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OMG, I complimented a beautiful girl and she...

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by NowYouCan, Jun 5, 2011.

  1. NowYouCan

    NowYouCan Newbie

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    gave me a big smile and said "thank you" :) :) :). My first ever compliment to a girl and it worked :D.

    I wasn't going to do it at first because I didn't know what her reaction would be. Good: smile and thank me :). Bad: think I'm a creep :(.

    I kept thinking if I should do it or not. Yes, no, yes, no, yes, no, yes, no...didn't know what to do.

    Then I thought to myself, "I only live life once so just do it, today could be my last day. Even if I fail, just take it as a learning experience" and so I finally decided to do it. Too bad she didn't become my girlfriend because that's all I did. I don't have time for a girlfriend now anyway so it's all good (I have a lot of stuff to do). Just trying to gain some experience now so that I will be ready in the future.

    I assume most of the people here are male and just like myself, have a big interest in women. I just learned a few useful tips that can help greatly when talking to women.

    The first thing is to always have a positive mindset so that you can turn negative thoughts into positive thoughts. For example, if a girl rejects you you probably think you are not good enough for her and you start to have negative thoughts. But do this instead, think the girl isn't good enough for you and that you are one person closer to finding "the one."

    The second thing is to live every day like it is your last day so if you don't do it today then you won't be able to do it tomorrow. Even if you make a mistake, it doesn't matter because you now know what works and what doesn't work. So if you want to talk to a girl, JUST DO IT!

    And for the last thing, this allows you to talk to ALL girls with high confidence because you now know they are on the same level as you. I know guys get intimidated by beautiful girls because they think they are out of their league but after this little trick you won't be afraid anymore. I should charge $1997 for this but I'm going to give it away for free lol. Do you know what it is? Answer: all girls poop :eek: LOL. But yeah, try it and see how it works for you lol.

    Anyway, anyone have any advice (courses, websites, whatever) that can help with women? I know The Game by Neil Strauss, David DeAngelo, and a few others. I'm still new to this so I have a lot to learn.

    Edit: Read my post below before you comment. Why so serious? lol

     
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  2. NoirHat

    NoirHat Regular Member

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    wait.wut.
     
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  3. social engineer

    social engineer Regular Member

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    the game by neil strauss, a friend asked me about famous dating book and i couldnt remember what it was called.

    as for your post, im assuming your ethier 13 or you live in some god forsaken sandy hut where you can get stonned to death for just looking at a girls ankles
     
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  4. ┼blackrat┼

    ┼blackrat┼ Senior Member

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    OP, how old are you?

    This fear of women usually goes away when you start talking to anyone, anywhere. Girls, be them "smoking hot" or just "I´d do them" will simply be one more person you´re talking to, so you can let the "I want you so bad I can hardly socialize without being a goofy" for later and enjoy the conversation better, making fun of her and treating her like if she was your little sister, till she starts slaping your arm or getting somewhat embarassed in a "dammit he got me" way by what you´re saying. Remember if you´re having a good time, then she has more probability of liking being around you. And that´s usually the time the girl needs to settle it for ya. Oh, good looks are important too.

    Needy+Boring = Wussy.
    Cocky+Funny = Success.
     
  5. Madruga

    Madruga Senior Member

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    What teh fuck have I just read? If you made such a long post for being happy about giving a compliment, then I don't wanna imagine how many volumes will your book have, when you'll lose your virginity. Anyway, I assume you're 12 or 13 years old, you should go to theplace.bz if you want to brag about these stuff.
     
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  6. social engineer

    social engineer Regular Member

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    or hackforums they also have the same age range!
     
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  7. englandrm

    englandrm Senior Member

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    YOU ARE A LIAR!


    Girls do not poop.
     
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    Mokodoki Regular Member

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    I agree and don't agree. Having an "alpha male" edge will get you past the initial loser screening point most girls have and even rouse an interest. However, the cocky attitude can get pretty irritating and obnoxious. I have no interest in sleeping with a guy that's disrespectful and most of the women who are attracted to that type of man are emotionally damaged or insecure. :rolleyes:

    Instead, I like men who are good at leading me somewhere that I will want to follow without being too pushy or spend the entire conversation cracking jokes at my expense.
     
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  9. Kaistar

    Kaistar Power Member

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    Through their nose, with little dribbly bits from their ears...
     
  10. NowYouCan

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    Geez guys, the whole compliment thing was just a joke. Just wanted to take my mind off of work on a Sunday afternoon. It's the weekend anyway, thought everyone would be relaxing and not taking everything so seriously. I've seen a few dating threads here so just wanted to do something different. Pretty sure some of you need some good dating advice.

    lol I didn't come up with this. I was reading a dating thread here and someone mentioned it, not sure if it's true or not lol.
     
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    That was actually one of the deleted scenes. I think it's on youtube. And I also think it was "fart", not poop, but they basically proved that girls don't do either.
     
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    nil.ejman Registered Member

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    ok guys, give a guy a break. so wut, he's a bit childish... that's ok. these days, we all say that everything is ok... so why wouldn't that be?
     
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    I was thinking these exact thoughts yesterday OP, wow lol
     
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    Keep on doing it. Don't spend any money on those ridiculous books. You'll be fine.
     
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    was this a joke?

    getting someone to say thank you to a compliment, is not a part of the process for getting laid
     
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    Dude, how old are you? :rolleyes:
     
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    rinse and repeat
     
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    hahahahahahaha i love the way you guys destroy these type of people
     
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    hahhhaahahhaaaa!! SERIOUSLY........... hahahhhahhahahahahaaaaa!! (Speechless)