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  1. shanna_doll

    shanna_doll Power Member

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    .. that she has a fucking moustache on her face? I usually don't swear, but this is driving me mad.

    She is nice, tall, seems rather modest with maners.. but she has a bit of a moustache on her face, and I am pretty sure her friends noticed that too.

    Anyone ever been in a similar situation? Should I tell her or maybe ask her friends if they told her.. etc?
     
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    Chill bro, she is probably preparing for No Shave November.
     
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    Why do you feel the need to tell her? Does it affect you personally?

    Don't look. There - fixed it.
     
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    You probably havent been with many/any girls if you are getting caught up by it cos all girls have at least a little fluff on their top lip. And if they don't they shave it and you feel the stubble.

    Virgin detected.
     
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    she will not like it if a guy telling she has a moustache. Better to tell her frnd to tell her
     
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    Probably isn't really a female, you can never be to sure these days.
     
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    Pretty sure OP is a girl.

    OP, approach it the same way you'd approach someone with bad breath. But instead of offering her a tic tac, tell her that caterpillar on her face is going to grow wings and turn into a butterfly if she leaves it there any longer.

    You can't get nicer than that.

    Alternatively, offer her a razor and just say you have a spare. No explanation needed.
     
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  8. M4XW3LL

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  9. shanna_doll

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    Guys, I am male, and I am not talking about a bit of hair. It's very visible, even under moonlight. I know that no one is perfect, but it's too obvious, any of you would notice that, especially since she has 4-5 hot friends who obviously take care of their faces. and I like her but.. damn. I can't even imagine kissing her like that.
     
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    Im a 'tell them straight' kinda person, by 'them' i mean anyone.

    Thankfully its something my wife loves about me, if i think she looks fucking stoopid in whatever she chose to wear that day i'll tell her, and she does the same with me.

    Admittedly, im usually the one that looks a twat.

    Although in this case i wouldn't say anything, she obviously knows its there and doesn't care, so probably wont care what you think.
     
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    Now I'm pretty sure that she is preparing for No Shave November.
     
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    Tell it to her.
    Say it straight to her face that she has hair over her lips. Woman likes man who are honest and if you feel uncomfortable with that (I also would) than you need to tell it to her. She will:

    a) be embarassed a little bit and fix this issue. She had probably not notice it for a while.
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    b) she starts bitching at you about this.

    At the end there is no way around it.
     
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    Accidentally spill hot wax on her lip. Then help her rip it off. Problem solved.
     
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    You want to tell her she's got a moustache because you like her but not enough to kiss her if she doesn't sort the moustache out? Hmm, ok. Not getting a Romeo and Juliet vibe here.

    There is no good way to tell a woman her hairy face is stopping you sticking your tongue down her throat. Best outcome is she's mortified and sorts it out. You just have to hope her smooth upper lip doesn't stop her upgrading to a guy who doesn't have your nasal hair/monobrow/beer belly/lazy eye/ etc (delete as appropriate). Unless of course, your personal grooming is flawless and you're a male model?

    Worst outcome: she doesn't care about you and you're rejected by the girl with a moustache who'll laugh about it with all her hot hairless friends later. Better check your ego's bulletproof beforehand.
     
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    What is the problem with that? I also would not kiss a woman who has a moustache. Same if she has unshaved legs or armpits. What is wrong in having atleast some kind of standards?
     
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    "You have a mustache."
     
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    Brother, you sound like a feminazi. I am not looking for a Playboy model, even if I could date one. Yes, I have nasal hair, but I remove it from time to time. I also take care of my face. I use cream to remove redness from my nose. I was skinny for years and I am working out to gain some weight because some girls told me I am too skinny. I also want to look more sexy for her, so what's the problem if she is sexy for me. I am not 70 old guy, I am 20-something guy with a libido who is surrounded by hot girls and looking for a nice girl to eventually marry, so obviously I need her to be somewhat cute/attractive for me.. :/
     
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    My aunt has had a prominent mustache all my life. She is married. Her daughters have mustaches. One of them is married. No one has ever said anything. They know it's there, and if they don't care then why should I?

    It's just like chicks who choose not to shave. You think it's gross but they feel like it's natural so why hide it?

    Maybe she doesn't have a problem with the hair on her face. I am sure she looks in the mirror every morning and sees it, especially if she wears makeup.
     
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    Shave it while she sleeps xD
     
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    When you kiss her just tell her that it makes your face feel scratched and you can't stand it.
     
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