Okay so here is the the short version of this situation. About 6 months ago me and my girlfriend had a pretty bad fight and she said it was over. I took it as most men do and brushed it off as she was just mad and would get over it. Little did I know she was really done in her mind and she believed that we were done. That same night she went on Facebook and messaged her ex who lives in Chicago a happy birthday. They started messaging on Facebook and after a day of chatting she booked an airplane ticket to go see him. She was going to leave in 4 days but after only 2 days we worked everything out as I knew we would. Now I was unaware that this had happened and we now live together and plan to get married next year. But 3 months ago I was on her iPad and checked her trash folder and found a cancelled airline ticket to Chicago. When I confronted her on it she told me that in her mind we were done and she was just going to go to Chicago to hang out with her ex. Now I am not mad at all that she booked the ticket. It was a good reason for her to think it was over but we are now debating her story. I am going to poll this to the BHW community and you tell me what you think. I think she was going to see her ex and have horrible sex with him and she says she was just going so that she could get away from me and clear her head. You guys help me out and hopefully clear this up for us.