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Something I've noticed since I've gotten divorced...

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by paymymortgage4me, Jul 20, 2011.

  1. paymymortgage4me

    paymymortgage4me Junior Member

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    I was with my wife for 16 years, married 11 of them. Divorce was finalized a few weeks ago. I always had my ring on, so it was obvious I was married. But now that I'm single, I've noticed something about most women,

    They act completely different around single guys then they do around married guys!

    And I mean women I've known for a while, friends, coworkers. They had never shown any interest in me sexually, or at least none that I ever noticed. But now that I'm single, these women are all like,

    "What are you doing tonight, want to come over to my place?"

    "So your new place is on my way home from work. Maybe I could stop over once in a while."

    One woman I've known for a while even came out and asked me straight up if we could be occasional fuck buddies because her husband didn't do anything for her anymore. And I've made it very clear to these women that I won't be in a relationship for a long time. I'm going to enjoy the single life for a while.

    I'm not tying to be mean, but women generally seem to be more slutty, or open about what they want around single guys.

    This is going to be fun!
     
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  2. bakai

    bakai Newbie

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    Fantasy can be fun. Can I use your story on my Adult Friend Finder review site?
     
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    amkhzz Registered Member

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    cool story bro
     
  4. tony-raymondo

    tony-raymondo Junior Member

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    typically men say the opposite:

    "As soon as I got married, I noticed all these chicks flirting with me."

    Statistically women had increased sexual desire when viewing pictures of men with female models photoshoped in behind the men.
     
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    becauseimhot Junior Member

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    Haha - Enjoy it dude!
     
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    iclosem Junior Member

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    Usually it's the other way around but congrats and I would take advantage of it... since you're single and all.
     
  7. paymymortgage4me

    paymymortgage4me Junior Member

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    I've heard it's usually the other way around. Maybe I just never noticed it before.
     
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    adbot Power Member

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    Funny, I found the opposite to be true. Its always easier to get women if you already have one IMO.
     
  9. davids355

    davids355 Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    Ya I always think it's other way around!
     
  10. MikeHustle

    MikeHustle Power Member

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    Even if a woman isn't attracted to you they always ask if you have a girlfriend. I believe they do this as a way to confirm a males value: "If another woman thinks that he's good enough to be with, then he must be an ok person".

    The girls in the picture confirms his value, and status. 'If other women feel safe around him, like him, and trust him--- He must be ok"

    The same kind of peer deference explains why women do so well in school, but few have the risk taking that is required to be an entrepreneur. We'll be waiting for a long time before we the female version of Bill Gates or Steve Jobs. Women work best within the group. They can make great managers and rise to MVP level success, but only within the safe confines of the group.
     
  11. tony-raymondo

    tony-raymondo Junior Member

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    it happens in grouse too

    stick a a stuffed female grouse next to a male, and he gets laid more.
     
  12. paincake

    paincake Power Member

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    You NEVER say no to an offer like that
     
  13. rakoom2002

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    Its called respect man. Which is very rare anymore. I guess they had respect for the fact that you were in a marriage and didn't want to be home wreckers. lol the funny thing is that its usually the other way around. "sweet he's married, lets see if he'll fuck me".