He messaged me this about my girlfriend. Keep in mind he has messaged her 17 times yesterday alone. I should probably do nothing as she hasnt responded to any of his crazyness. Here is what he wrote me. All of his "big" words do not intimidate me as they are used out of context and do not follow correct nuances. So humor me with ideas, what should I say to this loser? Im telling you don't let his talk fool you this guy is absolutley nuts: As a man, I can completely identify with the reaction you made, concerning myself. It is of course, a textbook case of "territorial pissings", being protective of the things you care about, or "Who the fuck is this mother fucker texting/calling my girl?" I get that. I understand completely. I hold no grudges towards you, as that is hardly my style. Alcohol can be fairly persuasive, especially in matters of the heart. What I think that you need to know, is that Kathy and I were never an "item". On the contrary, we were best friends at one point. We have never been physically involved with one another. We did talk a lot! Her and my, long lost relationship, was predicated upon our passion for language and life. We always talked in a way, that would lead people to believe we were in love. And, I do love her, but you have nothing to worry about. She loves you. I know she does. Let me digress though........, I love Kathy in a way that poses no threat to you. For so long, as a writer, I used her as my muse of inspiration. See, when we met, we shared a lot of similarities. I happened to be very outspoken, mostly for shock value, while she was less outspoken, but passionate when she spoke. I latched on to that quality, because, as an artist/writer, it was detrimental to grasp that power/ability to make people hang on your every word. It's pretty fucking admirable. So we would talk for hours on end, and I would learn from her, the secret to passionate speak. She really is something. I applaud you for being able to land such a beautiful treasure. Cherish every breath she makes. She is special. Just know, that I pose no threat. I may say things to her, sweet things, but I only say them for the truth behind them. That's the way it has always been, and it will likely continue. I lost her for ten years, but ten years doesn't mean shit to a couple of weird ones like us. But, dude....... for real, I live hundreds of miles away. What's the threat? Also, she LOVES you! First thing she had to say was about you. I don't "wreck homes". I'm not a "lonely loser". My gross annual income, no matter the size, makes no matter with the person I am. I'm real as it gets. I will tell you the truth, no matter what. The truth is this: I am happy for the both of you. I want nothing less than ecstatic energy for Kathy. I will always shower her with compliments, as she is the one who made me into the person I became. We are the same. I am genuinely appreciative at your attempt to clear the air with me. That is honorable, and to be honest... I didn't expect it. But....anyways, you have no reason to be jealous, insecure, overbearing, or angry with her or myself. Our involvement is innocent. Sometimes that type of thing happens in life. You are still young, grasshopper, with much to learn. She has the intellect, knowledge, and life experience, enough to where, you can trust her when she says its okay. And it is. Get back to me.