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[Question]Housemate is aggrevating the fucking hell out of me

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by pewep, Nov 11, 2015.

  1. pewep

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    So guys, I have a bit of a problem that I was hoping to get your honest opinions on. I'm slowly losing it so I'd like an honest, outside opinion on this:

    I have a housemate called J. Now the first time J was moving in, he was in a bit of a pickle and I could sense it. I knew that he had some pain from the past - I later found out that he was divorced, 40-50 and was struggling to provide for his only daughter. Now, he had an issue initially, and he didn't know I was a witch. I felt very generous to him so I called him outside and I told him to make a wish (lol). It was around the full moon, and that is traditionally when my powers peak. We were holding sparklers and we blew them off together. I said "To our friends and family," and went back to my room.

    His problem was solved - instantly. His laptop was ruined before from some kind of technical damage but it worked instantly and it's been working since. Now, when he moved in I was kind of at a vulnerable place because my powers were going haywire (look up my previous posts from 2-3 years ago lmao) and I was basically living in a haunted room. Anyway he tried to do the whole holy conversion - it worked for a bit, several people did this but eventually I realized the problem wasn't outside, it was me. I was the source of all the drama.

    Fast forward a few years and I've finally started to get a handle on my shit. There's little to no paranormal activity going on in my house anymore (mostly because I don't practice black magick anyore), but the fact is that this guy has progressively become more and more of a dickhead to me. Let me just share something I sent my landlord (who likes me):

    This guy does a bunch of passive aggressive shit to the point where when I think about them it actually starts to make me mad. I feel like laying some of my old moves by flipping through my grimoire again. I only have 1 month left till I graduate and get the hell out so I don't think it would be fair to really do something to him. To be honest I don't really know what would happen to him so I don't want to risk it - demons are known to basically do anything to get the job done. On the other hand he straight up pisses me off. Thoughts?
     
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  2. pewep

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    I think a lot of comes from when I basically said that I will continue on my path and I don't really want to convert and I'm over all of that.
     
  3. Zwielicht

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    Kick him out....
     
  4. pewep

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    I was thinking about that - but honestly my main problem comes from the fact that demons have no morals and no conscience. They will do anything, seriously anything to get the job done. It's like being friends with mob bosses. Winter is coming and where would he live? What would be his standard of living? Would he still be able to get to his job? I have to weigh all these before making a specific command. To be honest I don't want him to be hurt, and quite frankly I only have 1 month left here so maybe I can tolerate him for a bit.... I just don't want any more negative karma on me.
     
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    Damn it pewep. You was doing good man.

    You had one normal thread and by the title of this thread I thought it would be normal.

    Then you call yourself a witch...
     
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    pewep be honest.. you've been up to your old tricks again, you made his "tortias" disappear didn't you?
     
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    At least act like Zwe - he's probably a stronger skeptic than you but he humors me and finds the humanity in my posts. That's actually why I 100% listen to him and will never disrespect him.
     
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    Rofl.. One of my favorites. Jack just doesn't give a fuck!

    In all seriousness I think you just sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel.. then show him that gif
     
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    Why don't you just sit him down and try having a conversation with him instead of pulling out all the subliminal thoughts and witch actions? Conversing with someone honestly and openly can solve loads of problems because a lot of times people don't think they are doing anything to offend you. Communication is key especially with two people living together.
     
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    @tommy and trance - listen guys, I've been living with this guy for roughly 1 year now. I have always been friendly with him but he has gradually become more hostile with me. I've actually tried to have an honest conversation with him, especially since I decided to continue on my path but he's not receptive. Keep in mind this is the same guy when he saw my powers said I am demon possessed (at the time probably half true lol) and did a holy ritual on me. I'm not sure there's any way to rationalize with him. I think I'm just going to do my best to avoid him. To be frank I don't really want anything more to do with him, I just want to finish school and move out.
     
  12. Zwielicht

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    Even though you may believe that kicking him out without knowing exactly what will happen to him is "bad", I prefer not labelling actions using such absolute terms, especially if the terms are based on "morality". For all you know, kicking him out may cause him to realise that he was abusing his current living situation and it'll make him a better person. On the other side of the coin, kicking him out may cause him to become bitter and full of malice. This is why there's no "good" or "bad" decision, only the "best" decision you can make with the information you have.
     
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    Put a firm foot on his head, push him down to the floor, and order him to behave.

    He WILL.

    I hope you know what it exactly means in "supernatural" terms. :)
     
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    I agree with Zwielicht.

    Don't get down on your self about it to much, if he is causing you this much frustration and disrespecting you then I would say just kick him out. That is if you have the right to do so. I would not live with someone if they constantly disrespected me. As for what he is going to do with his life after you kick him out, that is not your problem. It is his. Hopefully he will learn how to treat people with respect. If not, then once again not your problem.
     
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    Alright, I actually understand what you are saying but it's not much of a comfort, is it :) - and you're not exactly telling me which way to go either. I get it thought mate, this is really tricky. To be honestly I'm not exactly the smartest person in the world (lmao) so I try to judge my actions to the best of my ability. We'll see.
    I got it ;).
     
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    I suggested kicking him out in my first post, howvever I can't really tell you what decision is the best one to make because the only person on this forum who fully understands the situation is you.
     
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    Alright, this is basically what I'm going to do: I will channel positive spirits for the next two days into our house to basically make everyone feel like they are in a nice dream then I'll talk to him personally to see what the issue is. I mean what the real deal is because the shit he has been pulling for the last few months is seriously annoying. Then I'll judge what to do from there. I won't lay any waves on him unless I know he has family close because if he can get to his job... that's just being negative. If he doesn't have family close by and he's a dick on purpose, I'll summon them (if they are in range, they should be in Virginia though). That's it and I don't want this to go further than 1 week from today.
     
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    just tolerate him for that one month. Don't do anything that might haunt you for the rest of your life. then the people who use demons, I dont think they end up well. you better quit. thanks
     
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    Very well said :)
     
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    OP, you need to be extra nice to the guy but start wearing a loosely drawn dressing gown with your todger on display.
    One of two things will happen:
    1. He enjoys the display and you will have met your new life partner.
    2. He finds it extremely uncomfortable and eventually moves out.
     
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