Hello friends and all BHW. I can't tell you all how thankful I've been for you, I've learned so much and accomplished a lot just from stumbling upon this forum. I was told tonight by a gentleman I was playing poker with to watch this show called "the secret". I know a lot of you might bust out the word gay or retarded but there's so much truth in it that I couldn't just not say something. I mean if some of you feel like you need just a little bit of encouragement to truly take control of your life then I really think just watching it might be enough for you.