OK so here's an example of what I'm currently using, this is what I send to a person who answers one of my ADs in the M4M category: Hey! Wow, I'm impressed. You actually sound normal lol. Ugh, you should see some of the other replies I've gotten. These other dudes are out of their freakin' minds and fucking UGLY lol. I swear I'm not being mean or shallow, just keeping it real. I've gotten about 100 replies, and from those only about 20 are worth responding to. You're in that 20. I'm totally doing this as if I was interviewing someone for a job haha. But I'm interviewing them for a date! haha See, this is what I like about the Internet, my options are HUGE and I can date on my own terms. So as part of my terms, I set up my own little page. If you're dead serious about meeting me for drinks, go to %url% and let's take it from there. Let's do this Oh you'll find my pictures there btw. This works well enough in the W4M section, but the M4M click ratio is horrible. I need someone to either write about 20 of these or sell me your reply templates that have been proven to work. Will provide more writing related work if you can pull this off. Thanks!!