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Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by loophole, Aug 14, 2011.

  1. loophole

    loophole Registered Member

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    Dear ladies of BHW,

    I would like to know when a stranger seduces you and manages to catch your interested/curiosity what five things do you want to know about him but you are afraid or feel awkward to ask him directly?

    And what tricks do you use to find out whatever it is you want to know about him?
     
  2. wowhaxor

    wowhaxor Executive VIP Premium Member

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    This is going to be a successful thread.
     
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  3. Georgebg

    Georgebg Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    What ?
     
  4. beazt

    beazt Power Member

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    I notice whenever such "only for women" threads are started, the replies are all "only from men"
     
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  5. dheer

    dheer Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    LOL seems like OP is going to sell an ebook after getting opinions from bhw ladies.. but OP do you really think any bhw lady is going to answer it on public forums :D
     
  6. cornkernel

    cornkernel Regular Member

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    well.... strangers don't seduce me.

    ever heard of stranger danger? lol...
     
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  7. Jeevs

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    Hundreds of men already subscribed! :D And we all know the reason why :D
     
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    ``Yousef Power Member

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    Dude, you been here since 08. You should know the kind of shit that happens when you post a "for women only" thread.

    Unless you've been living under a rock :O.
     
  9. loophole

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    Only one lady so far. There's got be some more!
     
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    Well we didn't hear a response from you. :p
     
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    Well baby, I can't speak for all of the other women of BHW but this gal loves a guy with big, floppy man-boobs. One of the tricks I like to use to get his attention is offering him my bra in exchange for some hot monkey love.

    Do you have man-boobs by chance?
     
  12. ThePrincess

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    #1-#5 how much money does he have?

    hahaha kidding! If you want serious answers that we all know your going to profit from, you have to pay for them!

    Maybe try posting the questions on a site like mysocialjobs.com or microwokers?
     
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    #1 - does he indulge in spacedocking.
     
  14. scully

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    I'm a woman!

    You can add education, class, money, sense of humor to the list. No redneck traits allowed.

    Seduction? Sounds like wishful thinking to me and probably isn't going to happen because it is the woman that calls the shots.
     
  15. Remington

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    Woman here, and no I won't show tits or GTFO. :p

    Is he a cheapskate? This is easy to spot: he doesn't even want to buy you a drink (or other setting-appropriate thing that costs) and/or he whines about how expensive things are in general. Cheapskates are aggravating joyless rejects.

    How much money does he make?
    Can't have any brokeasses. You don't want the guy who "forgets" his wallet on the way out of the joint and sticks you with the bill. Also, a rich guy who's a cheapskate might as well be broke!

    Does he have a girlfriend on every corner? I don't want any STDs! Trick for determining this is if he's obviously trying to line up some others in between snippets of conversation with you.

    Does he have a wife? For some women, this may not matter. But if there's any thoughts of a second encounter, it ought to. Competition is bad, and not just in SEO.

    Is he nuts in some unfun or overly-dangerous way? Gotta watch his behavior and listen for unintentionally-dropped clues on this. I don't want to end up in a garbage bag in some alley.

    Overall attitude: The woman is doing HIM the favor, not the other way around, and he'd better act like it dammit. Some women with low self-esteem may accept someone who's got it backwards, but that won't sell with me. Also, he needs to have a sense of humor, not be boring, and NOT BE IGNORANT! Oh, and no political whackjobs either.

    Ghetto? Not acceptable.
    Redneck? Same. Reasons are the same, too.
     
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  16. flibbertigibbet

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    OMG Remington....I've totally met up with guys that were like what you described. The "oh I forgot my wallet" thing or the"can you pay this time, I'll spot next time" thing drives me f-ing INSANE. It's lame, and won't keep a gals interest for long.

    I remember there was this one guy who would always try to over-compensate for how cool he thought he was by being really opinionated and always trying to get the last word in even though some of the stuff he said was clearly not well thought out before he said them. He made himself look like an ass, but I never had the heart to be rude and say "that was a really retarded and uneducated statement you just made" or correct him because I didn't want him to get upset over a bruised ego or cause confrontation between the two of us.

    So....back to the OP's question...Tricks? Just talk to him. Seriously. Ask him what you want to know. Women mostly only pay attention to the guys that are confident, smart, have a good personality, and look good initially. If you have those four things right off the bat, it's easy to keep me interested. After we meet up a couple of times and start sharing common interests or silly stories with each other, then I look at money and penis size. :p Have to say though, that sex is a deal breaker for a lot of women. If you don't know how to please a woman, or at least be willing to learn with her while you're in the privacy of the bedroom....then you're not worth keeping. This stuff is all over the internet in other "relationship" type forums....girls gab on all the time about this kind of thing. Us BH gals have better things to do with our time, unless we're bored (like I am now). You probably won't get a whole lotta replies, OP. :)
     
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  17. Windmill

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    What are the chances that 90% of "women" that reply to this thread are actually men? :rolleyes:
     
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    Why would I feel awkward? Aren't I the prize here?
     
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    1. It doesn't matter, generally speaking interest sparks within the first 7 seconds, then you only have not to be an idiot.
    2. Asking a woman what she thinks is NOT the best way to understand what to do to attract her. What she says is not what really attracts her. She might say she wants a sweet guy or a bad guy, money doesn't matter or it matters, etc. All that doesn't matter. It's all in the presence of the guy, non-verbal cues. A woman who herself thinks she wants a nice sweet guy who is romantic, blah blah might fall in love like crazy with someone very different than that if other subconscious triggers are met.
     
  20. vulzala

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    I'm not afraid to ask anything I feel I need to know. Some things would include knowing if he is married or has a SO. That is the number one deal breaker for me.

    He needs to be educated and I don't mean necessarily have a degree. I mean someone that can actually teach me stuff that I don't know myself. It gets boring as hell being the one having to teach the dude stuff. Or explaining things that are general knowledge. If you can get me to occasionally say "Cool - I didn't know that" you are a winner.

    Sense of humor. This is a must.

    Go-getter. I study, work as a translator freelance and do/am learning IM. If a dude just has his 9-5 and then watches the Tv the rest of the time he is doomed.

    Non-violent. If a dude talks about kicking someones ass or likes to get in peoples faces that is a no go for me. Mind you not a wimp. If a situation gets out of control and he needs to defend himself/you/friends/family then cool knowing he can, but not just for the fun of it.

    There is other stuff to but those are the most important for me. Money --YEAHHH! Sex----YEAHHH! But if he fails all the others above then I dont care how much money you have or how good you fuck.

    P.S. Oh yeah, and that he gives me resell rights on stuff he writes after picking my brain.