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Need to forget a girl- REALLY BADLY!!!!!!!

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Jason_parker700, Jun 8, 2010.

  1. Jason_parker700

    Jason_parker700 Regular Member

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    The girl that i love, doesn't love me and now she is seeing somebody else. I am Laughing and crying both at the same time. Pls help.
     
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    cgman Registered Member

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    Dude, this aint the forum for that. Pick up smoking, alcohol and drugs - your problems should go away.
     
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    wpbacklinks Elite Member

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    Let's Pray! another girls waiting you...
     
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  4. jburrtucaz

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    Sorry to hear that man. We've probably all been through a similar situation. it gets better with time. Just find someone else to spend time with and get your mind off of her. You'll be cool. Just give it a little time.
     
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  5. HaRRo

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    Sigh although this is the lounge a lot of you dudes resort to here for women problems lol
     
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  6. ruworth

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    Join a gym and go there alot, once she see's the muscle you are bangin on she will wanna bang you :)

    Really tho time is a great healer.
     
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  7. Stevieg

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    Best way to forget a girl is to get another girl!
     
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    when u figure it out, write an ebook, package it up and sell it~
     
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  9. evilman11

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    been there done that, just go out and bang some other hoes and you'll be over her soon enough.
     
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    Ignore her phone calls and spend time away from her for a few months and focus on yourself! Focus on Success! only thing that heals a break up is time. Round up your friends and go on a vacation Life is short enjoy it brother!
     
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  11. HoNeYBiRD

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    don't try to forget her or anyone, just take it as a valuable experience, which will be part of your memories like we have in childhood, no need to bring them back - you need to clear any images or objects that will remind you of this person, pack them in a box - as it's not possible neither rational!
     
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  12. sweemoo

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    now that you have had a painful experience IRL go and lock yourself up in your room for a few weeks/months and get good at IM and making some money. Once your makin some moniez go out and buy some nice shit and get a finer chick then go rub it in that bitchez face. The best revenge is success! :D
     
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    If you are thinking about her it maybe coz she is your first love or so.Go to a stripper
    more beautiful than her and fuck her.IF ya have money go for 5 or 6.All of them should be better than her.Now you should feel better and would have a new belief that you deserve better than her.Get some dating course(double your dating all of mistrys course,magic bullets etc) improve on yourself,Pick up girls and date as many girs as possible.Improve upon your Pickup skills.

    When your ex sees you having fun with lot of girls(Date only hot girls than her) she would naturally get attracted to ya.Now dont feel bad about losing her,always show
    that you are the alfa in friend of her new bf.

    Thats it if she wants you she have to work for it.

    I have been on your shoes and if the above advises dont make ya feel good do as i have told ya.See for yourself its effects.

    Make some good cash from tips at bhw and blast it to make up your mind.
     
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    hahaha qft
     
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    the things that help me through this kind of situation is
    - a friend, and
    - Real Social Dynamics - The Blueprint Decoded (downloaded from other forum)
    help me change myself ... much.
    back then i kept thinking "Where did I go wrong?"...
    until i finally realized that
    i shall take responsibility for all of my action,
    not as victim.
    i'm not wrong, i just don't know.
    and i should learn from that.
     
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    there is an abundance of beautiful and hot women out there, go out and search,you ll forget this bitch in a moment.
     
  17. ironlifter76

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    Jason_parker700,

    Just curious...how old are you? I agree with some of the advice, but some will have to do with where you are in your life and how old you are. As we get older, and I know this doesn't apply to everyone 'cuz we're all different, we generally don't take things quite as hard because experience has taught that things are usually not as bad as they appeared at first. I agree, time is a healer. But right now time is not on your side. So, as someone pointed out, get and keep yourself busy. 'Cuz the more you just sit around the more you will feel self-pity. Get together with some trusted, good friends and find something positive to do. Maybe help out someone that could use a hand. Anyway, hope you are able to turn the corner soon and get on with your incredible life. BTW, I'm not kidding about the age...would really like to know.
    Take care.
    Regards,
    ironlifter76:coffee:
     
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    Free yourself of the responsibility of trying to make other people happy. Respect and love them enough to allow them to take care of their own happiness.

    Get your attention off those things in others that don't make you feel good.

    Appreciate and love yourself in every moment you can.

    Do not expect others to behave in a way you want, so you will be happy. Release yourself forevermore and know that you alone control your happiness and it is a choice, no matter what anyone else is doing.

    Love and respect yourself completely.

    Know that you are perfect right now.
     
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    Man, this happened to me last xmas eve! and once befor aswell...
    Now after 6 months Im much better, what I did is concentrate on my internet business for atleast 16 hours a day and make more money than before...at the end of the day, just think it as I do... ITS HER FUCKING LOSS!!!
    The bitch now is alone and struggling with her OWN kids, that I used to support aswell as supporting my own, working all hours to make ends meet, and Im here in my sunny flat by the sea IM'ing in my balcony whilst drinking a few Johnnie Walker Black Labels and watching her go by everyday!!!
    THINGS CAN ONLY GET BETTER!
     
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  20. hardhat

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    Code:
    pornhub.com
    - this will solve your problem in the next few weeks.
     
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