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social media marketing = bum

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by txholdem, May 18, 2017.

  1. txholdem

    txholdem Elite Member

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    all the women i met lately shun away after they asked me what i do for a living. i told them i do social media marketing. (sorry i was not clear enough. this happened after some 1000 text messages and a date about a month later.)

    these women are professionals, a cpa, and a well dressed IT professional, and a nurse. i met them on dance floors and they admired my dance and thats where it started. (ages: nurse is 43, cpa is 38, and the IT pro told me shes in mid twenties though i think she lied.)

    the latest one (the IT pro) at least tried to find out by asking me to 'teach' her step by step how to make money on youtube. lol.

    it is the nurse that told me the truth. i was not really interested in the nurse, so we chatted about anything. she said she makes 100k+ and she does not want a man that makes significantly less than her because she does not want to support him (a burden).

    it actually makes sense to most people. social media marketing means you dont have a job. why do you not have a job? and how much money can you make just by 'playing' on the internet? if you are not a celebrity. and who wants a bum as a boyfriend?

    the problem is: they cannot ask how much money i make until we are really in a relationship (which will be too late) AND i dont want to tell even if i make good money.

    the way this goes, i will never find a woman.
     
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    Was the nurse hot ?
     
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    Female - "so what do you do for a living"
    Guy (who is actually a janitor) - "I'm a dolphin trainer"
    Female - "AWWWW that is so sweet"
    Guy - "Yeah just love those little guys".."wanna come back to my place"
    Never fails......
     
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    You told them that you own a business that markets a variety of products and services on different platforms online and that because of that you are able to travel freely and work from almost anywhere and still make a great living?
     
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    Women like being lied too I always tell them something new for my career.
     
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    Dude. I'm stealing this.
     
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    What kind of dance?

    Just tell them you're an entrepreneur, consultant, capitalist etc. Either that or you're hung like a donkey also works.
     
  11. txholdem

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    thats prolly good for a one-night stand because as time goes she'd like to know a little more details.
     
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    I think you actually fucked up when you asked how old they were.
     
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  13. txholdem

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    thats actually a good answer. i guess the problem is that i, MYSELF, believe that i am a bum. and that's a really bad thing....
     
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    Maybe, just maybe, they didn't fancy you or see a future. Having a good job helps, but if you're a fucking idiot you'll need to work on that first.

    Edit. The fact you see yourself as a bum kinda makes them right. Get your own shit together and the girls just fall into place after brah. No one wants to date a loser, whether it's true or not perception is everything.
     
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    I just tell them I'm CEO Spaceman. Never fails. They buy me a pity drink and make a sharp backdoor exit.
     
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    Girls shit test guys consciously and subconsciously...if they didn't they'd be dating "movie directors" "hollywood agents" and "hand models" all of the time.

    If you dress horrendously, and have the personal charisma, confidence and magnetism of an exile they likely assume your "online marketing business" consist of you watching porn all day in your mother's basement.

    Dress well, be well groomed, have great posture, be able to discuss interesting topics/be well rounded this will help you quite a bit. You don't need to daily drive a Ferrari or live in a palatial estate...but maintain your things well.
     
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    That probably comes across as a lack of self-confidence which these kind of women will pick up on quickly.
     
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    The 2 things I learned are if you want a fit chick with an adequate amount of brain cells you'll need to have some level of charisma about you and long term, a way to really support her.

    I always said I was a programmer, that normally got their attention, but then I look good, if you're really nerdy it might not be that ideal. Maybe it was out of the ordinary.

    Working from home isn't a curse at all, if you phrase it right... after that my friendly banter and bank balance did the rest.
     
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    Did you tell them that you gamble from time to time, play only nolimit hold em and enjoy going all in all the time?
     
  20. txholdem

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    she asked me to teach her how to play poker. lol.