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What should I do ? (depression, no money anymore)

Discussion in 'Making Money' started by Jarvannis, Sep 5, 2019.

  1. Naijalife

    Naijalife Regular Member

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    As someone who has suffered with anxiety for a long time (15 years) here's how I manage it, when I feel anxious I remember all the panic attacks and no matter how bad they were I'm still here and I'm like bring it on to my anxiety I challenge it. I used to think like you I live in a crap town all I wanted was to move but last year I did place up a little on budget and I'm making most of it. Learn mindfulness and yoga (great videos on YouTube) quit the drink especially if you are on meds. Try a different medication if you feel you can't get a grip takes time but does help when you are on right one. I have made $0 online yet but I'm motivated and I no I will, I'm learning skills so I will succeed. You can write an anonymous blog about your life and try to help other people. I also have a picture of where I want to live in 5 years time to keep me focused I look when I'm feeling bad. Learn compassion to yourself it will help a lot of negative thoughts also. And I'm always a pm away if you ever need to vent or just a chat. Wish you all the best keep fighting u got this
     
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    elishashi Junior Member

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    You dont need to be depreesed cause their different ways you could earn through internet ,example like Online marketing and more.
     
  3. Jarvannis

    Jarvannis Regular Member

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    These are great motivationnal advices ! thank you. Next time I have panic attack, I'll try your trick. And I will definitively put a picture of the house of my dream of my wall haha, this is a small thing but good for motivation.
    Sorry I didn't understand :p
     
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    I always watch this classic when I overthink.
     
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    Hey man, just find a another new project to work on it, and remember you are not alone, currently people working in the Instagram automation domain are feeling same as you, but it's not the end, there is always something to do in this life, just find what it is and you know all that crap eat healthy and stay in good shape etc, good luck!
     
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  6. Jarvannis

    Jarvannis Regular Member

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    Lol that's an amazing speech. I watched this movie years ago but I did not remember this scene. Thanks, it's actually a lot of motivation, it helps a lot !

    Yeah man, I heard IG had hard times too haha. I don't know IG but I feel you ! I hope you'll get a lot of money soon. And thanks for kind words and great advices ! Let's bounce BACK !
     
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    i wish i'd make 15 a day
     
  8. Nitin Desai

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    Make sure you have right "I'm".
    Try miracle morning. I'm on day 6 and it feel's amazing it's seems like everyday is Christmas while waking up and i feel more energetic than before.
    If you're time is messed up,try den Kennedy no B. S time management.
     
  9. karma05

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    A few years ago, I too was struggling to make any money. Since it's very hard to make money online without money to start with, there wasn't really anything I could do, then I discovered transcribing work and it changed everything for me. I was able to make a few hundred a week which was enough to pay my bills, plus I was able to save up some of it to invest into a more passive income online. The site where I was able to get this work is called Rev. If you're good with English, which I assume you are, I'd highly recommend it. It definitely helped me out.
     
  10. bugulma

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    have u tried hypnotherapy mate ? You can learn to do it on your own after u go for some sessions, this is a powerful thing and can cure depression in a couple of weeks.
     
  11. Jarvannis

    Jarvannis Regular Member

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    Haha, I understand, I really do. Before making it, I dreamed about it. But it depends also where you live. In a t1 country, it is not enough to live :p

    Thanks for amazing advices. I'll definitively try miracle morning, I remember doing it years ago (without knowing it :p) and it felt great. The Kennedy method, I will lok into it. TY !

    This is amazing advice and tip, man. Since i need money, I will definitively look into it. Not hard job, even if you need to make a lot of hour to make money, but why not ? Thank you very much man.

    Dude, I actually did in my last therapy ! It was hard at beginning. I was feeling anxiety. But my therapist heard that and changed few thing (conversationnal hypnotherapy, which wored great on me). It really helped me, but I have no money anymore so I could not pay her anymore :( But yeah, great therapy, I will come back to it ASAP.
     
  12. bugulma

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    dude , in order to find the root cause and eliminate anxiety forever you will have to strongly experience this feeling and then the through that emotion it will bring you to the root memory . This is how the most advanced psychotherapy works . Google Calvin Banyan and his sessions, when you learn the technique you can even do it on your own and eliminate it in 1 session (but for that you need to master it on advanced level). what I say dude, the mind is the most precious thing you have and nobody will take care of it better than you, you need to learn self-therapy on your own and it will save your time and money and eliminate all life problems. Believe me this is possible, the doctors will say you otherwise cause they want all of your money and they dont care that you suffer.
    Google hypnoanalysis and Calvin Banyans techniques . http://www.selfhypnosis.com/hypnoanalysis/
     
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    Jarvannis Regular Member

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    thanks dude for the tip, I liked hypnotherapy a lot, WITH DOCTORS, it's not perfect but I won't say they are scammers neither haha...
    Your link looks good but it's expensive !
     
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    Good luck. Hope it all works out for you.
     
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    sorry for my english 1.3
    everyone is depressed when no money,i im also. i got all my facebook ad accounts disabled and what do i do now? i must buy one i guess. cpa is bullshit story,perhaps cpagrip has like 3% conversion which is a bullshit. and the traffic is not free at all,and you need a LOT of it. sometimes it's really better to get a real job. your head will hurt less. since i do this cpa shit,i became more angry,depressed,my head hurts often,eyes hurts,i spend too much time staring at this 120hz monitor,im thinking about that shit all day,got no physical activity,im worried about my traffic sources and quality issues for advertisers/cpa network,worried about paying and pay dates,conversion ratio,facebook ad accounts are getting banned,i lost arround 50 instagram profiles,actions blocked,proxies stopped working...so basically,this online strugling for income is more demanding and stressfull then a real life job definitely. strugling never ends,spam links are illegal and those social networks are fighting against it,that's a huge problem for us. proxies are also illegal,multiple accounts are not allowed,IP's are getting blacklisted. let's just say,there's just too many things online where we need to cheat,lie,fraud . it's all fake shit and fake things live very short life.
     
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  16. ogretardo

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    Hi mate!
    1. Start meditating. This will clear the bullshit in your head and make room for actual ideas and strength to help you move forward
    2. If you have no money look into free methods in bhw. That's how most noobs get started and imo you should never forget about this if anything goes south in you IM journey (as it usually does in IM, i have learned :D)
    3. Remember to get fresh air and appreciate all you have (family/friends/knowledge/gift of life) and not overload yourself with the stress of making money, cus if you can't enjoy it what's the point of doing it right?

    Good luck bro, you will get through it and come out stronger - just like every other time in your life!
     
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    I have a drinking problem too... but lately... I felt like I accomplished a lot in my life this year from starting a job. The pay isn’t well, my blog is barely growing, and it definitely makes me feel like I’m somewhat progressing towards success.

    I also removed toxic people and try to network with good people. Sometimes, I get depress but I feel much better ever since I started drinking less.

    Take it one step at a time! Wishing you the best.
     
  18. ogretardo

    ogretardo Newbie

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    First, It is your choice if you cheat lie and fraud online, theres plenty of legal (and if not legal - for me not moral breaking, whch is most important to me) ways of making money. Depends on you if you get obsessed over this shit like dr. fucking frankenstein and forget about your physical existence in this amazing world with so much beauty for us to see.
    I think almost everyone who starts IM goes through this - where they cant stop looking at statistics that dont even help them and all the time stressing over their one method that they have complete tunnel-vision on. Theres 100000000 ways to make money online at least and the more you try the better you get at finding the working ones and dismissing the ones that aren't for you!
    Listen to music that makes you feel badass and soon enough you will be back on your shit! good luck
     
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  19. dekadent30

    dekadent30 Power Member

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    I have the same problem. I'm in IM for 11 years and i make 10-20$/day. I'm so depressed, can't scale up any methods. Now i'm in porn uploading and no matter how hard i work i can't scale up. Fuckin porn sites (xvideos) ban my accounts super fast. I have some other methods but they bring me pennies. I started own porn tube site. It is half year old and gets 100 uv/day. I use reddit/sex.com/SEO to increase traffic but i fail. After 11 years of practice even monkey would earn more than me. I'm struggling for 5 last years. I used to earn good money before, but everything in IM changes so fast. Google is so smart, i can't rank any websites anymore.. :(
     
  20. ogretardo

    ogretardo Newbie

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    I am only a noob so maby my advice doesnt mean shit to you, but anyway i will try! :D
    i think whats maby causing problems for you is that you all the time wanna fuck the system and fuck over some people to get benefits. If google is shutting down your websites that means that you were using shady/sketchy methods to rank them. If 5 years ago you would start many sites where you find niches where you can compete and provide quality that people appreciate 100% you would have much more lasting income from them probably?
    Any way - with 10 years of experience im sure you will bounce back if you try hard enough, i will be rooting for you!