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Someone is gotta be crying now!!!

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by secretboy08, Jan 6, 2009.

  1. secretboy08

    secretboy08 Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

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    Guys and gals just wanted to share this with you now.it is burning inside me from some days.


    It was two years ago, i was in relation with a girl but she wanted to break it up.
    she finally ditched me i was like heart broken,it was like the world had ended
    (and then i saw snowwhite on this forum:LOL just joking)
    but when i asked her the reason she simply said you are younger than me and not rich enough and as you are younger it will take more time for you to get settled and make some good money.ohh boy that was like the final nail in the coffin. i was like so heartbroken,i even cant express this in words.
    Fast forward two years to now

    i earn more than her entire family.LOL
    she must be really regretting her decision i guess. I just wanted to share this with someone because it was killing me inside.
    Your comments are welcome.Pl. no abuses because i still like her but wont go back to her because she ditched me for money.Am i right in not going back to her????
     
  2. Tcm9669

    Tcm9669 Regular Member

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    Yeah! Don't go back to that ..... (since you still like her I will censor lol)

    She wants your money, not you!
     
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  3. secretboy08

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    dont know if i will go to her or not its quite confusing actually.do all girls go for financial security first?
     
  4. xvoidx

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    Your going to end up back with her regardless aren't you? I suggest you just let the whole ordeal go and move on because obviously you haven't yet.
     
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  5. stunna

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    Yes a lot of them do. They are biologically programmed to find a mate that will be able to support her offspring. In contemporary times, money is what allows people to properly support children.

    Look around on a day to day basis. Why do you think there are so many good looking girls in relationships with guys that have faces and bodies that leave a lot to be desired? Ask the guy what he does for a living.
     
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  6. secretboy08

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    i was not like broke when she left me.
    I was still good enough and for her own equal status.
    but she wanted more and more.
     
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    And she will want more and more this time too. She will never change. My advice: Run for the f...ing door.
     
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    Exactly!!!

     
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    Think it will take that long?

    I definitely wouldn't keep her in my mind any more. Someone who would do something like that for sure doesn't have your best interest in mind; stay away!
     
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  10. bizkiller

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    ahh, i actually know how you feel.

    i broke up with my ex, because she didn't like my car, and i didn't have enough money for her.

    aw well.

    several months later, i make much more money than her dad.

    ahahahahaha

    it's time for me to take out my new car, and show it off to her.
     
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  11. BearyManaLow

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    Honestly, I don't think it's a good idea to go back to her. If you do end up with her it's because you have money now, if you're down again most likely she'd leave you for the same reason. Forget her man, more fish in the sea...I know how you feel but trust me, the next girl will make you feel like you have a million bucks whether it's true or not.
     
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  12. bizkiller

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    i agree with khoahalabear.

    I've met my gf few months ago.

    and she's great.

    she doesnt even care if i have money or not.

    (i've met her when i was making $0 online.)

    :D

    she hates it when i spend money on her now..

    ahhhh i love this girl!
     
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  13. secretboy08

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    hope i also find such a girl who is in the relationship for me and not for my cash.
    you are one lucky dude,bizkiller.
     
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    Is it true? First love never dies? :(

    If you have no feelings for her.. its right for not coming back to her.. But the good thing that happened in your breakup is that she motivated you to make more money.. :D

    TakeCare! Hope you'll find the woman for you! :)
     
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    dude you may love her but it seemes that shes is just intereseted in a lifestyle and money, not love. do yourself a favor, next time you meet a girl dont let her know how much you make or anything like that. dont be flashy just act broke, if shes falls in love for you, shes the one. other then that, fuck em. Honestly, if she loved you and was worried about money, you would be working on it together and not have everything thrown on your lap.
     
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    Okay this was absolutely a perfect comment!
    It's exactly what she said to you to break your heart.

    I feel for you, but it's true women want security, unless they are blachhatters and Affiliate marketers etc...

    I wanted security and realized I didn't need it, I could do it all on my own. Now the man I'm with I'm there b/c I love him not because I need him.
     
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  17. secretboy08

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    thank you for giving a woman's perspective on my problem.

    time to change my avatar to get the dating and mating mood.
     
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    listen to what most people have said - don't go back to her!

    if you do i will personally track you down and give you a slap!!! LOL j/k :p
     
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    Marry her! LOL

    I got married back in October! Of all the women i have ever dated she is the most down to earth, un-materialistic person i have ever met - shes also my best friend too... awwww! :)

    additional thought... you really want someone who will stand by and support you through thick and thin... tables can turn in the blink of eye... people should treat you the way you treat them... ive always used the what if the shoe was on the other foot scenario... ill stop now am waffling right now through sleep deprevation! LOL
     
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    Hehe indeed , no point going back if she loves money and not you, i bet that the moment you won't buy her new dress which is only 500$ shell leave you again =/

    Well hope telling this feels better for you now hehe GL HF
     
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