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Psychology / Inner Game / Success Story Section

Discussion in 'Forum Suggestions & Feedback' started by digitalpower, Nov 21, 2009.

  1. digitalpower

    digitalpower BANNED BANNED

    Dec 16, 2008
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    If anyone is familiar with the dating/pickup community there are concepts called "outer game" and "inner game". In short, outer game are tactics and techniques used to pickup girls. Inner game is changing your internal beliefs to give you more confidence so you can attract women easier.

    These concepts definitely apply to the internet marketing world too. Right now, BHW is an outer game haven. There are tons of methods, techniques and tactics that can make you money. However, if the internet marketers inner game is poor all the outer game in the world will not help.

    There are quite a lot of posts about giving up / quitting. Some people have been here for months or years and haven't made much if any money at all. Most likely their inner game is nonexistant. Making fun of them, telling them to use the search function or to just "take action" isn't go to help them.

    If we had a section that was loaded with success stories, affirmations and other inner game boosting techniques we could shatter the self-limiting beliefs of these individuals and get them on the track to utilizing the techniques and tactics here that will make them money.
  2. blackhatcatz

    blackhatcatz Power Member

    Feb 8, 2008
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    internet marketer, call center owner
    Somewhere Asia, Moving around all the time
    Inner game is where it's at baby. Seriously, once i changed my beliefs. boom. changed my income and it's more like having the confidence to say you're good. be good and prove it and also learn how to react and how to view things since when you have crystal clear thoughts. man it makes a ton of difference.

  3. KBC-12

    KBC-12 Regular Member

    Dec 19, 2008
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    While I dig what you are saying, I dont think it will happen.

    I don't wish to stuff up the Members Download
    section with those types of materials. It just opens the door for people
    to start posting all kinds of self-help, motivational, new-age stuff.

    Quote from Wiz on this thread.

    And I kinda dig what he is saying too.

    I think there are good materials out there for what you are talking about, but for every relevant/good/worthwhile source out there, there are 5 more shitty BS rehashed crap materials. (kinda like IM. LOL)

    The forum could end up with loads and loads of worthless crap on here. And bring the type that search for them.

    If there were some way that only a successful respected member could upload in said section, then maybe It would work. I dunno....

    I'm sure your not the only member who would want something like this. Find out who else, call a brainstorming section and come up with a way to have this section that wouldn't result in fears the mod's have here.
  4. triggershot

    triggershot Registered Member

    Sep 15, 2008
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    I totally agree OP, "As within, so without". If your 'inner game' isn't up to par with your outer game you're just wasting your time. I'm all for a section like this, and I think it'll highly benefit this community.