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The Official Black Hat Relationship Advice Thread-For Those Who've Been Through It

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by pewep, Jul 23, 2009.

  1. pewep

    pewep Power Member

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    Hi, after all the relationship threads out there where people screwed up (for the most part unknowingly), I decided to make a relationship thread. Post what you learned from your past experience and what you regretted, etc... in order for a more successful future.

    I'll start:

    1. If you're dating long distance, don't do it for longer than 6 months if you're not engaged/married to the girl. It won't work out. Period.

    2. Learn to forgive or you'll never be happy. Ever. The flip side is if your partner can't forgive you unconditionally for most things then don't get into anything serious with them. We're all human.

    3. You will screw up. Don't overdramatize and try to learn from it.
     
  2. pzo1970

    pzo1970 Registered Member

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    Correct,

    If you did screw up.. Admit it sincerely and move on.. Don't Beg..

    If you are a man, you must remember that she has every choice in the world at least for the sexual part.. That is whats going to hurt, but You simply must move forward, If its meant to be its meant to be...
     
  3. plouyd

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    Don't tell a girl you love her if you really don't.

    Don't stay in a relationship if your constantly wondering if you should be in it.

    Don't stay in it for a long period if it's just for sex on your end. You might actually start to like the girl and then it's hard to get away from her when she shits on you.

    Don't give in to EVERYTHING the woman wants you to.

    If your young, you know shes a whore (has a baby, tells u how guys mistreated her, yet she still slept with them, ect) cut your penis off now and get to mexico because your like my good friend, which is screwed. sir.
     
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  4. pzo1970

    pzo1970 Registered Member

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    Ha Ha...

    Please dont cut off your penis, but I hear mexico is good anytime of the year... :)

     
  5. Millygirl

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    Don't stalk, snoop in computers, or through things. If you feel the need to do this, it's time to bounce up out of that relationship.
     
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  6. gbmack

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    I disagree with #1
    Sometimes it works out; all girls are different.
     
  7. ukescuba

    ukescuba Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    my 2 cents...

    treat your woman with the same respect you expect to be treated - if she gets pissed off with you for something you did but you dont understand why, put yourself in there shoes(not literally unless you like that kinda thing! lol) and see if you would be pissed off if she did the same thing to you... tell her to do the same thing if she doesnt understand why your pissed off about something she did... you gotta look at things from both sides of the coin... if you cant reason with each other your relationship is probably doomed! move on! :)

    dont play games period unless your not serious about her in the first place... just be yourself if that aint enough for her move on she aint good enough for you...
     
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  8. orangeblossoms

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    I disagree with #1 too.. I was in a 3 yr long-d relationship. Long-d works out when both people are honest, loyal, and caring. We broke up eventually but for other reasons than long-d.

    Don't put relationships above anything (family, close friends, accomplishments). Relationships come and go.

    Be very very very upfront about who you are, including bad habits, quirks, annoying habits, unchangeable characteristics, values, beliefs. If the other person knows about these and still loves & accepts you, then it's easy sailing from there :p

    Pick someone who knows how & is willing to communicate, and has a sense of humor. That will smooth out 99% of problems.

    Love & accept people for who they are & don't try to change them (unless they dress bad lol).
     
  9. jackanapes

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    Stop fucking whining and
    Stop being such a fucking pussy and
    marry your second wife first.
     
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  10. Sanitarium

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    Get 'er done.
     
  11. pewep

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    Great posts everyone! Keep it coming :)
     
  12. viroid

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    the secret to lasting relationships....

    Treat a woman like a whore and whore like a woman. :)
     
  13. heiny

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    Here's relationship advice: Don't get into one.