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Some Wise Advice! - If it ain't all good - its all on YOU!

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  1. IamNRE

    IamNRE Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    A group of wise men by the name of "De la Soul" and a classy lady called Chaka Khan once said,

    "If it aint all good..... then its all on YOU!" (roughly re-phrased). If something is not working for you in life, only you have the power to do something about it and thus, take full responsibility for your situation and fix it!

     
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    solid advice from a solid member, I salute you
     
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    jazzc Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    This is a cool song and a good video :)
     
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    I loved this song back in the time and i'm able to understand it just now thanks to you hahah :p
     
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    Never saw this before. Love both of there music though.
     
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    When something bad happens there is always something to blame,it is difficult to find people that just say "Whatever,i will try my best,if i can fix it good,if i cant let it be.". A simply thought process like this one would solve 90% of our conflicts that usually are just caused by people that overreact to bad things with negative emotions,trying to filter the reality using their expectations and judgements on what should happen,instead of just analyzing the situation and trying your best.

    Other common pattern is getting affected by the results,people need to understand that it is impossible to control the results.

    No matter how much you want something,it doesn't guarantee that you will succeed or you will be on the first place,but obviously not wanting it enough will sure guarantee you to not succeed. Success is based on a lot of factors Knowledge,experience,will,time,opportuniti,management,contacts,etc and the most important not giving up,but also understanding when to quit and try other thing. I say this because people create wrong expectations about what success is,and when they fail they think that it is their fault,or they are not good enough and give up.