No, I've not gone AWOL. It's just an unexpected curve ball.....

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  1. shezboy

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    Hey,

    I wasn't sure if this was worth posting as I don't know how many people would read it, or if the people it was designed for would read it, but I'm putting it up here anyway.

    As a heads up, if you post on any of my BST threads, tag me in a post or PM me and I don't get back to you too quick then please accept my apologies but I may not be around too much to pick those things up for the next few days.

    My wife is expecting our second child around April 9th but there has been some complications pop up today. Due to those complications, my wife has been admitted to the hospital and will remain there until the birth.

    It's more of a precaution and the hospital wants to play it safe. They explained the worse case scenario of my wife going in to sudden labour and not being at the hospital. There is a risk attached to that happening which could prove fatal for the baby, so clearly, the very best option is for her to remain in the hospital until the birth.

    During this time I have become a single parent with some extra duties on top :)

    I expect to be quite busy for the next few days and I may not be able to spend as much time checking in at BHW.

    If you read this and happen to notice someone posting on one of my BST's, or a thread that I am mentioned in, then I'd be really grateful if you could drop a reply there and explain the situation.

    The help desk at https://webuildtools.com/helpdesk/ isn't affected by this in any way and all tickets will still be dealt with in the normal time frame.

    Thanks muchly,

    Shez
     
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    Good luck with second baby!))
     
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    Hope everything goes smoothly with your wife's pregnancy and congrats to you as well.
     
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    Congratz on your new baby boy!
     
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    Congrats on the new child, may your family stay safe and sound throughout!

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  6. shezboy

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    Many thanks :)

    Thank you :)

    Cheers but it's a girl :)

    Awesome pic and thanks :)
     
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    If there is something I can do to help while you are taking care of your family situation feel free to hit me up and ask.
     
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    Congratulations, i suggest you get a VA to deal with BHW pm's i think .
     
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    Fully understandable. Mom and baby come first. <3
     
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    Thanks for that, its really appreciated.

    Shez

    Yeah, it's one of the things I've always held back on when it comes to VA's. I always prefer to have control over my posts here to maintain the 'personality' of the account (if that makes sense).

    Indeed they do :)
     
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    Read this on your newsletter email. Hopefully the baby comes out fine!
     
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    Good luck with everything man! Hope your wife is well c:
     
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    Congrats on the baby and I hope everything goes well.
     
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    Hey Shez,

    Congrats on your second baby. I'll remember mother and (comming) baby in my prayers.

    Family comes first! And yes, there is a difference between genuine (medical) problem and going AWOL, and we all understand that.

    Cheers!
     
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    Second baby....you're going to have one busy life :) Congrats man, and I hope everything goes well!
     
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    Hope all goes well shez, it's gonna be a busy time for you over the next few months.

    If I see any posts on your threads and your not online I'll drop a mention of this.
     
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    Fingers crossed all goes well and Baby Shez is delivered safely and along side mum both are in good health.
     
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    Second baby !! Advance wishes man, Hope everything goes well !![​IMG]
     
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    Family above all

    Hoping for a safe delivery
    Congratulations in advance!!!
     
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