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On my way to divorce- how do i save my marriage?

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  1. mvptexas

    mvptexas Newbie

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    wife moved out back to her parents after 10 yrs. the lack of intimacy for a couple years is the problem.
    but now that she is not here - how the hell do i get her back? she wont see me or hardly talk to me now
    been looking for a download of Your marriage Saviour by michael cross
    anyone know where to find this?
     
  2. Adrian112

    Adrian112 Supreme Member Premium Member

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    the lack of intimacy > Fallout 4 :D
     
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    Coingrabber Regular Member

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    Bro, be extra kind and nice to her and try to get her back by being open about what you plan ->saving the marriage. And stay focussed dude. Good luck!
     
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    shanna_doll Power Member

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    Hm, how you mean the lack of intimacy.. who has low libido in this case, you or her?

    Give her some time man, don't call or text, just leave her alone, she will miss you sooner or later and come back, trust me. Just don't act needy, let her miss you, let her chase you ;)
     
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  7. Coingrabber

    Coingrabber Regular Member

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    I once did that and now she lost virginity with another man...what should I say? Don't do it if you are serious about her.
     
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    archon10 BANNED BANNED

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    Who fucking posts their first post in an internet marketing forum about their lost marriage?

    Go fuck her sister. She won't ignore you then.
     
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    shanna_doll Power Member

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    Are you serious man? This guy is 10 years with her. She won't be able to ignore her emotions. She is just upset, this is a fairly common thing in marriage.
     
  10. wizard04

    wizard04 Elite Member

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    I would say move on, you marriage was de-indexed (manual penalty) you need to move on another project and learn from the previous mistakes.
     
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    Capo Dei Capi BANNED BANNED

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    Also over 1 year after making an account.
     
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    Honestly taking advice from other people is tricky with these types of situations.

    You know her better then any of us, do something she likes. Take her somewhere she has never been but always wanted to go to.

    Just try to be her friend again. Then grow it from there.
     
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    10 years? and you`re still alive? and you want her back? omg! what the world has come to?! Be glad you`re not the one moving to your parents... or maybe after divorce?
     
  14. randybishop

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    Marriage counselor.
    You need a professional, you are way past the point of using a book to save your marriage.
     
  15. Asif WILSON Khan

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    TBH Dude, it is probably over but give her some space, don't hassle/stalk her or her family.
    After a week or so have a gentle telephone conversation suggesting that when she is ready that you guys meet up and discuss your problems.
    If you think you will have trouble being calm and reasonable on the phone, then put it in a letter.
    Don't discuss your feelings or what you want, don't blame her or accept that everything is your fault.
    The truth is that it is unlikely to be 100% one persons fault for the breakdown in the relationship, and if she makes out that everything is your fault (only you can be sure if this is true or not) then even if you try to fix things it is unlikely they will work.
    Listen to her and if you can then try to make the changes that are required, now is the time to state how you think she can help save the relationship.

    I don't think a .pdf and .mp3 will help but here you go (NO VT BECAUSE DIRECT FROM AUTHOR SITE)

    Code:
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Part1WelcomeLetter.pdf
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Part2TermsAndConditions.pdf
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Part3Manual1UnleashingTheLion.pdf
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Part4Manual2TamingTheLioness.pdf
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Part5BonusManual1.pdf
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Part6BonusManual2.pdf
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Part9AppendixIfYouAreAlreadySeparated.pdf
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/PartOneHeroExerciseIntro.mp3
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/PartTwoHeroExercise.mp3
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/PartThreeBeliefChangeIntro.mp3
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/PartFourBeliefChangeExercise.mp3
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/
    http://www.savemarriagecentral.com/
    
     
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    If she moved out that's probably a sign that she doesn't want tone with you. Best thing you can do is give her space, and start planning your own future as well.
     
  17. iulianalex

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    That's hapen when you put this problem on IM forum ;) )))
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    Here's the best advice.... Don't come to a black hat SEO forum for advice.
     
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    OP You didn't build enough sexual backlinks so you dropped off her serps and she found someone else.
     
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  20. CeaseFireBlack

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    LOOOOOOOOOL THIS IS THE SMARTEST SO FAR, the guy is baiting you to get an E-BOOK, he probably going to sell it somewhere :D :D :D , personally if i ever get married, i wont go to marketing forum askin for advice in my 1st post !!