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Was my girlfriend going to have sex with her ex? Need your help...

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by TimeKing, Dec 12, 2013.

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What do you think?

  1. She was just going to Chicago to clear her head.

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  2. She was going to Chicago to have sex with her ex.

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  1. TimeKing

    TimeKing Registered Member

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    Okay so here is the the short version of this situation. About 6 months ago me and my girlfriend had a pretty bad fight and she said it was over. I took it as most men do and brushed it off as she was just mad and would get over it. Little did I know she was really done in her mind and she believed that we were done. That same night she went on Facebook and messaged her ex who lives in Chicago a happy birthday. They started messaging on Facebook and after a day of chatting she booked an airplane ticket to go see him. She was going to leave in 4 days but after only 2 days we worked everything out as I knew we would. Now I was unaware that this had happened and we now live together and plan to get married next year. But 3 months ago I was on her iPad and checked her trash folder and found a cancelled airline ticket to Chicago. When I confronted her on it she told me that in her mind we were done and she was just going to go to Chicago to hang out with her ex. Now I am not mad at all that she booked the ticket. It was a good reason for her to think it was over but we are now debating her story. I am going to poll this to the BHW community and you tell me what you think. I think she was going to see her ex and have horrible sex with him and she says she was just going so that she could get away from me and clear her head. You guys help me out and hopefully clear this up for us.
     
  2. gundamwing

    gundamwing Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    hahahha you love her so much ... damn negatif thinking coming up
    love is blind
     
  3. lmxftw

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    the D - she was gonna get it :)
     
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  5. Masterptc

    Masterptc Regular Member

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    Pretty obvious why are you even asking?
     
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  6. pxoxrxn

    pxoxrxn Supreme Member

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    She probably wasn't planning for that to happen, but probably not planning for it to not happen. When exes hang out, it usually involves some P in the V.
     
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  7. TimeKing

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    She thinks that I am crazy for thinking that you can't have an ex for a friend.
     
  8. mickyfu

    mickyfu Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    You are asking questions like this, and considering getting married? Good luck, you will need it. Yes anyway, I often split up with my girlfriend then get a flight to one of my ex's, because I just need the company. It is obvious why she was going, she was going to get her back doors broken in.
     
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  9. pxoxrxn

    pxoxrxn Supreme Member

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    The question you should be asking is what position were they going to do first?
     
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  10. dollarzz

    dollarzz Regular Member

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    So everytime you guys have an argument, she goes buying airline tickets to her ex....? Are you the same as she is? If not I would get another girl fuck her and then dump the bitch. I wouldnt trust a girl that goes around chatting to other guys in some way after a discussion fight, break or whatever... I wouldnt do that.

    anyways from the facts. She did cancel her flight. and didnt told you anything about it. Maybe she came to her senses, maybe you guys had a big fight. Maybe she went over for sex. maybe she has still a good bond with her ex. Who knows. Thats for you to decide... If she doesnt have a good bond with her ex, like still beeing friends I would have my doubts about it...
     
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  11. KraftyKyle

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    Honestly, that's a huge character flaw in her if she was going to go back to her ex the week that you guys had a fight. What happens when you two fight in marriage? Come on now.
     
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  12. mickyfu

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    Yes and no doubt bare back too. Then she comes back pregnant and tries to blame you, next you are spending your life bringing up someone elses kid thinking it is yours. Anyone who can just have an argument and book a flight for a sex session with there ex, will just as easy go out one night and take it off some random guy. This is fact.
     
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  13. dollarzz

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    It is possible have seen it before, sometimes people just cant be in a relation and have peace with it. but still be friends.. I couldnt do it
     
  14. oxonbeef

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    Ditch her and grow some balls.
    Are you always going to be someones second choice.
    You and the ex should tell her to GTFO, running between you and playing you both like
    she's all that.
    She wouldn't of been allowed back the first time in my house.
    You're going to be pussy whipped the rest of your life if you allow this
    to continue.
    As Mickyfu said she deffo got her back doors smashed in!
    Revenge sex is the filthiest.
     
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  15. lmxftw

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    maybe she cancelled the ticket because that bloke came... to visit her instead or maybe she was just trying to blow... off some steam
     
  16. mickyfu

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    Loose women prey on naive men, it is fact. They do not want you for anything other than security, they are not interested in you. They know they can shit on you as much as they like without you questioning them.
     
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    First of all if you are not having faith on her right now how will you live a happy married life with your girlfriend?

    Then this is your personal life you have to think and take strong decision by yourself who are we or anyone else to poll about your relationship.
     
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    Don't think it would have been Horrible sex man!

    It was an EX, anything goes, both these guys know they aren't getting back together so any sex will be the last time. No holds barred man, she would have been hanging off him.

    Then, probably back to you with a wee tear in her eye telling you that you are the greatest.

    Dude! If you trust her then what do you have to worry about. If you don't trust her, then FFS don't get married or you will always be checking over your shoulder. I think the problem lies in the fact that you were even checking her trash on the pad. If you trusted her you wouldn't be sneaking around trying to catch her out. What were you hoping to find in the trash folder?
     
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    This. If the trust is so far gone that you're checking her trash folders, then it's over. Tell her and move on with your life.
     
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    She was going to Chicago to have sex with her ex.
    Already Got 13 Votes Out Of 14.

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