Surrounded by Toxic People? (client) Here's Why You Should Cut Them Off Before It's Too Late!

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A situation happened to me a while ago...

When I used to make ads for my real estate company by myself. One of the people I was working with, I had made an ad for a property he was handling, and of course, I followed up with him daily on the ad's performance. The important part is, for the first three days of the ad, he kept telling me there were no calls at all. So, I decided to pause the ad to make some changes. The next day, he called me and asked, "Did you stop the ad?" I told him, "Yes, I’m making a new one." He responded, "Why? The ad was fine!" I asked, "How do you know it was good when there were no calls?"

At that moment, I had a million question marks in my head, and what’s even stranger is that he works with us, and the company was paying for the ad. After that, I confirmed that this person is the type I want to tell you about.

There are people at work who, no matter what you do, will never compliment you. Your work will always be "not good," and you can never take a step forward with them. The best thing you might hear from them, even if you perform a miracle, is "Not bad," or some other lukewarm phrase. Yet, they still want to keep you around and don’t want to let you go.

And in your social circle, you’ll also find people who will never give you a kind word or acknowledge how much you matter in their lives, but at the same time, they always want you around and can’t let go of you.

My advice to you is to escape from both types of people, and be the one to cut ties, because if you stay close to them for too long, you might start believing you’re nothing, and they’ll slowly destroy your self-confidence.

People who don’t show gratitude will make you feel humiliated if you continue in their lives.

This is not an invitation to get close to people who exaggerate your worth and abilities either, because you should also run from them. They will be the reason you start to get overconfident, and that’s when you’re finished.
 
No offense, When in my opinion we have a common problem.

“We lack being loved.”

I was afraid of other people's criticism, skepticism, and I was always thinking about how to get praise from others.

It has to do with my childhood,

“the more people want something, then the more he lacks something.”

Overall, it's because I'm not strong enough yet, but optimistically, I'm only 26 and still have time to make it up to myself.
 
This is extremely wise advice.

Especially this part.
My advice to you is to escape from both types of people, and be the one to cut ties, because if you stay close to them for too long, you might start believing you’re nothing, and they’ll slowly destroy your self-confidence.
 
Toxic people just drain your energy leaving hardly any left in the tank for business.
 
What a loss for me

Maybe he is "no calls" guy


By the way, nothing is too toxic here. Lightweight situation.

You do your job, company pays, he can say whatever, you can't let it be your focus and you did.


That's probably because you don't have or you don't value enough way more important things in life.
 
i can feel you, it's very common for us,
almost in every company (private or governement') is filled with different levels & types of psychos,

that's one of the main reasons i chose to work alone here, luckily i've found my way with SEO,
well, at least not as part of a team or under someone' supervising, only hiring and already more than enough of problems
 
insurance companies and their agents at bank of america are very toxic. cut them off. why cut off paying clients?

how do you finds customers to provide service as facebook ppc manager?
 
True and also depends if you come from individualistic society
 
You mean cut the ties with toxic people. Yes, you should. The sooner you learn to say no and cut ties with them in your life the better off you are.
 
Totally agree, I had problem with my performance in my previous job, I was working and reaching company goals but they always keept me on you are doing fine and I will guive you another writing warning because you are doing fine but you need to work harder to get even more, I was confused I already reach company gools but I was being hit with a warning because I needed to reach a imaginary goal not set by the company owners,, just said ok, don't worry I quit the look on his eyes went from jajaja poor bastard to OMG what happend please don't quit wee neeeeedd yooouuuuu I just smiled and said yo will fire me anyways because I'm not reaching your goals I will quit before that and laugh I enjoyed it :D:D always scape from toxic people specially where there is work related in my personal opinion.
 
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