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Point of life? Purpose of life?

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  1. makealiving

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    So recently I turned 20 years old. At some point, we are all going to die. Why not die early? I know there are many people having an amazing life, but not everyone's having a good life. My dad died 4 years ago, I live with my mom. I am doing degree now. So what do you think about point of life or purpose of life? These are probably the life's hardest questions. Please post your thoughts here. I tried several times ending my life, still couldn't do it. But in next couple of days, I might succeed. I never dated any girl, still virgin, never had any love experience. I see nowadays, even 12 years old have a girlfriend and enjoying. Girls don't seem to enjoy when I talk with them. I always have to approach to them, they never once came to talk to me. They try to avoid me.

    Just wanna know, what you do guys think about life? Point of life? Purpose of life?

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  2. Jayder

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    Did you ever consider seeing someone?
     
  3. davids355

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    I believe we are all on a journey. God knows where to. But a journey none the less.
     
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  4. makealiving

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    Yeah, a journey to work your ass off for your whole life to bring food on table, pay bills, grow old and die, that's basically it and nothing else.
     
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    The point of life is to live it.
     
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    Well, some things in life you can't control - like you have to eat, for example, you have to get on with society and it's laws to some extent but most stuff you are in control of - you don't have to be a slave to the system if that's how you see it. You could live in a tent or a caravan if you wanted, you could grow your own food etc.

    But discovering who you are and want you want in life is just another part of the journey you are on.

    Of course I don't know this, it's just what I think about life from my experiences.

    Once upon a time I was practically living on the street and I wondered what the point of life was, I hated the system and the rich etc. But once you find out what you want and start going after it your perspective might change, like mine did.
     
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    There's more to it than that mate. It's about the moments in between those times. Such as that feeling when you get paid, make a conversion, have a mental breakthrough, or during sex. Most people who are single get a little depressed, especially around the holidays.

    The easiest way to handle it is to understand that sometimes, the larger your bank account, the more people who will want to be around you.
     
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    "Everybody dies but not everybody lives" - Drake
     
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  9. Coepi

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    Money and sex are similar in the degree that, the more one haves the less obsessed about them it is.
    You don't really want to know what's the meaning of life, you just want some attention, someone that cares about you and well, get laid.
    Guess what, people have their own life to care about, their own desires and aspirations so instead of being needy, an emotional beggar looking for other people attention, focus on yourself. Love yourself fist, go do things that excite you, that make you feel afraid. Join a gym, start running, keep active!

    Give other people reasons to pay attention to you, that's how it works, not the other way around. Girl don't like talking to you? Maybe put an effort to actually try to know them ( instead of just wanting to get laid). An interesting person is not the one who has a lot of things to say but the one who listens, so listen to them. Not just women, but men, children, old young, just pay attention to others, make an effort to care about other people and i guarantee you that they willl care about you too!
     
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    Yeah.. 'real' friends.
     
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    This is not blackhatdating
     
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    Well sir, I asked the point of life and purpose of life. And whats your all thoughts about this.
     
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    'real friends' are hard to come by these days. Consider this, if someone was broke all the time, and you tried to help them but nothing stuck - would you want to be around them all the time? What about when you do activities that require money?

    It's not how I am, but I can see where people like that are coming from.
     
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    No one knowns the purpose of life.

    Girls never approach men.
     
  16. makealiving

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    Well not everyone have larger bank accounts. I don't have. I wish I had, I would have visit to other countries and explore the world. Money is most important things, and every people have different life depending on how big their bank account is.
     
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    17 yo here, have a girlfriend, almost a year together now, it gets boring after a while, I dont understand the hype over it now, from this moment in time I dont see myself married, ever, or even living with someone else.
    About ending your life, well, life is pointless thats true, but ending your life is quite brutal considering your mom will be devastated, think of her before doing something.
    I could suggest, not that I do these stuff but in order to pass your time and maybe enjoy life try doing things, perhaps meet new friends, play new games, go to stand ups of comedians you like.
    There are a lot of stuff you can do, for example, you seek to start dating, so perhaps set it as a goal in life? try working out, dressing better, level up your small talk skills, I mean, you don't get very often to experience something as complex as life, it might be interesting if you give it a try (coming from a kid who sits all day long infront of the computer haha, but seriously, maybe play an instrument you never thought you will, perhaps the bass, get funky, I am sure you will find something to do if you try)

    If you ask me if there is purpose to life, I would say no, but life could be fun if you give it a try.
     
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  18. makealiving

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    Its all about money. The world is about money. Money can changes people's lives. And if you don't have enough for living, these things come to mind .
     
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    See, right there, that post indicates that you have ambitions. To put yourself into a fictional situation and assume what you might want in that situation can be used to generate a goal, which can be used to substantiate purpose.

    Put everything you've got (time, focus etc) into IM or whatever you're doing for money. Even when you fall, dust your shoulders off, and keep on moving. Your life will change for the better, believe me.

    I don't think you're doing it right.
     
  20. mrarowana

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    @ makealiving
    Point of live.Could be live,have fun and creat
    Just cos now some things are not working out for you dont mean that the future wont be fun

    You pointed out some things that are not going good but in few years you might have that amazing year in life where its gona bring you all that stuff that you are missing
    Dont bring no harm to you self.You could be going thruout some depresion and maybe some dr and some pills could easy put you on the right track