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Say I love you more often!

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by XoRaK, Nov 11, 2012.

  1. XoRaK

    XoRaK Regular Member

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    Next Friday I have to bury my 38yrs old brother, he suddenly died of a heart attack on Thursday.

    I never really told him I loved him, which i do, now it's too late... LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES...

    Go tell someone that you never told it to, that you love them!

    All I wanted to say.

    Greetz

    XoRaK
     
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  2. BlackSeng

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    Oh gosh, really sorry to hear that... My condolence~ :(
     
  3. Duffers5000

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    Sorry to hear that, you are right though dont take people you love for granted they may not be here tomorrow.
     
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    Condolence bro. Yea, it is a very hard thing to say, but I think it would feel so good if you can..
     
  5. Leith

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    True. Sometimes you just don't appreciate something, or someone, until you depart from them.

    I hope you are okay and my condolences. You'l get through it all right, keep your head up.
     
  6. Hikari

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    May he rest in peace...

    I always want to tell my ma and pa that I love them so much, but I don't have much confidence. So I try my best to take care of them.
     
  7. Beingakrant

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    Sad to know that. May your bro's soul rest in peace.
    Someone has rightly said "We realize the true value of people only after losing them".
    I remember when I lost a very close friend of mine who died in terrorist attacks in Mumbai. I still remember avoiding his call a day back. He was asking to meet me and I said we'll meet some other day. Alas! That "other" day never came.
    I always make sure to show my love towards my family because I want them to know that they are above everything else.
     
  8. The Nix

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    :( Man, I just sent my girlfriend a text message right now.. :(

    We should really make our loved ones feel our love every single day. Every moment should be special. We never know what may happen. This goes for family, friends, special someone, pets, etc. :(

    My condolences to you.. I wish you all the best. Your brother is in a better place now. :)
     
  9. PunjabiYaaar

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    So sad to hear that. Condolence to you.
     
  10. martsb

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    Really sorry to hear your news, a friend of mine his brother died the week before just 44 years old same way.

    My wife was/is leaving me with our son and i was really down(suicidal) but after talking to Mick my friend, my problems was nothing compared to their loss.I came home and told my wife i stilll loved her and she could walk out the door and nothing not nobody could change how i feel.

    My heart goes out to you and your family,me and my brother and sister never tell each other we love each other but deep down we all know that we do.As i am sure your brother did its just taken for granted, part of being family i suppose.God bless and look after yourself.
     
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    Sorry to hear that, my condolence...
     
  12. wickedheyzie

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    True.. Because you will never know when the time will come that you can never say it to them.
    So it's much better to make our loved ones feel and know that we love them.
     
  13. twitter.followers

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    Sometimes it does happen that we realise someone's value after the person has departed/left us.
    But really sorry to heard that. My condolences to you.
     
  14. orzyman

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    i love you op
    NO HOMO
     
  15. fatboy

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    Chin up fella, your brother would of known that you loved him even if you didn't say it.
    Thoughts are with you and your family.
     
  16. madoctopus

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    If it helps you to know, death is just a passing, it is returning home. Also he knew in his heart that you loved him just like you know he loved you. Is just that you wish he would still be around because you enjoyed his company and you feel you left something out and you didn't told him in words enough (for you). No matter how much you tell somebody you love him if he dies you still feel like this. It's just how it is.
     
  17. Jdog82

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    Sorry for your loss bro
     
  18. gullsinn

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    That's so sad to hear this about.
    May God Rest his soul.
     
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    I am very sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.
     
  20. coolsolution

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    Sorry to hear that. My condolence. May he rest in peace.