This is something that confuses me and has caused me to mess up my approaches time and time again. let's say you approach a group of 2 girls. When talking, who do you address? in other words, who do you look at? This is what I do while talking: I look at girl 1 for a few seconds, then I look at girl 2, then I look at girl 1, then I look at girl 2. But this makes me very uncomfortable, I feel like a weirdo when I do this. Then there is the alternative, just look at one, ignore the other. But the problem with this is that it seems kind of rude. Wouldn't the other girl feel like I am ignoring her? isn't that rude? which option appears more natural, to look at both of them, or only one of them?