The World is F*cked

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I can't trust anyone and I can't share with anyone how I feel when I'm down, when I need advice or when I just want t to talk to someone because:
Everyone expects me to be strong and they expect that I should be helping them and they think that I have it all figured it out. So when I try to share how I feel, once someone notices that I'm weak they distance themselves and are leaving me.
I don't have anyone to talk, to share how I feel - cuz if I do they usually look down on me, judge me and leave.

Even my girlfriend expect me to be strong and that she can always relay upon me but whom I can relay upon when I'm don't have the answers?

I guess I would have to fake it, so I look strong because that way the world is like.
 

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Sounds like you are bored and have to much spare time. Here is a tip that always worked for me: learn something new that you have always wanted to do. Man, I can tell you: My life is so jam packed with things to do that I really enjoy doing, that I don’t even have the time to feel down. Focus on creating new things, if you want a happy life.
 

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Life is hard sometimes, take it for what it is, or make it what you want it to be. The choice is yours! Some people look to others for the answers when they don't have them. Chances are if they are coming to you, they feel inferior to you, and either needs your approval or your confirmation because they don't trust themselves.
 

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What are you gonna do, thats life
By looking at it purely by animalistic POV they feel you are a leader and can help them and when you ask for help they feel uncomfortable and distance themselves from you, you need to find yourselves leaders like yourself that can help each other out and stop hanging around losers
 

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Just live and do things that make you happy. The best thing you can do for yourself is focus on YOU. And live free of the world’s opinion about you. If you are feeling down, you can be free about expressing it if you don’t give a crap what anyone has to say
 

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life is shit for many reasons, I also have some deep horrible problems arriving in my face lately, but you have to keep moving forward, no choice, don't lose time with feelings to much, it will eventually change soon. It's not permanent.
 

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My friend, you just don't have the right people around you in your life!
It's okay to be weak, it's okay to be sad. It's okay to mourn. You can't be strong all the time and you shouldn't be.

I hope you find people in your life who will really understand you and help you out.
 

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Don't care for this shit. If they can't see value in you even if you don't have the answers bcs we are humans and there are a lot of things we don't know, stop it and don't be upset because if they leave, most likely, they never been there for you
 

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My advice would be to just be yourself.

If your not yourself then who are you?

I can recommend a very good book called ...

The Daily Stoic

Click here for book

It's for strengthening your mind and making you more resilient.

Its the thoughts & meditations of Marcus auriallas.

It sounds boring until you pick it up.

It will make you see the world in a different light.
 

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Find some hookers. Have a blast. Listen to Motley Crue and pretend you're a 80's rock star. Throw a BBQ. Eat till you puke then eat again. Take a shit in your garden laughing like you're crazy while the neighbor watches.

That oughta do away with this depression shit.
 

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Life is hard sometimes, take it for what it is, or make it what you want it to be. The choice is yours! Some people look to others for the answers when they don't have them. Chances are if they are coming to you, they feel inferior to you, and either needs your approval or your confirmation because they don't trust themselves.
That's great, now I understand why they do it. Thanks man!
 

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So when I try to share how I feel, once someone notices that I'm weak they distance themselves and are leaving me.
Seems like you surround yourself with some shitty friends/people, fck´m, get some new better friends/people in your life, cause they ain´t worth it, kick them to the curb, and focus on people that make you happy first.
 

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As a man you are not loved unconditionally. You are only loved on the bases that you provide something. The sooner you realize that no one actually gives a fuck about you the better it will be for you. Life’s a game, you can either be the one in control or the one being controlled and stuck in the matrix. In this world you need to be toxic and nice, find a balance between good and evil.
 

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My advice would be to just be yourself.

If your not yourself then who are you?

I can recommend a very good book called ...

The Daily Stoic

Click here for book

It's for strengthening your mind and making you more resilient.

Its the thoughts & meditations of Marcus auriallas.

It sounds boring until you pick it up.

It will make you see the world in a different light.
Stoicism is by far the best thing for you to read OP. This is a great suggestion. Fill your mind with the right tools to deal with the broken people you might have in your life without them affecting you (so much).
 

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Your mindset is f*cked
 
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