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What people say about me - What i really am!

Discussion in 'Introductions' started by expertfingers, Jun 21, 2013.

  1. expertfingers

    expertfingers Newbie

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    Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,

    I greet you all. Well this is my first official post here, so I'd like to introduce myself.

    Who I am = I am a man from Africa, Michael by name,

    Physical Appearance = Tall, dark and handsome.

    What I do = I am a web developer, I develop any kind complex websites using CMS frameworks. Of recent however, I began taking programming lessons to improve my web programming ability.

    Why I joined BHW = To help and be helped.

    The Urgent Help I need Right Now = Actually, am a quiet guy, gentle and shy at times. That is the way i grew up, and have been living like that for years, but of recent, most of my friends are complaining that am too dull... Quiet - Yes, but being dull is something I can't understand..Perhaps they are right, because I really need to conquer a lot of fears in my life, like speaking in public, asking a lady out, defending my right even at gun point etc.

    If anyone here has passed through this same road of rears and conquered, please help me out on the steps to take to conquer my fears and live a more successful life.

    I appreciate you all - Thanks in advance.
     
  2. SmileAtmyWins

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    Try cold calling. It will give you more interaction with the public, give you more things to talk about, make you money, and perhaps even break you from you shy shell. I hope you try it and I hope it helps. If you need any tips on cold calling, feel free to PM me or even google it.
     
  3. MatthewLT

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    Hey ^.^ Welcome To BHW, good luck!
     
  4. Conor

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    Michael, google "Be set free fast"...learn it, it will change your life, you can get it for free, just search torrents. I am an ex- panic attacks, social anxiety, all sorts of fears sufferer and taking the decision that "that's enough, no more"+this technique,, did wonders for me. Good luck!
     
  6. sitec

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    nice to see you here. enjoy this site
     
  7. expertfingers

    expertfingers Newbie

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    Thanks bro, I will surely try it.
     
  8. expertfingers

    expertfingers Newbie

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    Thanks for the advice, I have started it and have gotten some nice tips like, attacking the fear instead of running from it, controlling your breathing when you feel afraid etc. Nice one from you - thanks.
     
  9. expertfingers

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    I am from Nigeria... Thanks man!
     
  10. young player

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    Go out and smile at 20 people a day, make eye contact for 2 seconds and wave high just like they are doing every single day. (PIC BELOW)You will get used to it and before you know you will have more friends.

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  11. umerjutt00

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    Try going out on a daily basis. Meet with new people, talk with them. I also faced a similar situation and going out and meeting with new people really helps. It will increase your confidence and a point will come when you will be able to go out and do whatever you want. For starting, try going out with your friends and meet with new people in presence of your friends. This will increase your confidence.
     
  12. elodavid

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    Aaaah, i doubt that will work.Get a social life.use the avenues such as swimming with friends, taking your facebook contacts a lil more seriously,and etc
     
  13. spider7

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    Welcome man....you're at a good place. Lots of good ppl here.
     
  14. apollo24

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    loots of good ppl
     
  15. behnam2016

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    Nice introduction, welcome :)