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What is Stopping YOU or Holding YOU back???

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  1. bizzybee76

    bizzybee76 Junior Member

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    What is stopping you from taking action and actually doing something with all of the information at your fingertips on BHW?

    Money?

    Skills?

    Fear?...Of WHAT?

    Motivation...or obviously a lack thereof?
     
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    bizzybee76 Junior Member

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    For me, my biggest road block is fear.

    Fear of the unknown primarily. Fear of failure.
     
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    Nothing. Obviously you're the one with problems starting this thread.
     
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    bizzybee76 Junior Member

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    I just want to know if there are other people on here that are fighting through road blocks...what's wrong with that?
     
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    simplybebop Regular Member

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    Roadblocks are things people make up so they can feel better about being so fucking lazy.
     
  6. bizzybee76

    bizzybee76 Junior Member

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    Interesting...

    Good to know I am the only one here who is trying to overcome.

    Maybe you two should offer your motivational coaching services.
     
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    just DO it
     
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    Dude, there are 100 other threads on BHW just like this one...and a new one pops up each weekend it seems.
     
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    Survival of the fittest my dear, I guess you are just not fit enough.
     
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    Write your first blueprint on a real sheet of paper. that helps.
     
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    as Graphicnut said it , just fukken do it ;:D will solve all your problems and you can make the $$ ;)

    Start figuring out the things and eventually youll get it dont be lazy;)
     
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    For me, the biggest problem is I be minor and girl =D
    My parents give a crap to my online business, don't give me any fcking cent to help me, and when I recive my payments, they hold the money temporary -.-
     
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    People like to be slaves of someone else, the truth is that 99% of the people you present the possibility of making money online will laugh at you and make absurd claims on how ridiculous it is, and then come up with some excuse that "you need to work hard to earn money", "there is no such thing as online money" or my personal favorite, "if that was really possible everyone would be doing it"

    And I'm glad people think like this, because 99% of people are stupid, they are prisoners of the prisons they help to construct, and yes, it is possible, the only reason not everyone is doing it, is because to work at IM, intelligence, organization and vision are required, and most people have none of those parameters.

    When all your thought process goes to who wins American Idol or which celebrity cheated on his marriage, or complain about things they don't even understand, you can't really expect much from people.

    People are stupid, that's a fact, and the mere fact that we are on this forum and aware that this is a reality, we're halfway through to be successful.

    I believe this simple expression is our truth.

    BHW+Action And Work+Concentration= 100% Success
     
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  14. welshman

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    I didn't have a roadblock, I had a speedbump. My problem was I didn't know how to code a page properly, so I spent 2 or 3 days learning how to use dreamweaver and got my first 3 iframe sites up this week. Have spent about 2 hours promoting the websites and have made $75 in a 36 hour period. Not huge I know, but I'm steadly rolling it out. Don't have much time to spend in front of a PC during a weekend.
     
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    Its not a question of whats holding us back..its more like,do we have what it takes to take a method right to the end.

    It makes no sense to start up a project and dont go all the way to the finish line,that would be a complete waste of time(and could actually lose lots of money).Its either you do it or you don't. Its that simple.

    Everyone has their own roadblocks..either financial,skills, support or lack of experience.The list goes on.

    If there is only small hurdles that you think you could overcome,then its worth the effort to try it out.

    Remember,Trial and Error is the winning combination.Just dont let it bite you in the ass and make sure you know when to bail out.(hopefully not too late).

    Something fails? who cares move on and you will eventually hit it,and when you do,you will know it.
     
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    Funny...

    I actually put this post up because of the posts I see on several of the forums I am on...

    I find it interesting that most people do not take action so I wanted to know what is holding people back. Most of you are more interested in slamming me or assuming that I am simply whining or whatever.

    Yes, I struggle with fear...but do I let that STOP me? No, I push through it.

    ******** hit it on the head that it is mindset. All about mindset. And that is something that so profoundly interests me.

    I see posts on these forums all the time and they are ALL the same. Someone posts a method, the first half a dozen people say "that's awesome" and then 6 pages later it has simply turned into a whine fest of WHY it won't work, why it's saturated, why the idea sucked to begin with, blah blah blah. I just wonder how many of the Poo-poo'ers ACTUALLY tried the method...

    Maybe they don't have money for a domain, maybe they're afraid of getting banned...maybe their dad told them they were a worthless piece of shit every day since they were born and they have no confidence to do anything other than work at Burger King and dream of a better life.
     
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    See, that's awesome. I know most people would just give up and say "fuck it!" I don't know how to code.

    I started coding websites about 7 years ago in college, it didn't come by telepathy! Bottom line, you took action, now scale it up and keep working!
     
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  18. welshman

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    I dont have time during weekends because I spend time with my wife and 4 year old daughter who hardly see me during the week because I have to work. I can however spend time on my pc during the week as I do have time then. was just saying I dont have time during weekends, but now that my project is profittable, I will be working it like crazy during the week.
     
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    Thanks for the motivation :) Appreciate it.
     
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    I know how you feel. I have a son who will be 4 this summer, and my husband works during the day and is out of town one to two weeks a month.

    It is hard to make time. Believe me. My mom helps us out by watching our son during the week. He even spends the night with her one night a week so that I can have extra time to work.