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social media marketing = bum

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by txholdem, May 18, 2017.

  1. txholdem

    txholdem Elite Member

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    how does your bank balance work? you tell them a number? or just being super generous?
    i spent $130 on a dinner date. i never spent anywhere close to that with my ex wife.
     
  2. Sephrata

    Sephrata Senior Member

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    In Prague, things work differently. You could look like quasimodo and and dance like napoleon dynamite, but as long as you have some cash you're in with a shot.

    Russians here just look what watch you're wearing etc. Czechs are a little more sophisticated.

    First thing I learnt here is when you go on a date, the woman pays half and some are really really insistent they do.
     
  3. Alex7711

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    That's the answer to your question:D Most women are afraid of gamblers.
     
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  4. dbanjo

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    Shouting how much you earn will only attract the wrong type of girl imo. I was never directly generous, not with someone I hardly knew, again, just gonna attract the wrong girl. Make them earn it, they will respect you later for it. But by wearing the right clothes, going to the good part of town, decent apartment with nice shit inside etc you will indirectly imply you can support the right girl. Being more subtle is key.
     
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  5. txholdem

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    there are 2 different types of situations.
    1, new encounter
    2, after 1k text messages, dancing a few nights, a month later.

    for the former, i never buy drinks. and after many years of dancing, i just realized that my sweat scared many women, and they all know i smoke even if i chew gums. so i did get some takeaways from some previous failure.

    for the latter, i suppose i have to show some kind of generosity. (i have always been cheap. however after talking to a friend and the nurse, i thought i'd make a little change...) i dont wear expensive clothes, but i dont dress like a slob. i just wear something that makes me look fit.

    seriously i have no idea what dress well means. to me it means expensive designer clothing?
     
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  6. mickyfu

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    What will I get for a plastic Casio?
     
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    Sephrata Senior Member

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    Speaking English is enough to score here. There's not much competition. Most of the locals look like they've just stepped out from the gym straight to the night club.

    This sums up Czech girls:

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    Next time, bring a puppy.
     
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    Let me get this straight: You understand the meaning of "you get what you pay for" and yet you still seek a partner in a place like that?

    All of this PUA and broscience crap is an illusion. The only reason many people assume that's how the world works is because they themselves are the problem. They have all these ingrained beliefs and hang around the wrong sorts of people, leading to psychoanalyzing how "women think". The reality is that, that's not how women NORMALLY think. It only appears that way because both men and women are the products of their upbringing.

    All they are really doing is continuing this cycle instead of changing anything. You'll quickly find that there are more people who fit the right 'type' once you get rid of that modernist view of society. It takes some effort, but those people are out there.

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    Every Woman's Dream (not srs)

    There was a 40 yo living in the UK who was trying to find a decent woman for himself. He would go on about how the only women he met were whores in the past 20 years. The amusing thing is that he mainly went to places like bars and other such venues. He was sexually abused as a child and overcompensated by puffing himself up to be a man.

    In the end, he just sounded like a whiny weasel instead of bettering himself.

    OP if you want people to respect you, first respect yourself. Think, grow, expand, etc. Self-improvement in all aspects of your life will get you the things you most desire.
     
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  11. Asif WILSON Khan

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    Money is like your most powerful backlinks and the women are like google. If you want to appear as rank 1 in their brains SERP you need more money(backlinks) than any competitors they crawl.
    Sure you can more easily rank for low competition keywords(ugly chicks), but wheres the challenge.

    Unless you are getting some free links from the chicks PBN just save dating for being rich or retired--otherwise its time murder.
     
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  13. ThopHayt

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    The solution is VERY simple. Just tell them you own a Digital Marketing Firm. The words OWN and FIRM are important.

    -ThopHayt

     
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  14. Sherbert Hoover

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    For fuck's sake.

    You're not in "social media marketing". How are you in marketing if you can't market yourself? For most people, social media marketing is synonymous with dicking around on Facebook and Instagram all day. As @ThopHayt said, you own a digital marketing firm. Even better, if you've read my rant, don't fucking call yourself a CEO whatever you do. You are now the VP of Operations.

    But VP of Operations of what? If you don't have a website, make one. A simple business one. Add in an email address. Got a logo? I bet it's shit. Get one made. Minimal and simplistic. Buy some business cards online with your logo and contact info. And you've got a site and email to go along with it, so you're legit as fuck.

    Don't be fucking cheap. Nobody likes that shit. You aren't impressing anyone or making any friends. The only thing more off-putting is smoking. Oh, wait, looks like you've got that down too. Quit smoking. You're killing yourself and most of the world thinks you're gross. And it smells like shit. Compound that with sweat, yeah fuck off. Buy drinks. You can't say you're something fancy and then not buy drinks. That's just being an asshole. But don't say "Can I buy you a drink?" Everyone does that shit. Switch it up. Be smart about it. "Is that a Malibu and Coke?" [answer] "Does it really taste like being on the beach?" [answer] "Hmm, be right back." Then go to the bar and come back with two of them. One for you, one for her. Or don't do that, that sounds kind of lame.

    You meet a woman? Impress her. None of this m'lady bullshit. Get to know her. Ask her questions that fucking matter, not shitty filler. Don't try to act mysterious or badass. Don't try too hard to be funny. Dry humor is your friend. Sarcastic. Self-depreciating without seeming self-conscious. Confident but not a cocky shit-head. And for fuck's sake, negging does not work.

    Are you fat? Stop being fat. If you're fat or chubby and "just wear something that makes me look fit", you probably look like 20 pounds of shit in a ten pound bag. Does your hair look like shit? Fix it. Does it look just like everyone else's? Fix it.

    What about where you live? Is it shitty? Don't take someone to someplace shitty. Get a hotel room that night and say that you're staying there while some renovations finish up. Or be pre-emptive and clean up before you go out.

    Got roommates? Stop that shit. Grow up and get your own place. A VP doesn't have fuckin' roommates. And get a nice place too. Everyone loves exposed brick. If you say you don't you're a goddamn liar. Don't have the money? Rob a fuckin' bank.

    Have a few cool stories on hand. Be relatable but not a one-upper. Need a cool story? Light some fuck-head's house on fire and then break in and save him.

    But out of all this shit I just wrote, THE most important thing is confidence. Second most is appearance. Nobody likes a fat whiner.
     
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    SoCiAl MeDiA mArKeTiNg
     
  16. Sherbert Hoover

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    at least make original copypasta - this sounds like some olive garden shit
     
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  17. Capo Dei Capi

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    Are there any women that actually have a problem with self-employed guys or guys that have a white collar profession? It seems entirely down to how someone is presenting themselves.