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Need advice on a girl - Only serious replies plz

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by ghengis_khan, Aug 5, 2013.

  1. ghengis_khan

    ghengis_khan Regular Member

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    So theres this girl that Ive known for like 10 years and we always hang out and stuff. Were really close and we often sleep in the same bed but she says she sees me more like a brother. I know she really trusts me because she always tells me about all the asshole guys who try and get with her. So I've secretly liked her for over 5 years now but I've always been too scared to say anything. My mom says trust and friendship are always a good starting platform for relationships and that's exactly what we have.

    I just don't know how to tell her, does anyone have any idea how I could let her know how I feel ? I'm pretty sure she will feel the same about me too


    (ffs guys, this is an obvious troll thread and my way of saying : stop with the bs dating advice/member of the month/asslickery threads)
     
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  2. okiedokie

    okiedokie Regular Member

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    Why do you need advice if you sleep in the same bed .
    I don't quite get it .
     
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  3. steelballs

    steelballs BANNED BANNED

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    Tell her you are Ghengis Khan she will be impressed...:cool:
     
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  4. bartosimpsonio

    bartosimpsonio Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    It's really hard giving this kind of advice, you and only you can know how to approach this....
     
  5. RushingWind

    RushingWind Elite Member

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    Are the well known BartMan?

    On a serious note :


    If you feel so strongly that she has mutual feelings towards you, maybe you should just approach her
    by candlelight and tell her that you love her and that she is your one true love. Take her to some fancy restaurant, chicks dig that.
     
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    Tell her that you are a good beaver eater!
     
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  8. Reyone

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    I think by now she must think you are gay...
    Don't know about you, but when I sleep with a girl chances are sex or sex
     
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  9. Roparadise

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    Take her to a night club, get her tipsy and go to her place and have sex with her. Then she will be your girlfriend.
     
  10. Numbuh362

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    I personally don't waste my time with girls, probably because I'm still to young (under 25 ;)) the last girl I was with pretty much just wasted my time. Always wanted to hang out, go hiking, watch movies, etc. It really kept me away from my work. If you're more stable and settled down then you could start going for them "girls"
     
  11. pyrokinetic

    pyrokinetic Registered Member

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    Indeed, it's a plunge you've got to make on your own.
    How does she feel about relationships in general at the moment? How long has it been since her last breakup? What are your ages?
     
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    Then follow that up with a stiff injection...
     
  13. ghengis_khan

    ghengis_khan Regular Member

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    I cant believe people are answering this seriously

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  14. jgeeked

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    If your sleeping in the same bed and you still haven't sealed the deal, there is no hope for you bro.

    As mudbutt has posted - your in the friend zone :O
     
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    Hi Bartman.
     
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    Ghengis, don't be so beta. Demand shoe on head!
     
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    You are on an internet marketing forum asking for dating advice. I can tell you that if she was attracted to you, she'd have done something about it by now. Unless you want to ruin your friendship and become another one of the asshole guys on the list, I would suggest to just leave it. I mean it's been 5 years that you've liked her what the hell have you been doing for the last 5 years?
     
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  18. okiedokie

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    Make her browse BHW and show this thread .
     
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    Enter via the back door if the red flag is flying...:eek:
     
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