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This Bitch!!!!!! (rant)

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by korfx04, Sep 13, 2013.

  1. korfx04

    korfx04 Junior Member

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    I'm going to try to make this short as possible..

    My female cousin has 3 wonderful kids. The father of these 3 kids is a dead beat, a lower than dirt POS. He left my cousin for this other girl that has 3 kids of her own. After 5 years, my cousin and the dead beat dad are still married, but both are seeing other people. The Dead beat dad won't help my cousin with his kids at all, and he refuse to get a divorce. The dead beat dad and this bitch that he is with lives in a single wide trailer, that is rotting down. Roof leaks, the place stinks of piss, ceiling falling in, rat dropping in the cabinets, big ass roaches everywhere.

    What happend (in order)

    1) My cousin was forcing the divorce and going to make him pay child's support.
    2) The Husband and his girl friend told my cousin she was going to regret it, and his girlfriend call my cousin and told her that she had friends in high places and that she would regret it.
    3) Dfcs showed up 3 days later and told my cousin they had reports of my cousin having sex and forcing her kids to watch.
    4) The Dfcs lady dissmised the case
    5) Week later, my cousin was served papers to come to court, and to bring the kids.. The lady that did the interview wasn't even in the court room, some other women was that didn't do the interviews. The Judge didn't even hear from my cousin and ordered the kids to be put in the custody of their father.

    They're making my cousin....

    1) Get a bigger house for her kids (She moved out from her apartment in with her girl friend that has a huge home, that is fancy in a really nice neighborhood)..
    2) Attend Parenting Classes [Completed]
    3) Forced her to leave her boyfriend that is a disabled ex-marine (she had no choice but to leave him. All 3 of her kids adore him.. The youngest one even calls him dad because his dad didn't have anything to do with the his youngest son for 3 years after he was born!... also, how can the make you dump your loved one?)

    Even after all this, even after they came out and interviewed everyone in the new house hold... They told her it would be a month before she would know if she get her kids back....

    About my cousin

    1) Never been in trouble with the law, never had a ticket.
    2) Graduated top of her class.
    3) She is a nurse, and continuing her schooling to further her career in the medical field.
    4) Lived in a 3bdr apartment.

    About the the husband and his new girl friend.

    1) Live in a single wide trailer with 3 kids (now 6 kids) that is invested with roaches, ceiling faling in, in some places and leaks....
    2) Father is a Cross country truck driver (just this year he was allowed to drive by himself... Prior to that, he didn't work for 4 years)
    3) The girlfriend is violent, an 8th grade dropout, she has mental problems, hasn't even had a job in her live, and has been convicted of Battery and Cruelty Children 3rd Degree (Here's her arrest and mugshot http://www.justmugshots.com/georgia/buford/575084). And she had her kids taken away for 2 years!

    There is NO evidence of any kind of what they accused my cousin of. All this is on hear-say from some people that has beef with my cousin...This was a wham bam give me your kids... all within days of telling my cousin that she would regret it, that they had friends in high places!


    I Swear to you that everything i said above to be true... Not one thing has been fabricated to make my cousin look like a saint.

    I Worrying myself to death over those kids. My cousin is deeply depressed, and my granny calls crying every day worrying about the kids... If i knew it wouldn't make things worse for my cousin, i would drive my ass down and beat him and her both.
     
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  2. steelballs

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    Sorry OP but imho bringing up this subject here is going nowhere...

    You no doubt will get a lot of reaction here, but how will that help!

    ZILCH - Sorry but this is not the best place for this complex drama...:eek:
     
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  4. korfx04

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    It is Complex.... I Just needed to place this somewhere... IDK Why, maybe it was because its just stuck in my head and i needed to tell someone. I'm just so teeth grinding angry at everything right now. Maybe i was looking for some information on what to do to help my cousin.... fuck, idk why i posted this
     
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    Get this to the President or his wife. Seriously, that judge and his/her legal system be hanged publicly. If this happens in the mighty USofA, then only God can help your people. I had tried (in another matter) going to the top levels of FBI, DOJ, US Embassy/Consulate in my land, and got no return answers -- and I was then trying to protect thousands of US citizens privacy... true. While I was trying to get them open their doors or windows, my entire family was in danger because I was against people (including a giant US company) who were trying illegal things (illegal for US people and nation, i.e.)... Then ultimately I got a way to contact the President's website and its topmost officials who took instant notice, and then miraculously the wheels got moving in the right direction.

    The president, I BELIEVE, is also there to function in such matters when other ways fails.

    God bless your cousin and her children. I will also pray for them, of course. There is another bigger and mightier President above the Hon. USofA one, you see.

    P.S.:
    I, if confronted with similar matters again, will again go after getting the President to look into it more sternly and quickly. And so should you because this also concerns TOTAL injustice. For me, I have seen how much those other top (real top) greedy guys who matter, fuck around with injustice, so there is little hope in waking them up yourself...

    Yeah, I'm angry too...
     
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  6. Nigel Farage

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    I know why. It's because you've never learned how to mind your own fucking business.


    There's another couple of cunts that don't know how to mind their own business.
     
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    Stay out of this, honestly, if you have no real solutions for OP, buddy!....
     
  8. susanjabs

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    Please hire any director to create movie on. This is BHW. not a social court to discuss.
    :D
     
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    You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to steelballs again.
     
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    This concerns injustice towards woman and children. We have talked animatedly before on similar concerns... remember 2011nfl's case? Don't forget that OP has a LOT more burning problem than most have with their adsense accounts. Help him as he too is in trouble as much as 2011NFL (James), our one of the most liked BHW members, once was.

    Have heart!
     
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  12. ankame

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    Firstly, sorry to read this... Must be just dam right terrible loosing her kids to him, living in that place... etc. I honestly wish you and the family well in the future.

    Secondly though, why the hell aren't they monetizing that mugshot site I ask myself.
     
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    OP, posting your story on a public forum could actually cause your cousin more problems and damage their case.

    Suggest you ask a Mod to delete the thread.
     
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    Dudes a member since 2009 and maybe feels like he could get some good advice. I have posted shit that wasn't IM related but just wanted some advice because they're some smart people and different views in this forum. No need to bash the guy. Give your advice or move on to the next thread.

    *Although yaaaaa, you shouldn't post actual photos or names of people man.
     
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    I would go have a consultation with a family lawyer and see if there's anyway to get this sorted out. If it were me, I would also start documenting dates and times of any strange events regarding the children and their father/gf (assuming your cousin is still getting visitation with the kids). Also, document anything that happens that shows the father and gf being in bad character. Basically, try to get anything that shows that these people are not fit to have custody of the kids. I noticed you said the father is a truck driver...maybe you guys could call the police if he leaves the kids alone at home with that girlfriend of his. These are just some ideas but I would definitely go to a family lawyer, many offer a free consultation. I've never dealt with a spouse custody issue but I have dealt with some crazy alcoholic grandparents that tried to sue my husband and I for "Grandparents Rights". Our lawyers advice was to always document everything, so that's where that part of my advice comes from. I wish you guys the best of luck and I really hope she gets her kids back. That doesn't sound like a good environment at all.
     
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    this forum is just goin down the hill with this posts we are here to make money not to get depressed and hearing people problems yeah we are a community we share stuff but lately i see more personnal sharing than im related what a waste
     
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    Ok, some serious talk time. Ignore probably 95% of the shit posted in this thread. Since I've had some experience with family law, these would be my suggestions to you.

    First, it's admirable you want to take up the fight for your cousin, but it's her life. You're sounding a tad immature by suggesting you'd go down and beat some ass if you could. What she needs to do is get representation. She can easily go talk to a firm and tell her story and see what sort of payment plan they can put her on. Going into court at this point without representation is legal suicide.

    Secondly, if she hasn't already, she needs to document her story for her new attorney. Everything. Get it down on paper. This will help her new attorney considerably.

    Thirdly, there are several options and angles of attack her attorney go through to start trying to "right the ship". She has to make sure whomeever she gets A) has been doing family law for awhile an B) knows people inside the court system and understands how it all works in your Georgia court district.

    Now, the best thing for YOU to do is to not get so emotionally involved. Stop beating yourself up. All YOU can do is make suggestions to your cousin, as such listed above. That's it. Everything else is HER life, not yours.

    Good luck.

    -few trials
     
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    OP assuming your cousin is a BHW member about the only thing we can do is negative rep her. I suggest you get some counseling so you can talk this out and address your negative energy and thoughts. There are always going to be family dramas how you address them is the real issue.