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Rejected by a girl: Because i'm too young...

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by illfounded21, Oct 21, 2012.

  1. illfounded21

    illfounded21 Senior Member

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    Hi all,

    It's 3.10am here in the UK and I have just got back after a drink-fuelled night out.

    I had a great connection with this girl all night, but when I went in for the kill, she said I was too young for her.
    ->I'm 22 and she is 26 = this is bullshit!!

    I don't come across as immature, I hold down a great job, and do IM in my free time- i'm all round a pretty cool kid ;)

    I'm gutted, not because I got rejected, but because age was the reason. I don't believe you should get penalised due to your age- she didn't know how old I was until I told her... Maybe next time I should just lie about my age..

    Alcohol-fuelled rant over.
     
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  2. Danny1111

    Danny1111 Elite Member

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    sounds like an excuse - she probably wasn't all that into you in the first place.

    there are so many women who will like you for you - that you just got to get back out there tomorrow and find them.

    I know it sucks to crash and burn and even if you did think she was pretty hot -- but it is what it is -- that's why there is such a thing as "conversion rate" ... worst case take a holiday to thailand and get over it LOL

    all the best .. cheers
     
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  3. illfounded21

    illfounded21 Senior Member

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    Haha, possibly. Although i'm pretty good at judging body language/ signals etc..

    Either way, fuck it.

    It's never worth getting hung-up over, I just think age shouldn't be a valid excuse when we're this old.
     
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  4. The Scarlet Pimp

    The Scarlet Pimp Senior Member

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    been there,
    done that.

    it's quite a shock when it happens...
     
  5. coolcsl10

    coolcsl10 Newbie

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    I think that bull.

    She said no for other reasons.

    Sorry
     
  6. GreenGoblin

    GreenGoblin BANNED BANNED

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    Always remember you won't pull all the females you shoot for even though us men like to think we will, but it's good practice to accept the rejection and use the rejection as positive energy, to make you strive for a female who looks better then her with a much better ass. See here's the trick to women...there's always a chick who looks better and once you pull her and knock her down your gonna look back at your the old chicks you tried to holla at and be like...DAMN! wtf was i thinking.

    you want to say to yourself, I'm knocking down models, I almost had sex with this busted ass bucket head chick...TRUST ME! it works. That's the outlook you want to have,
     
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  7. darrensss

    darrensss Power Member

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    did you meet her in Jumpin Jaks? Lucky escape if you ask me ....
     
  8. thizzladen

    thizzladen Power Member

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    Suck it up, and keep on mackin'.The guy that gets rejected the most at bar/club/whatever is the one that leaves with the most numbers, he doesn't let one rejection bring him down because he knows there's plenty "opportunities" out there. But it's hard at first, I feel you bro, just don't let it bring you down.
     
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  9. sdilan

    sdilan Regular Member

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    I call BS on this girl. DONT BE SAD.
    keep this in mind "there will always be a better girl" ! you win some you lose some
     
  10. Cratos

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    I feel you man. I hate when that happens. We have the same issue. I also have conducted myself in a more mature fashion as opposed to others, at a very young age. It's happened to me only once though now that i think about it. She was scrumptious. But she told me the same thing straight up like Danny1111 mentioned above. A girl/woman will like you or want you for you. But at the same time there are women out there that go by specific guidelines and rules when it comes to dating guys. So that still comes into play. Nonetheless, most still like that young meat :)
     
  11. zebrahat

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    Guys face rejection all the time in making moves on girls, just deal. The better way to look at it is, you moved in on a hot girl, and didn't settle for mediocre. You have demonstrated a certain courage other guys often lack. This is important for dealing with being shot down---that is, the girl should at least have been worth it. No matter how bad you feel, you'd feel even worse if you got shot down by an average girl who wasn't worth experiencing rejection over. Now go back out there and play the numbers game with girls even hotter than she is. You'll land somebody soon enough, as your confidence in approaching that level of female is your secret weapon.
     
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  12. bigeazy

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    Hey brah...

    Maybe you didn't get her drunk enough?

    Or

    If its 3am and you ain't got no poon, walkover to the bar, grab the first fatty you see and drink till she's hot.
     
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  13. danizdeman

    danizdeman Regular Member

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    Dude look for some younger pussy!
    Go hit on some 17-18 year old girls. Trust me, they're a lot more fun to hang out with.
     
  14. infoasian

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    When you get older it's payback time. You can tell hot 18 year cuties to take a hike because they are too young for yah. Man, that will feel like great revenge.
     
  15. danizdeman

    danizdeman Regular Member

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    That's completely retarded. Why would you scare younger girls away?
     
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  16. woodle

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    ask yourself this

    why is it that most young women show interest in older men?
    why is it that young women hardly show any interest in younger men?

    figure those 2 questions out and your on a winner:cool:
     
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    The next time, you ask the age first and then make up yours accordingly.:D

    Yeh, she wasn't interested. Inside a pub, the relations last only until the rum doesn't. Next time, take the bottle home and the girl may follow...:)


    P.S.:
    BTW, Asking age in pubs? Were you both gathering data doing survey for the neighborhood kindergarten, or were applying for the new driving licenses?


    j/k
     
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  18. infoasian

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    You have what they want. Rejecting them will make you more interesting.
     
  19. danizdeman

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    And it also leaves you with no action for the night.
     
  20. axus_auto

    axus_auto Power Member

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    I don't know man. This phrase show me that you are not that mature yet.