:( Wanted to share my pain with you..

Guess what, it IS their house, maybe they keep telling you that because you keep doing stupid shit you're not supposed too?

Try helping out once in a while, vacuuming, loading the dishwasher, maybe after dinner, clear the table without being asked.

You know, show some respect to the people that are feeding and supporting you. You might find that they don't scorn you if they see you as a CONTRIBUTING MEMBER OF THE HOUSEHOLD.

GROW UP YOU SPOILED BRAT YOU MAKE ME SICK.
 
After reading all the reviews here in BHW I am really impressed.. wonder what happened to OP.. he shld have read the replies made by the experienced guys here..

Anyway, just like other people said.. hang in there and don't leave the house. Respect and adjust with the rules.. everyone has there day! Have some patience and make some cash quickly.. never leave parents for money too!
 
Suck it up man.

Take advantage of where your at, and be lucky you found this place at such a young age.

Start banking off of the info around here, and see staying where your at as a small sacrifice you made to get where you wanna be.

It doesn't get any easier by far in the "real world". Save yourself some face, because it sounds like at this point, you'll be crawling back home before to long anyways, and then your folks will really have the upperhand on ya.

An impulse move like that is only gratifying for a moment, then reality sets in.
 
Oh teenage angst. Maybe he got caught masturbating and is just freaking out about the whole thing.

You're actually doing the right thing. Consider this - Your folks were probably much happier before you were born... The chances of your birth having been planned, BZZZZZ - don't think so.

Imagine just how much freedom you'll be giving BACK to your parents! You're actually doing the right thing there broham. Just don't be a weenie and come back home when it gets dark, pissing yourself coz 'the streets' are rough and not nearly as cool as the movies make them out to be.

You werent looking for advice... well you got a heap of GREAT advice from a few people up there.

You werent looking for pity... thats all you're going to get from me and I wholeheartdly agree with Kayzne's closing remarks.
 
Internet access is a must in this business, get yourself a modified cable modem. If you have any questions about what that is, PM me
 
I'm with katzne. Listen u dirtbag. You forgot your parents invested their entire life from birth to diapers to feeding you to caring for you. 18 phukin years the suffered to raise you. And now you want FREEDOM. MAN just realize what sacrifice your parents did for u.
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Guess what, it IS their house, maybe they keep telling you that because you keep doing stupid shit you're not supposed too?

Try helping out once in a while, vacuuming, loading the dishwasher, maybe after dinner, clear the table without being asked.

You know, show some respect to the people that are feeding and supporting you. You might find that they don't scorn you if they see you as a CONTRIBUTING MEMBER OF THE HOUSEHOLD.

GROW UP YOU SPOILED BRAT YOU MAKE ME SICK.

seriously. kids these days make me sick.

grow the fuck up.
 
Get ready for the next guy who tells you it's your place, but he still owns it and you'll have to follow certain rules.. The Landlord. Wait till you meet one of those.

Lol, did you think we would agree with you?

Unless you have the bank to BUY your own property.. ur screwed. You are MUCH better off at home then trying to get people of no relation to let you have your way.

To be honest.. if you were my son.. I would tell ya to go.. and when you came back I would start to charge you rent.

Speaking from Experience.. having lived in the street/woods - Good friggin Luck, to be honest unless you are suffering abuse you sound a bit of a dick.

-Mus
 
Dude, I know your young, and at 18 you have no idea how hard the world really is.

Let me tell you from personal experience, if you do this, YOUR MAKING THE BIGGEST
MISTAKES OF YOUR LIFE!! This mistake is going to set your path to success back years.

All of this because you don't like the house rules?? I have news for you, everywhere you
go in life there are rules, get used to it. The only time that you can make your own rules
is if you make enough money to call your own shots.

So be smart. Follow the house rules and give your parents any help you can.
Stop thinking that your parents owe you anything....there job was to keep you alive
till your 18. They don't owe you a damn thing after that. It's there house, they have to
work everyday to provide the things you take for granted. Stop acting like a little child,
and actually think about how well you have it.

One thing for sure, if you do leave, you will look back on that decision as one of the
worst mistakes of your life.
 
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WOW, THANK YOU BHW!


Really, honestly, truly, I knew I'd feel better posting here, but seriously, THAT better?

WOW, special thanks to the following users:
pewep
topsytips
knight_SEO
clopper
The Negociator
sagarbest
theleadsource
djedje70
thegodyouthank (specially you :) )
Scotland
simplebeans
sidddd
spollacs
jay101

I wasn't looking for advice, and I didn't get that.. Got something much better from you people. Thank you everyone who LITERALLY supported me, and sorry to the people who got pissed because of me.

Now, I may sound I'm kissing BHW's ass.. Well, I'm actually french kissing it! Feelings were unloaded here at peak time, but after having calmed down and read your posts, I can see much clearer!

Feels good getting both views of the situation (I even liked the flaming posts :) )


Thanks again mates...
 
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Some of you guys need to chill with the bashing. We have all been young once and have wanted "to just get out" at some point but most of us came back to our senses and stayed put.

The OP is a teenager and will grow up. It is inevitable. I doubt he will pack up and leave because he would have already done so if he really wanted to.

To those who were supportive, +rep. Communication in a civilized manner is the best way to handle teenage stuff like this. Parents will be parents and as long as they are not bums they will always, always have ur best interest at heart.

Hence my advice to the OP, is to take it damn easy, light up a roll, sip on some cold bud and get back to whatever u do on the internet. That is where u should be going to, ie, the INTERWEBS.
 
It's okay for the bashing :) Lol.. Dunno what happened to me this time.. Thank you again mates :)

(Post count disabled here, don't flame again :p )

EDIT: Did I deserve a negative rep though? :S I think everyone has got problems, and it's not that I did take any wrong action :S .. Anyways lol..
 
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Glad to see that by the time I got to the bottom of the post, everything that needed to be said already had been, and even more glad that you've changed your mind about 'living on the streets.' (At least for now.;))

Being a teenager is stressful, indeed. In the grand scheme of things, however, being a homeless teenager is far more stressful than having to put up with your parents' rules. Sounds like you're already off to a better start, though.

Here's a plan: tough it out at your folks house while you build multiple sources of steady income via the internet. Save your money and get an apartment. Increase your efforts, increase your income, and continue to save your money. Put a down payment on a house, a really nice one. Move in. Invite your folks over for dinner. Doorbell rings, folks step in and you look down and yell, pointing at their feet, "HEY! Take off your fuckin shoes in my house!"

With focused effort, this could be accomplished before your 21st birthday.
 
Dude, unless you have a lot of money right now, the rules are only gonna get worse the longer you live on this planet. Most parents are reasonable and give their kids lots of flexibility, but thats only if they are respectful.

I kind of suspect you are one of those people who spend 23 hrs a day in their room chatting, gaming and IMing. Of course parents object to that lifestyle. Try to act normal, get some air, show some interest and initiative around the house. Talk with your parents and keep your so called "angst" checked at the door. You want to smoke a bone, drink a pop or finger bang some chick -take it out of the house. Thats only respectful. Most everyone does that shit n a car or at a party or something until they get their own pad.
 
I moved out when I was 18 then moved back in after I didn't like the taste of the real world. It's better to slide into it then get thrown into it. I'm out now and I can say for sure that moving out when I was 18 was a bad choice.
 
WOW, THANK YOU BHW!


Really, honestly, truly, I knew I'd feel better posting here, but seriously, THAT better?

WOW, special thanks to the following users:
pewep
topsytips
knight_SEO
clopper
The Negociator
sagarbest
theleadsource
djedje70
thegodyouthank (specially you :) )
Scotland
simplebeans
sidddd
spollacs
jay101

I wasn't looking for advice, and I didn't get that.. Got something much better from you people. Thank you everyone who LITERALLY supported me, and sorry to the people who got pissed because of me.

Now, I may sound I'm kissing BHW's ass.. Well, I'm actually french kissing it! Feelings were unloaded here at peak time, but after having calmed down and read your posts, I can see much clearer!

Feels good getting both views of the situation (I even liked the flaming posts :) )


Thanks again mates...

So, seeing this gave me that warm fuzzy feeling. No homo.

That isn't a story a tell to many people. I actually left my browser open on this thread and the girl I have been with for over a year now saw the thegodyouthank (specially you :) ) part of your post while I was in the shower and decided she wanted to see what I said that was so worth giving me an extra special thanks for.

Apparently finding this out about me was actually a + and not a - to my character. This is going off a conversation/argument we had about two weeks ago regarding the fact that I run fairly cold emotionally when it comes to the rest of the human race that isn't within my tight circle. I guess it says something about me (to her at least) that I was willing to relate something from my past in an attempt to help someone in the present, I don't know...

Anyway, I am actually glad something I said may have helped someone, so I guess she does win that argument.
 
Like I said, recurring motivation and support.. :)

Lol thegodyouthank.. Usually I blackhat my mates' gfs into thinking that my friends (the ones with whom they are going out) are great guys! I'm glad that in your case, it was all whitehat :) lol
 
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