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Those who change when they figure out you make $$$ online

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by richjtf, Nov 12, 2015.

  1. richjtf

    richjtf Junior Member

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    I had a few friends i talked to when i started on IM, back then they just laughed out loud at me for being so 'naive' saying i was just wasting my time, now that i'm making about $500~$600 each month off IM(It's something), they completely changed the way they treat me and want me to tell them what i'm doing and probably want me to spoonfeed them as well.

    Should i tell them to fuck off or should i give them a kickstart help?
    Have you experienced anything like this?
     
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  3. maddesthatter

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    Tell them to***off. They are looking for a free leg up now you've done the hard work.

    And why have I got a message saying:"You are trying to post a message that has triggered our moderation system. Double check our rules to make sure you are posting something that is appropriate. We don't tolerate any selling, posting contact information, urls, swearing"

    Everyone swears on here!!!
     
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    OP, in your previous threads, you said you just started IM last month and hadn't made any money.

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    You should probably keep on good terms with your friends, just in case you need them to help cover next months rent.
     
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  6. richjtf

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    Hi, i hadn't made money from methods i read here by that point(have now, check other posts) but i have been making money online from other methods for a while, i haven't read anything about what i do anywhere on these forums though.

    I have only two friends who believed in me, one is a great writter and i'm helping him with kindle unlimited(learnt about it here), the other one is a regular guy like me and i helped him too, he is making like $200~$300 i spoonfed him because he is a good guy and childhood friend too. But the rest of my friends even some family members laughed at me and now they are all changed..

    I know what you mean but in my county $150 is a months worth of rent and food. But yeah i could need their help in the future too anyway.

    I know i shouln'd talk about this or what i will do with anyone, i have to learn to keep my mouth shut, i really do.
     
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    But seriously though what do you guys say when your friends ask you what do you do all day sitting home?? I'll be like dude pause.......
     
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    I don't give a fuck what they say or anyone else says, if they ask me what to do to make money I just reefer them here...its more then enough help from me.
     
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    When someone asks me what i do - i just point to the expensive stuff i own and say nothing.

     
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    All my friends come asking me for ways to make money online and I directly link them to Blackhatworld.com.
    I mean,if you don't take the time or have the patience to read and test then IM is probably not for you. Besides,whatever I make these days I give BHW full credits for it so if I can by just reading and implementing then so can you.

    Even my best friend asks me for methods and I have given him a few but he gets bored pretty soon and gives up. And then I gave him something to drive traffic from Facebook to sites and he's doing pretty well for himself.

    So if you think your friends are trying to learn to make money online to only gloat about it later then surely give them the middle finger. If they're in it to establish something long term and actually learn something then only direct them to BHW.

    Cheers! :D
     
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    Whenever my friends ask me how to earn money online, I send them here :p ;)
     
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    if they are asking for you help in IM, say what they said you.. just laugh out loud while saying "don't be so naive, and don't waste your time".. ;D
     
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    Forget friends, get dem hoes with that money.

    Make it rain on dem hoes.

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    OP, as others have suggested use your BHW Referral Link and send them here.
    80% of the people will give up immediately once they realise it requires actual work, sacrifice and dedication to make things happen.
     
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    Make them sign up under your affiliate links. You'll have one more reason to teach them what you know, and you'll be a good friend also.
     
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    by the way
    What is IM?
    internet making?
     
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    Experienced this quite a bit. Don't let hindsight cover your judgment. You could have easily failed, and they could have been proven right. The tides has turned. Before you weren't making any money so you were laughed at. The primary reason being that they just can't believe you can make money online or that you couldn't do it. Now that the situation has changed and you have earnings, you actually know what you are doing.

    They genuinely believed that you were wasting time. People cannot handle uncertainty and many reject going to unconventional paths. You took a unconventional road and got rewarded for it. Now, they want a piece of that action "if he can do it, why not me?"

    Don't tell them to fuck off. If you want to help them, then help them. If you don't you don't. You might need these friends in the future. Your situation might change. And, realize that you could have just as easily laughed at one of your friends for something that he/she wanted to do.
     
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    5 months ago, i was sitting with a couple of close friends and decided to tell them about IM, they laughed on me like there is no tomorrow, addition to make my life better, proving that people who laughed at me are wrong is my second motivation.

    i remember explaining adsense for a friend and gave him an exemple when i was totally new to IM, if someone click on ad you get about 0.07$ he told me exactly this "i'll give 1$ if you shut up", those words felt like is stabbing me.
     
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    No, that's a very wrong way to thing about it. If a person has laughed at you once, he will laugh at you again. There's billions of people in this world. Get away from people who don't fully support you if you value your time and yourself.
     
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