don't know how to express it.

    - If you don't want to date some one, why do you women drag them along to see how long it takes them to figure it out?

    Because we are attention whores. We are flattered by the attention and we like knowing that we have someone to fall back on if needed.
     
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  5. coreygeer

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    I agree with every thing but this.

    In most cases I find that women when they start doing this are interested in someone else or there's simply something they aren't telling you.
     
  6. The Scarlet Pimp

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    read some of david deangelo's dating books -- women love attention and if you don't give it
    to them, they come back looking for it.
     
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    Not necessarily. Every woman is different, and we all have our reasons for the crazy things we do. A lot of the things we do are easily decoded... like why we go to the bathroom in groups. When we go in there together... we're talking about you.

    I used to torture my man with stupid little things. One day he did something that totally changed me. I was bitching about something... I don't remember what it was because it wasn't important... anyway, he playfully punched my arm and said, "You wanna fight? Come on, let's fight!"... then started a pillow fight. I totally forgot what I was mad about and after that, every time I started bitching about something, he'd start a pillow fight. Five years later, I don't ever bitch at him. Seriously.
     
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    Let me go grab a dumpster...this is the biggest load of shit EVER Corey!! Not all women are like that. You wanna hear it straight up, this woman will tell it!! =)
     
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  10. Dillusion

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    Men's are most more practical and rational than women, not saying that women are less intelligent than men, some are even more, but the question is that men usually follow more a path of logic and rationality than women.

    I'm a very argumentative guy, and one example of this would be that when having an argument or even a heated discussion with friends, the great majority of times, the guys would end an argument when they feel they are going through an irrational path, but most women just keep on pushing it until their argument has crossed the borderline into utterly ridiculous. And I believe that most of the times they are aware of this fact, they just are so controlled by their own emotions, that winning the discussion is more important than the argument itself.
     
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    Dillusion - I ABSOLUTELY 100% agree with that statement.
     
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    David Deangelo aka Eben Pagan!!!?? Yea, I'm really going to take tips on how to handle women from a him - not!

    Now the Fonz, he knew how to handle women...
     
  13. Dillusion

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    That is actually a relief, I was sort of afraid that making this statement would make all women in this forum began a flaming process against my person.

    I think that ultimately the biggest difference between us has to do with our emotional process, as men usually react more to a short array of emotions in a most powerful way, most of the events in a women's life are directly related to their emotional needs and desires, women react emotionally to virtually everything when men react emotionally to fewer things, we usually focus our emotion in a much stronger way in those things.
     
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    Stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. Be the jerk women love.
     
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  15. coreygeer

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    lol, I don't usually get into relationships because it's much funner and much easier to just.. get into... it.. XD

    In my opinion: I prefer to play the field and be the jerk. That's just my opinion though.
     
  16. Sanitarium

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    Why? They look so adorable.
     
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    There are very cool women out there. You just have to find them. I've had great girlfriends and I've had girlfriends that are a pain in the ass. It's a numbers game.
     
  18. tonlilaz

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    well it's obvious your the one with the problem then...... i don't see why you blame women in general for inability to get along with them.....

    or maybe you're just gay?


    no offense
     
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    I don't think women like jerks, they just like confidence. It just so happen many jerks also have and display confidence. I myself is not a jerk but I always had a lot of confidence. I'm straight forward with the woman I date, I don't put any on a pedestal, (no human should be anyway) and I don't like playing mind games. If a woman is acting in a way I don't like, I just let them know in a respectful manner. If they don't change and stay the same then I move on.
     
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    :lmao: Well said Tonlilaz! My entire thought from the start of this thread was that the OP was either looking to start a flamefest, wants attention, or he just doesn't "get it" where PEOPLE are concerned....not just women.

    You need to have a long look at YOU Corey..the problem begins there. Either you have horrible judgement in your choices, or you need to examine your own motives and behaviours....or maybe you ARE gay...:eek2: