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This is all ridiculously frustrating >:( I have no money!

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  1. snowberry

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    I'd never think trying to make money would be this hard. it feels as if the universe is trying to sabotage me and prevent me from making any money, no matter how 'simple' the method there is ALWAYS a roadblock standing in my way, or requires funds I don't have to start which is a big risk for me cause I have no income and would likely accumulate more debt instead. I'm broke with no income, empty bank account, some credit card debt and I'm running out of time to pay it off before grace period ends

    it's always just the same advice everywhere...create website/blog, build email list, amazon, affiliate marketing, CPA, adsense etc etc. and it's always slow non-guaranteed methods. I need urgent money, as in NOW, esp cause I have debt to pay and don't have time to spend months trying to get something to work and just fail while accumulating more debt and getting harrassed to pay it off again. I already ruined my credit big time before all b/c I couldn't pay off my debt and maxed out the card. I'm already a failure at life and can't even get a cr*ppy min wage job anywhere, (only temp jobs through AGENCIES which they always terminated me early I gave up on those). you have to jump through so many hoops and kiss a** for a slave job I hate it. I tried online classifieds too but they don't respond unless it's a scam or whatever, or the job poster flakes on me and stops replying for an unknown reason. I have no skills or smarts either just able to do repetitive stuff

    I keep coming across a holy grail method that's too good to be true and they always are, or are very misleading with earning potential (youtube is full of those vids).

    I am thinking about getting into the stock market but I have no startup money to invest except through credit card (probably not possible that way) and it's not fast enough to pay off my debt. I am stupid at math (always was) and worried it will be all confusing and not idiotproof

    what do I do? just accept being a failure and stay poor? don't say nonsense like "you need hard work and dedication and fail 100x bla bla..." i don't even have time for that motivational bs, I need money now and NO I'm not going to sell myself (too ugly anyway)

    I don't know where else to post this rant sorry
    :help:
     
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  2. jazzc

    jazzc Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    Take a bucket, some water and a bit of soap. Go around the neighborhood and ask if you can wash the car for $5.

    Once you get really fed up with pointless labor, you'll stop bitching about how hard it is to make money online and how "the universe is trying to sabotage you".
     
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  3. jgeeked

    jgeeked Regular Member

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    That's life for the majority of people, why are you different?

    Better start kissing some ass and get yourself even a temp job so you can stat bringing some money in to get the ball rolling.
     
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  4. ja1myn

    ja1myn Senior Member

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    Get off this forum.
     
  5. Asif WILSON Khan

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    Nobody likes a whiner OP, some people around the world are worried how they are going to feed their children tonight.
    If you can't make money online then get off your arse and do something offline.
    There are ALWAYS shit jobs available that nobody else wants to do, so you do have the opportunity to make money, are you brave enough to do them though?
    Sometimes YOU HAVE TO do things that you feel are beneath you, and it is worthwhile, if it helps you get nearer your goals.
    The reason you feel like a loser is because you are acting like one. Try acting like a winner.
     
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    "what do I do? just accept being a failure and stay poor? don't say nonsense like "you need hard work and dedication and fail 100x bla bla..." i don't even have time for that motivational bs, I need money now and NO I'm not going to sell myself (too ugly anyway)"

    Sell your liver,hair and eyeballs
    THIS METHOD WORKS 100 %
     
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    It's better to kiss someone's ass and be paid than stay at home and bitch how cruel is the world to you.
     
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    Well here is a nice math problem for you.

    You put $5,000 in the stock market from a credit card.

    The stock makes 7% annually on average.

    The credit card has a 24.99% interest rate.

    How quickly are you going to lose money?
     
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  9. Allark

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    And why do you think you are in this situation ? A lot of people have been in dept, jobless etc in their life, yet some come out of it while others cry and remain jobless and in debt.
    It's your attitude and people skills that make the difference. Think of it like that - you have 2 guys in a job interview. One is very pumped up, shows gratitude for the opportunity and has a positive view on life and is not afraid of obstacles. The other guy is stressed, sad or just doesn't even seem to care anymore. If all qualifications were a match between those two, who would be hired ?
    Just because you think life is unfair to you doesn't mean someone will bring you a roll of money on a silver platter.
    The choice is completely up to you - remain with this attitude and stay in this situation OR change your attitude from "why me" to "what can I do to change it ?"

    The human brain is very interesting in the way that the unconscious mind often sees things that your conscious mind thinks. So when you think like is unfair to you it will see all the things that others have and you don't. When you think you are gonna make bank it will start to see opportunities that come your way. In both cases, everything is the same, yet your perception is completely different. (Similar to learning a new word - suddenly you see it everywhere or thinking about buying that car and boom, now you see in on every street corner).
     
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    How about stop being a little bitch? xD Just find a job!

     
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  11. Ste Fishkin

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    If it was easy every fucker would be doing it.
     
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  12. MichaelJon

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    Allark is bang on mate. It's all in how we perceive things. I know you said no motivational 'BS' but why the hell not? Sometimes you've just got to change your perception and what you see in the world. Take responsibility, don't take no for an answer and believe in yourself. If you don't believe in yourself then no one else ever will. 'Fake it till you make it' worked for me. Start seeing the good in the smallest things. Think about it on a conscious level and things will start to get better.

    I know this doesn't help you to make money. But, in reality, no one is going to show you how to make money. They are too busy making money for themselves and their loved ones. You've gotta figure it out on your own. Learn from everything.
     
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  13. alemar

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    You are looking for easy and quick money, with no investment? Come to the real world.

    I will give you an advice: make a plan, no matter if it is offline or online, and work HARD on it, work on your plan every hour in your life for some months, and build a business around it, but do not try here and there. You must target your objective, like a cheetah to its selected gazelle.

    If you have time and nothing more to try, I can suggest you an objective. Skype me and I will guive you a target.
     
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  14. n8800

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    Start small and work your way up...Setup a blogger blog. make a post here looking for someone to run you a few keywords on there longtailpro ( lots of helpful people around) start writing on the keywords you are given. build the blog until you make the $100 threshold on adsense or amazon. wait for the money to arrive and do research while your waiting. buy a domain and either build upon what you have already created which would be a good idea and once it reaches a $30-$40 a month from adsense sell it on flippa. once you have $500-$1000 buy the necessary tools to do what you did all over again, but in a better manner.

    If you want to make money it's all up to you. When you have no starting income to put into the website it's generally 300x harder to get where you want to get. But if your PERSISTENT You'll be able to pull it off. PERSISTENCE is Key!
     
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  15. Cryogenesis

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    Firstly start off with a more positive approach to things.
    Making a website isn't the only way to make money on the Internet. There's a whole lot of other things. You could've easily made some cash through Freelancer,Fiverr,Upwork or even Microworkers.
    If you felt that you weren't made for IM,you should've quit right then and looked for an offline job. You're so determined to fail and brand yourself a failure. There's something called self-worth that you're seriously missing. Flip burgers if you have to but just get off your ass and look for a job.And when you're free enough,give this book a read - What To Say When You Talk To Yourself.

    The unconscious plays a very major role in what you eventually become and you need to seriously change the way you think,even unconsciously.

    Oh and,if it were easy everyone would be rich.

    Hardwork. Determination. Consistency.
     
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  16. killwinter

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    Sounds like all you got is credit card debt? Who cares? That's not going to ruin your life. Stop worrying about your credit score man, it's all a bunch of BS.

    Suggestion: Find out what's something you're really good at doing and focus on trying to find ways to monetize it. That's it! If you don't know how to monetize it then ask other people for ideas! If you're not smart enough to make money online, like you're saying, then stop focusing on trying to make money online!! STOP focusing on your weaknesses and START focusing on your STRENGTH and getting better at that!
     
  17. UnleashTheWolf

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    After reading this, I have one bit of advice.

    NEVER ENTER THE STOCK MARKET
     
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    I highly agree with this. OP, your mindset will end up clouding your judgement and you'll lose more than you bargained for. If you can't even make money online, what makes you think you can possibly read a candlestick chart properly? The stock market isn't easy money either. You need to be able to see potential reversals, see boxed ranges, and most importantly, be able to see and accept the risk while being confident that the equity will reach the target. You need to be able to accept losses too. If you can't even accept that websites aren't guaranteed to give you money, then don't even bother with the stock market.
     
  19. Oz0102

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    Some of us went on for years, failing and failing again till we found what works on the net and never made a thread venting out our frustration. This shows internet business isnt for you. If you have a degree, i suggest you get a job. If you don't go learn skill or something and get useful offline. Im not trying to be hard on you, just the hard truth..
     
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    Welcome to the real world, where there is no instant magic money as promised at the WF. Well there is if you like sucking cock, but that is about it.
     
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