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what the best age to get married?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by santerou, Mar 30, 2019.

  1. IGFella

    IGFella Junior Member

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    Why get married? How is that arbitrary piece of paper with a stamp on it going to improve your relationship with someone?
    You spend a shitton of money for someone to put an arbitrary word on your relationship with someone i.e. "married".
    Why not just enjoy your relationship with your loved one without the need for validation from the goverment.
    How do people still fall for this scam in 2019.
     
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    When you have money age doesn't matter...
     
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    36. Definitely.
     
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    40 preferably. :)
     
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    how close are you?
     
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    This is why they are having 13 children :D
     
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    In the age of 99.99
     
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    29 is the best age to get married
     
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    yes there was not
    Contraceptive at there time LOL
     
  13. ritipinheiro

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    Never...! But ye, maybe 30+
     
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    When a girl decides to settle for my sorry ass.
     
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    I got married at 28, would of probably waited a bit longer but my wife's 37 so got to try for a baby in the next year or so before her fertility starts dropping fast.
     
  17. RITUJA SINGH

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    i just got married and i am 28. i feel like i am mature enough to handle this and also i am financially stable. so according to my point of view i think i got married at right time but again it's up to you when you are ready.
     
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    Just look at the percentage of failing marriages.

    You might be serious and ready for marriage, but you can't control your significant other nor know what's in store for you guys in the feature.

    I'm also assuming the younger you are the higher chances of a divorce happening.

    I don't believe in a piece of paper. If marriage was that sacred, once you marry once and it fails, you just broke all vows and you should never ever marry again because your vows hold 0 value at this point.

    The entire meaning of marriage will totally be lost after that.

    So I would say, marry when you've had your fair share of life experiences and that you are 100% ready to settle down for the rest of your life.
     
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    Marriage is a partnership, it's (Spouse 1 contributions+ Spouse 2 contributions)/2. In places that use a community property system its (Spouse 1 after marriage contributions+Spouse 2 after marriage contributions)/2. In some places, the income from pre-marriage assets is considered separate and in others its community property.
     
  20. Frozen Phoenix

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    I don't know if I ever want to get married to be honest.

    I am living in a Latin American country (as a European) and the response I usually get from girls is:
    ''Aaaah these gringos are just here to have fun and blablaba''

    A lot of these girls get married at 21,22,23. There's a lot of social pressure from family etc..
    One time a 23-year old girl told me she's already getting to old to get married, and she felt like she missed the boat. All her friends were already married.

    When people ask me, I just say '' I don't want to get married''.
    Not because it's not important. Quite the contrary. It's very important, but for 90% of the population it's not, and you can get a divorce very easy.
    So why bother and go through all that hassle? Why not live together, get kids, and then decide to marry.

    It's honestly the last thing I want to do.