OK, first I'm not a kid. I have kids of my own & can't believe that my parents are divorcing after 40+ years. Basically my old man is leaving my mom for his high-school sweetheart. He's always been a control-freak and has handled the bills - leaving my mom completely out of it. They don't really have any serious debts but I heard he wants to keep it amicable and just split 50-50. They aren't wealthy but he certainly had enough time to hide accts as he's been planning this for over a year I found out... Long story short - I'm worried that he's going to take advantage of her good nature and clean out accounts and stuff. So, if anyone knows how to find out if he's got hidden assets please let me know or PM me. Also, he mentioned getting a moving truck to get "his things". This really concerns me because they aren't just his things. Does anyone know how to stop him from pulling a truck up one day and cleaning out the house? I mean I thought the judge was supposed to determine who takes what at the hearings... They are in PA btw. Can she change the locks without repurcussions? I posted here because I didn't know who else to ask - BHW users have always come thru for me.