I'm going to try to make this short as possible.. My female cousin has 3 wonderful kids. The father of these 3 kids is a dead beat, a lower than dirt POS. He left my cousin for this other girl that has 3 kids of her own. After 5 years, my cousin and the dead beat dad are still married, but both are seeing other people. The Dead beat dad won't help my cousin with his kids at all, and he refuse to get a divorce. The dead beat dad and this bitch that he is with lives in a single wide trailer, that is rotting down. Roof leaks, the place stinks of piss, ceiling falling in, rat dropping in the cabinets, big ass roaches everywhere. What happend (in order) 1) My cousin was forcing the divorce and going to make him pay child's support. 2) The Husband and his girl friend told my cousin she was going to regret it, and his girlfriend call my cousin and told her that she had friends in high places and that she would regret it. 3) Dfcs showed up 3 days later and told my cousin they had reports of my cousin having sex and forcing her kids to watch. 4) The Dfcs lady dissmised the case 5) Week later, my cousin was served papers to come to court, and to bring the kids.. The lady that did the interview wasn't even in the court room, some other women was that didn't do the interviews. The Judge didn't even hear from my cousin and ordered the kids to be put in the custody of their father. They're making my cousin.... 1) Get a bigger house for her kids (She moved out from her apartment in with her girl friend that has a huge home, that is fancy in a really nice neighborhood).. 2) Attend Parenting Classes [Completed] 3) Forced her to leave her boyfriend that is a disabled ex-marine (she had no choice but to leave him. All 3 of her kids adore him.. The youngest one even calls him dad because his dad didn't have anything to do with the his youngest son for 3 years after he was born!... also, how can the make you dump your loved one?) Even after all this, even after they came out and interviewed everyone in the new house hold... They told her it would be a month before she would know if she get her kids back.... About my cousin 1) Never been in trouble with the law, never had a ticket. 2) Graduated top of her class. 3) She is a nurse, and continuing her schooling to further her career in the medical field. 4) Lived in a 3bdr apartment. About the the husband and his new girl friend. 1) Live in a single wide trailer with 3 kids (now 6 kids) that is invested with roaches, ceiling faling in, in some places and leaks.... 2) Father is a Cross country truck driver (just this year he was allowed to drive by himself... Prior to that, he didn't work for 4 years) 3) The girlfriend is violent, an 8th grade dropout, she has mental problems, hasn't even had a job in her live, and has been convicted of Battery and Cruelty Children 3rd Degree (Here's her arrest and mugshot http://www.justmugshots.com/georgia/buford/575084). And she had her kids taken away for 2 years! There is NO evidence of any kind of what they accused my cousin of. All this is on hear-say from some people that has beef with my cousin...This was a wham bam give me your kids... all within days of telling my cousin that she would regret it, that they had friends in high places! I Swear to you that everything i said above to be true... Not one thing has been fabricated to make my cousin look like a saint. I Worrying myself to death over those kids. My cousin is deeply depressed, and my granny calls crying every day worrying about the kids... If i knew it wouldn't make things worse for my cousin, i would drive my ass down and beat him and her both.