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The Neighbor from Hell

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by webdesignsbyapw, Jul 15, 2011.

  1. webdesignsbyapw

    webdesignsbyapw Junior Member

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    Ok, so I have a neighbor who I think is totally obnoxious. Anyways, my husband always gets home from work at 11pm at night. He goes into the house and locks the car. The car makes a beep noise which is not very loud.

    Whenever my husband gets home, my neighbor is directly across from him and starts yelling at him, saying cuss words and all this. He claims that he woke him up with his horn, when he was already outside in the first place.

    He never yells at the other neighbors unless they are minority (we noticed he only does this to hispanic people) Anyways, race has nothing to do with this - it's just a simple observation.

    One day, my husband and I got home from eating out and the minute my husband gets out of the car - he starts yelling at him again. My poor hubby never says anything back because he doesn't know how to stand for himself. Immediately, I start yelling back at the guy and tell him to leave us alone.. then I go back in the house.

    Now, this guy is bad - he sits outside all day and smokes marijuana. He constantly yells at his wife and sometimes people passing by. We on the other hand are very good neighbors - quiet and considerate of those around us.

    My question is - is there anything I can do to get him to stop harassing us? Maybe a restraining order? I consider constant verbal harassment to be abuse in my book.
     
  2. WROMERO

    WROMERO Junior Member

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    You can surely get a restraining order. You can get the files at your local police dept and tell them your situation.
     
  3. ActionTaker

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    Rat poison should do if consumed in sufficiently large doses ;)
     
  4. RMX

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    Restraining order for sure. Also, get a cop to come by to his house right when he's outside smoking the pot.
     
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  5. webdesignsbyapw

    webdesignsbyapw Junior Member

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    Thanks all for letting me know.. yeah, I'm not the type of person to get revenge on someone, I just want to be left in peace.

    Anyways, I think that a restraining order may be possible but I have heard only if there is physical violence involved? I am not sure about this.. if anyone could explain.
     
  6. ActionTaker

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    t0mmy Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    i know what i would do....... so he says you woke him up? then give the fuker what he said you did, WAKE HIM UP! wake the cunt up all hours of the night, torture him to a serious degree that he never opens his silly little mouth to you or your husband again, well i doubt you will do this but this is what i would do haha :)
     
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    You probably can't get a restraining order but odds are your local police or sheriff office has a community peace officer. You call the authorities and ask if you can have someone come by and talk with you.

    Explain the situation and odds are a few days later they will stop by this guy's home and have a chat with him.

    I did that once with a neighbor, the circumstances were a bit different though, and she hasn't said a peep since, hasn't walked on my lawn, hasn't said anything to my wife... nothing.
     
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    Marijuana? is it legal at all? if its illegal, den call cops immediately when he is smoking, u just stand over there with a smile and ask him "did my horn called the cops?" lol (don't let him know u called cops lol)
     
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    Give him some weed laced with DMT, that should make him think...
     
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    Go by his house one friday evening around 16:20 with a bag of weed and tell him you want to make good.
     
  12. MikeHustle

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    Have you guys tried talking to the jack-hole?

    Tell it to him straight-

    I get home from work at 11pm every night, and my horn will beep when I activate my alarm. That's not gonna change.

    We are going to live in this neighborhood and that's not going to change.

    Continue to harass us and we will involve law enforcement.

    You should also get your hubby to tell that guy to shut the %&%&$ up. You guys shouldn't be yelled at for simply existing...

    Call the cops and tell them that he's being disorderly... Maybe they will find weed on him and bust him...
     
  13. webdesignsbyapw

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    Sounds like you had it worse then us compared to your neighbor.. Anyways, I'll take the advice and just give the cops a ring right before he lights up his blunt. Thanks for this^

    We live in California, and he may or may not have a marijuana license but anyways it's still not legal to smoke outside in front of everyone. We have kids running around for sakes..
     
  14. eskimo

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    call the cops with a tip off that you have located osama bin laden. oh wait, that method doesn't work anymore!

    seriously tho, i would definitely call the cops if i was you
     
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    I know this wont solve the problem but most cars you can set the alarm to different settings such as

    activation horn/lights
    activation lights

    Might be a thought to "try" then if he still complains you can at least call the cops tell them whats going on and that you also changed the settings on your car to help the problem.
     
  16. IGKing

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    Hey. Maybe when he's smoking weed call the cops?
     
  17. dryheat360

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    Call the police and explain the situation. Tell them your neighbor constantly yells at you and your husband and curses, despite you remaining peaceful and not doing anything in the first place.

    If you see him smoking marijuana one day, then call the police and report him. Tell them that your neighbor who is constantly yelling and cursing at your family is now smoking marijuana out in the open (which is illegal, even in states where medical marijuana is allowed) and you've had enough and you just want peace. It should work.

    I hope you get the peace you deserve!
     
  18. Monrox

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    Send a nasty email to the vice president and when the FBI comes (around 11 pm) say the neighbor hacked your WiFi. Should be going away for a considerable amount of time if precedents are to be applied.
     
  19. Bozigian

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    if you are good with your surronding neighbors
    then have them call the cops on your nighbor from hell

    you call the cops and try to get a restraining order
    tell the neighbors to do the same if they want

    that way, the police will know the neighbor from hell is hated by his other neighbors and not just you
     
  20. Starcodes

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    how bout this? tell your husband to stop being a pussy and go over there and kick that mother fucker's ass i am a peaceful guy my self but you cant' expect the police to save yall all the time what happens if that mother fucker decides to start attacking you guys 1 day and the police are not around is your husband just going to stand their and take that nonsense? seriously think about it ...it could mean life or death tell your husband you either protect us or you are not getting any pussy tonight simple as that i know i sound harsh but it's reality maybe the guy is hating on your husband maybe you are sexy maybe he wish he could be your husband who knows lol anyways if you guys really want to be grimmy hire couple of strong black and latino thugs and send them to that rude mother fucker's house have em give him a good dirty beaten that will teach him a lesson to stop messing with people for no reason at all:D
     
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