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Sick of ppl treating me like I'm no good

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by MP123, Dec 22, 2012.

  1. MP123

    MP123 Junior Member

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    Hi all, I need to vent somewhere, even if no one responds, I will feel better that it's out of my mind.

    I don't know if it's just me, or if I'm going around the twist or if I seem to be missing something but a lot of people (not all) but a lot have come very self important & self obsessed.. I don't know if it's the whole facebook & twitter thing of what it seems to me as always "projecting a false image" is why this is causing people to act this way.

    Not all but a lot seem to judge me before they even know me & for some strange reason all seem to think their judgement is correct of me and that they know me.. which I find very strange indeed that someone can speak to you and think they know you.

    I am finding a lot of people keep trying to manipulate me or try to drag me down but would never admit this and the only way to explain this is like "barrel crabs"... for those who are wondering what I am meaning by "barrel crabs" or what I am lead to believe it means is say for example, when 1 crab looks like it's about to get out the barrel, all the over crabs will pile on top of each other quickly then pull that crab back down so it never gets out of the barrel. I spent a lot of time spending a lot of negative energy into thinking about this and why do people especially family and those around me act like this.

    I decided that I can think all I want as to "why" this is happening and why they act in such a way, as I'm not a greedy guy, I am not rich nut whatever I have I will share and always help those around me but feel like people are taking advantage of my friendly nature :(

    I also talk to people about this forum, call me sad but it means a lot to me, even though I lurk in shadows most of time but anyways my point is when I talk to people about the forum and the success stories, people look at me like I am talking out my backside but then when I have a chance to get something, they do their best to make it hard and be awkward for me.. just bizarre behavior.

    I don't know if what I wrote even makes sense to anyone else but is this a normal part of hopefully one day getting their... who knows..

    maybes one day, ey.

    Thanks a lot for taking the time to read.
     
  2. saxgod

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    My advice would be to just don't care what other people think of you or say about you, just be yourself and remember there is only one person who controls your life: you

    So do what you want to do, don't look back, and be successfull. And then you can look down on all those that looked down on you and say: who's a loser now, bitch
     
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  3. MP123

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    Thanks for taking time to post.

    I hope that day comes, just hard though at minute as struggling and these people act like this but what they don't see is that I sometimes cry myself to sleep. I am not a pushover by any means but the frustration of why this is happening just mentally gets to much but then try to re-direct that frustration into a positive to "I want to succeed" but sometimes just hard ya know.

    Anyways again, thanks for posting man.
     
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    saxgod is right. you and only you control your life.

    Something to cheer you up: A while ago, after my divorce my ex was calling me every name in a book including looser. Today she's a hostess at the restaurant making a little more then a minimum wage and I'm at the point of my life that I spend more a day then she's making a month. So who's looser now? It's all about prospective and believing in yourself.

    Don't give up and keep your chin up.
     
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    your excited about this place, you have drive and hope in your heart.
    i went thru the same a long time ago. when you get your ends coverd and your the master of your life you will see them differently & they will see you differently.
    that's about the time when you know who is fake in your life and realizing your own importance at the level your at.
    kinda hypocritical but sometimesyou live a life at the top alone and it saves your heart from being broken by others.
    why do you think my user name is hmmmm? I don't believe shit, i don't take it and never have I learned that at 12 yrs old & now couldnt be happier about my decisions. So eff you all, jk... seriously!
    Don't worry as it may seem huge at this time in your life, it will pass and you'll move on and laugh about it, even though its not funny now. allot of folk don't get the big picture of us on liners as they cannot visualize what we see as important! Fuck that's my quote!
    ok later dog.. peace out! hmmmm
     
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  6. SmartMan

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    Happened to me too. If you can sense that peoples are taking advantage of you, then simply get out of their circle so they know you're aware of them taking advantage of you. Peoples like them talk nicely but they're full of shit. Also you said that you're spending a lot of negative energy. Again if you're able to identify that you're wasting your time on negative thinking, you also can able to turn it into wishful thinking to make positive outcome.

    Watch this full video if you've some time. It's really worth watching.

     
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  7. balamut

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    And I was wondering when the Secret video gonna pop-up.

    You don't need someone or something to tell you that you gonna make it. You're in control of your own life and if you can't realize that... well... then there is no one or nobody can help you.
     
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    Been there done that, mate I was in a similar situation I kept offering to help so called mates and that to the point where I was just being used and got stuck found it hard to say no because some people can see your weak nature and end up having total control over you, they will give you lots of advice but never take kindly to criticism about themselves, they are knowing as controlling people. What you need to do is change your nature and start trying to make it clear you don't want to waste your time and start saying no. Once you tackle that you automatically change and you learn what to look out for, you end up being more a lone wolf and secluded not getting too close to people because you know what they are like. They end up finding it hard to ask you again for anything.

    Just cut out all connections, change your attitude don't be super angry but when they speak or ask something look back at all the piss take they cause and just say no once you get used to it you have no emotion you become like a rock. Focus on making yourself a good person do help others and that but understand you can not be controlled in to doing stuff.
     
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    Fuck others, haters gonna hate - and even more when you actually break through and achieve what you aim for.
     
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    Seems like maybe you could be talking about family members here? If they are against you doing methods about making money online etc they do not have the capacity or drive or knowledge to do what you are trying to do so they don't like that you can make good money and want to pull you down to their level. Just stop telling them do this stuff in private, man even my family are supportive and that but I hardly tell them anything I don't see any benefit apart from some questions lol. Even when you have success you need to be extra careful not to flaunt it this will attract extra attention from the blood sucking parasites who want either you exclusively or want you to do what ever they think is correct in their limited narrow minded judgement.
     
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  11. MP123

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    I want to say a massive thank you to everyone who took time to post & reading what everyone put their was so much I could quote, because their was so much I could relate to, as sometimes I can and have sat their for hours on end thinking is it normal for this to be happening and wondered if anyone else has experienced similar and glad I did post now, as was in 2 minds as weather "I should" or "shouldn't" post the OP and glad I did now.. As feel loads better & more motivated to not concentrate on others & their actions but to show them the loudest action of all.. SUCCESS..

    Thanks again to everyone, you guys really don't know how much it meant, not to sound to soppy lol, but just trying to get across appreciation ya know.
     
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    I'm in the same boat as you, I wish I had friends around here where I could share conversations and brain storm on such ideas and actually DO them, I talk about this site and how i'm so excited for finding it and I always talk about how much money can be made, and all the ideas I have... People usually disregard it and think i'm crazy, it's actually quite stressful.

    Edit: If you want, we could talk with eachother and share eachothers company and ideas, feel free to pm me for skype or anything.
     
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  13. MP123

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    Hey, thanks for offer, that sounds good :) be good to speak to others and helping each other and especially been in same boat, maybes we can turn this boat into a yacht xD Keeping positive :)
     
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    My heart gos out to all of you effers.. we all sometimes are better with our own success than dealing with people who hold you down or bring you down to their levels. guys I'm an oldie here 43 in real life but. my inner voice is still alive and rocking.
    One thing to say is bless you all! & let karma be karma and let us be in the right path for our souls to flourish.
    its sounds out there, but if your a deep person like me you'll understand. I hope you all have a good year as this year was the shitiest one Ive ever had. it should and can be only better with time.

    laterz.
     
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    Don't care about what others say or think about you. It is totally in your hands to prove them wrong.
     
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    MP123, you need to find some friends who have the same interests as you do. If you like chess, join a chess club-things of that nature. If you like it here, then stay here and post. As for people treating you like you're no good, sometimes people put others down to make themselves feel better. Don't hang around people like that. There is only one you in the whole world. You are very special. You have a purpose on this earth. Find your purpose and soar.
     
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    Golden rule of life: Think positive
     
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    Mate trust me your not the only one its this kind of negative thought and lack of support from people which stops progression, you should allow them and do your own thing, your hitting your targets and getting where you want to be, or atleast striving for it so dont stop, all the fakes will either fall off, or quieten down, until your left with those who actually mean something. Its hard yes, but to find the diamonds you need to dig a helluva lot.
     
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    Sort the information you get with this mindset.

    Is the information you are receiving useful and beneficial to you? If it is, then give it importance.
    If not just ignore it and put it in the "trash"
     
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