Paid or not, I suspect paid will get me a better product... I'm building a site that is something of a blog but also has a forum section where people can go to post and reply within conversations. So far it seems every "forum software review" is on a paid-for site, so I thought I'd ask in here, where people likely have experience with different software. I'd like to post on adult subjects and have some adult type forum conversations, as well as maybe a few videos, and the more I read the more I'm learning that some of that might cause me some trouble. I expect to sink a lot of time and research and effort into this, so a subscription or software price is small in comparison. If anyone had some solid input, I'd be glad to hear it. Thanks!