So I've decided to try using some of the IM techniques on a dating site. If I send messages to girls what would be good titles to force them to want to read the message within? I was sending messages at 1st but then realized the title was the stupid default 'hi' which would have explained my poor initial CTR besides me being hideously ugly at least- but they wouldn't know that yet. So what are titles that impel them to look at a message? I reckon general IM methods will work here too.