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Whats a polite way of telling a member to leave me alone

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Not Ste Hughes, Sep 16, 2015.

  1. Not Ste Hughes

    Not Ste Hughes BANNED BANNED

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    I actually put up a helpful post the other day, ever since then the member has been sending me multiple PM's begging me for more help. Basically me wanting to do his entire keyword research for him because "He does not have enough free time"

    What an entitled fuckwad.

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    It's getting annoying now, I already have an infraction for insulting someone on here but this situation sort of deserves another insult.

    What insult can I use without getting banned?

    I work at least 12 hours per day, I don't have time for people who cannot be bothered to help themself.

    Why is this guy PM'ing me? This will teach me for being helpful, just troll posts from now on.
     
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  2. Shaunm

    Shaunm Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

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    PM him a link to this thread....
     
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  3. Duffers5000

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    Asking for money makes 99.9% of freeloaders dissapear instantly.
     
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  4. virtualbyron

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    Same as you thug bro! it's already twice for me, I am under conditional, next time I while take perpetuity
    Maybe a function to block the PM from people can be good

    +1 send him a PM of this thread
     
  5. lewwy789

    lewwy789 Regular Member

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    I think you probably just did.
     
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    Instead of saying "Leave me alone" just say "Please, leave me alone". :cool:

    You should say something along these lines, "I really appreciate you reaching out to me however as you may know time is very valueable. I value yours and I hope that you would do the same for me. At this time I am very busy but if you need additional assistance in the future don't hesitate to contact me and we can set up a paid consultation. Thank you for understanding."
     
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    He is the guy who spent 2XXX$ when he was 15 years old to a seo company lol
     
  8. fatboy

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    Do this - the best working method on BHW!
    Works a treat.
     
  9. proxygo

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    well....if it was me, ide say once no do it yourself.
    twice no do it and learn yourself u gain nothing if done for you.
    3 - the magic 3, ive been nice ive given u advice do some fcking work yourself.

    most mods i think wouldnt slap u saying no politely twice and a 3rd for leave
    me the fck alone, ive done it, u go so far with people tips/advice but when they
    bug to much fck off and do some work yourself .
     
  10. Apricot

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  11. proxygo

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    im referring to if dealing with it privately pm to pm without involving
    the forum or a mod 3 strikes followed by a swift go away cough.
     
  12. ja1myn

    ja1myn Senior Member

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    Isn't there a blocking feature?
     
  13. Apricot

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    Well, no-one ever PM's me so I wouldn't understand how frustrating it is. However, once insults start getting thrown via PM's, it becomes difficult to separate out where the blame lies. It then ends with 2 members exchanging 5 or 10 "fuck you" PM's and then reporting each other for being abusive. This is not an exaggeration.

    It's difficult to justify spending an hour picking through a conversation to see who was most to blame and no-one comes off well in these situations.



    Yes. Yes there is: http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackhat-seo/profile.php?do=ignorelist
     
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  14. Not Ste Hughes

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    I did not know about the blocking feature... thats handy.

    I did ask him in a very nice manor to ask questions on the forum. I explained my time is limited to him... he kept asking though.

    He even traced down my skype, which is amazing as I've never used it here.
     
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    All I can suggest is maybe you were being too friendly and came off as flirtatious instead? It's important to avoid provocative dress or behaviour in these circumstances so you don't give out mixed messages.
     
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  17. archon10

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    Ask him for his phone number.
    Send cock shot to phone.
    He'll never talk to you again.
     
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    OP, is such a tease. He encourages them.
     
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    When someone is over-asking me for help that is time-consuming, I let them know immediately that they're killing me and to back off ... please. When the person becomes a nuisance I simply block and ignore.

    Telling the person that what I'm doing costs money and asking for a little help ALWAYS works too.
     
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