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Need Advice - Having A Major Dilemma

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by coreygeer, May 3, 2012.

  1. coreygeer

    coreygeer BANNED BANNED

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    Hey BHW, I'm having a serious dilemma.

    A quick background: The guy I'm talking about, we'll call him Bill. He's my best friend, well he was.. he's been my friend since we were 10 or 11. I'm 24 years old so you can imagine there's some history there.

    Well recently, he started acting a tad weird (like 1 year ago) so about 6 months ago, I figured to myself. "Ok, I gotta see what this guy does online, he always jokes about sick/disturbing/weird stuff" and viola.. his Gmail and Facebook passwords were saved... oh boy but was the joke on me.

    So I read through his entire facebook clear to the beginning of when he had it, I read through the gmail e-mails and still do to this day. It's like an addicting fucked up show I can't stop watching but I know i should do something. It's like "what's he going to do next, what does he do next?!" It's addicting but at the same time I know he needs professional mental help or to be in an institutionalization.

    I've known he was bisexual for a long time (he always joked about it for a long period of time) He finally came out years after constantly joking about it.

    Well now a days, he keeps joking about children, philipino boys, having sex with them and how hot it would be to have them. He's also typing in "How to conceive a boy" in his search results on Chrome. You know, I appreciate fucked up jokes but I don't think he's joking.

    Additionally, he's continuously joking about having sex with his mom. he even sent a fake email to her (more on that later). His girlfriend to day said "I'm not your mother, you can do it yourself" he said "Can you pretend to be" She obviously thought he was joking. She's been his girlfriend for 9 months to give you more insight on this.

    Now for a list of all the creepy shit

    - Apparently he let a guy drill him from behind while wearing his sister's clothing when he was 16. (More specifically her skirt)
    - He tried to sleep with his sister.. and naturally she declined and moved out without telling anyone until years later. She told her brother which eventually got around. He always jokes about incest and has a TON of "Incest Porn" on his Chrome History...
    - He messages everyone possible if he sees they're "bisexual" and tries to get "stories" from them all. "So what did u do with her" "so what do u do with girls" I'm sorry no, it's not normal.
    - he messages everyone asking "is it cheating if it's with a guy".. he literally brings up this and the above in nearly 100% of his convos.
    - He poses as a woman on Craigslist (not e-whoring or for making money) but to try to score legit pictures or stories from the girls. When guys reply, he goes "are u bi hun i know a guy".
    - He posed as a woman and sent a message to his family members saying "hey I found your e-mail on a website, are you bi? I hope i got the right email id love to talk to you and share stories with you" He sent this to his mom.. his 70 year old aunt/grandma (I forget who she is) and another 50 year old woman that works with his grandma.
    - He's constantly posting in Craigslist looking for bi-sexual discreet hookups and again posing as a woman to earn "stories" of people.

    When do you finally confront the guy and say "yeah.. dude.. you're a complete fucking creep, and you have a girlfriend of 9 months."

    When do you finally do something about it?
     
  2. Nigel Farage

    Nigel Farage BANNED BANNED

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    I never evaluate one side of a relationship without considering the other.

    I think your problem is that you don't know you have a problem. You think the problem is somewhere WAAAAY over there. But it's not. It's right there, inside of you. It's you. YOU are the problem. All that stuff about "someone else" is just you changing the subject and redirecting attention away from you the problem and pointing instead to "someone else" the problem.

    Why are you so determined to place yourself on stage, indicate so clearly that you have serious problems while acting out this farce that the "conversation is really supposed to be about" someone else. Such drama, and for what purpose. We're all supposed to pretend you are the normal one, and what do we (well I, at least) get in exchange. Is this role play for money, or do you want people to role play for you for free. Maybe you should stand out on a street corner with a cardboard sign that says "WANTED: GROUP OF PEOPLE TO DO FREE ROLE PLAY WHERE I'M NORMAL AND SOMEONE ELSE HAS A SERIOUS PROBLEM" Maybe post an ad on craigslist. Maybe you could write a play, and hire a local college to gather around you and pretend that you are normal and the other guy is the weirdo, your "best friend" with the problem. Or, even better, maybe you could rent a church and hire a preacher, and pay him to give a sermon to the congregation about how "even God says" that you are normal and this other guy has a serious problem.

    Whatever "problem" person "B" may have, you are fully aware of it and always have been. There's something about that you find attractive, and if it was not for that, you would probably not even know him.

    Anyways, there's more, but that's the basic jist. The premise of your post is based on the idea that either people are stupid and believe your version of reality, or that people are willing to pretend in order to accomdate your weird desires. Generally, that level of effort requires some money.
     
  3. coreygeer

    coreygeer BANNED BANNED

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    Yeah, I didn't have a problem with any of the stuff (I hadn't seen yet) when I thought it was all a joke. You can analyze and spin this in any direction you want, but wanting to have sex with your mom, trying to pose as a girl to get personal stories out of family members and etc all of the above that has been listed... is fucking CREEPY.

    This isn't normal. These are the type of people you end up seeing on the 5 o clock news for weird shit. Everyone always says "Well he seemed so normal" or "Well I knew he jokes about it but I didn't know he was serious."
     
  4. 75INZ

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    IF the guy likes to crossdress and get nailed up the butt, then so be it. That's his decision. SO LONG AS he does it with other consenting adults.

    What I'd be more worried about is the whole pedophilia side of things.
     
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  5. Alexx11

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    and why is this a dilemma for you again? I mean, if he wants to be a freakinĀ“ weirdo so be it.
     
  6. coreygeer

    coreygeer BANNED BANNED

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    Because he fits the profile of people who end up doing very horrible things? People who end up being on the 5 o clock news for doing just weird/terrible/disgusting things?
    Yeah, he started here but that's my point.. when does one end it? What does he do next? What if he starts downloading CP, do I just say "oh well, he's just weird.. guess I'll just deal with that."

    He fits the profile of a lot of nasty, terrible people in the books. I don't see how anyone can think most of the above is considered normal...