Hello Ladies and Gentlemen, I greet you all. Well this is my first official post here, so I'd like to introduce myself. Who I am = I am a man from Africa, Michael by name, Physical Appearance = Tall, dark and handsome. What I do = I am a web developer, I develop any kind complex websites using CMS frameworks. Of recent however, I began taking programming lessons to improve my web programming ability. Why I joined BHW = To help and be helped. The Urgent Help I need Right Now = Actually, am a quiet guy, gentle and shy at times. That is the way i grew up, and have been living like that for years, but of recent, most of my friends are complaining that am too dull... Quiet - Yes, but being dull is something I can't understand..Perhaps they are right, because I really need to conquer a lot of fears in my life, like speaking in public, asking a lady out, defending my right even at gun point etc. If anyone here has passed through this same road of rears and conquered, please help me out on the steps to take to conquer my fears and live a more successful life. I appreciate you all - Thanks in advance.