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mystery and his game can go to hell

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Bartman, Oct 30, 2011.

  1. Bartman

    Bartman Power Member

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    hi
    some time ago some people on this forum advised me to read mystery's books to get better at getting girls. I read his shit and applied it and now I am screwed. Please please please don't make fun of me. If you have constructive suggestions, I am ready to hear them, but no "what an idiot" stuff

    so I am taking this acting class. In the class, we pick partners and do scenes with them. There is an odd number of people in the class, so someone always ends up without a partner...this time it was me. so after class, I was talking to this hot girl about how I don't have a partner. She said she can be my partner (she will do 2 scenes.) I acted not interested because that's what mystery says.

    in the next class, the teacher said "any problems?" I said "ya, I dont have a scene partner" he said "anyone want to do a second scene?" she raised her hand. at the end of class, we were trying to exchange email and phone information and she said "so you decided you dont want to do the scene with me?" I said "well, I have no choice, do I? I mean he is making me do it with you...omg, im sorry that came out wrong, I mean...ya, I of course I do."
    Why did I do it? because mystery says you have to be an asshole.

    Then when we were to rehearse, I got there late because the bus was late. by the time i got there, she had already left. so I emailed her and she said she cant do this with me anymore. I apologized and told her the bus was late and i want to work with her, but she said no.

    so at this point, things are awkward between us. so i dont know what to do. I really dont. should i email her and apologize. should i just go to her and hug her? should i ignore her? so far, ignoring has not helped. I dont know what to do, i need guidance.
     
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    facebookdude Elite Member

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    LOL dude. I'm sorry but this is so fuckin funny. Fuck books bro, just be chill and go with the flow. You're not going to read a book then instantly be able to pull woman. It's a certain kind of person and that person is not you. You need to play to your strengths and just from reading this you seem like a nice dude that cares about woman. So play to that, but don't be too intense with girls, just hint to them that you are interested and let them come to you.

    Fuck Mystery. Fuck Bitches and Get Money.
     
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    cro-mag Power Member

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    Bartman is back lol.... I missed his threads
     
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  4. tony-raymondo

    tony-raymondo Junior Member

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    i've read all those books.

    i liked them all

    the problem is, its not really possible to convey the subtleties of human interaction with just text.

    there is a rhythm to social interaction that's hard to learn and hard to teach and hard to formulate.

    just keep trying
     
  5. Danick

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    Some girls like assholes, and some don't. There's no magic bullet to get any girl you want. Well, if there is I don't know it, but that never stopped me from always having something going on with at least one chick, but usually more most of the time.

    The hard to get approach DEFINITELY works, but you don't have to be an asshole to pull it off. The best approach by FAR that has always worked for me is to be the NICE GUY, but at the same time act like you don't have any interest in a romantic relationship.

    That doesn't mean you tell some hot chick that you think she's ugly. It's more about just being friendly but giving her a VIBE that you're not looking to get in her pants.

    You get more and more friendly and after a few encounters, most chicks just can't take the fact that you're not interested in them and at some point will throw themselves at you.

    That's the only little game that worked consistently for me. Good Luck.
     
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    Stick to the cricket lol
     
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    Your such a bot and your threads are always stupid... but funny:)!
     
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  8. Danick

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    "You wanna know what your problem is? You're puttin' the pussy on a pedestal."
     
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    Dude, I'm sorry to laugh at your misfortune but that is god damn hilarious. Surely one of the funniest things I've ever read on a Sunday morning!

    Firstly, throw away all the bullshit books about getting women and save your money - they're all made up, the characters who write them don't exist, and their advice is crap. They catering to one of the principle needs in the online marketing industry and you are sucking up their product! STOP.

    Secondly, what women want is for you to be yourself. That way when you meet the right one you can actually enjoy life rather than constantly having to maintain some facade and worrying you're going to let it slip! If you want to meet chicks, try online dating - it works.

    My advice is to simply be honest this women. Tell her you behaved like a jack ass because you wanted to impress her and someone had told you this was the way to do it. You would be amazed what a little honesty can do for you.

    Just be true to yourself dude and let life unfold. You don't need any books to tell you how to do that....
     
  10. onthegoaudio1

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    Dude I don't care what anyone says. Walk up to her and give her a big ass HUG. It WILL work, I promise.
     
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    Rule no 1:

    "Good Manners are always in Fashion"

    Being rude, ignoring someone, behaving awkward and all of that doesn't sound good.
     
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    t0mmy Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    lol oh bartman i wondered were you had gone and now i know - you have been at an acting class lol welcome back and thanks for the lulz
     
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    Pathetic.
     
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    Dude, the pick up shit is kind of like the bible. Its not meant to be taken literally. You have to do everything IN CALIBRATION to the situation. Dont over do it. This is newb's #1 mistake. You have to act indifferent when situations of emotion arise, not a cold bastard. Basically dont grovel and be all over her giving her compliments but also dont totally ignore her. Moderation is the key.
     
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    Never read books for this things.

    follow what your heart says. No one else knows situation better other then you.
     
  16. Mike Hunt

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    This is the truest shit ever. Tell her you read some shit in a magazine and she will get it. Apologize and be "beta" (I hate that term so its in quotes LOL) Also do this:
     
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    lol. go on rooshvforum.com .. you can actually learn shit from a book it's just that Mystery isn't really all what he's hyped up to be.
     
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    Just tell her the truth :)
    She might even think you're sweet!
     
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    Obviously you're new to the game....that's okay. We all start somewhere.

    A few pointers:

    1. Mystery's neg theory isn't about being an asshole -- although that's a common misinterpretation. Its about being PLAYFULLY detached in your interactions with women.

    It's designed to show that you have high social value because you aren't getting crazy nervous or intimidated by her -- as most guys do around chicks they are attracted to.

    The key word there is "playfully". It's supposed to be fun. Tease her -- in a good humored way. That's what the whole neg theory and DHV idea is attempting to get at.

    2. The actual ignoring of women and harsh negs is supposed to be used only for 10's.

    I'm just going to go out on a limb and say that on the Mystery scale -- the chick in your acting class is NOT a 10. She might be a "10" to you -- but Mystery typifies a 10 as being a nightclub waitress, stripper, movie star, etc.

    These types of attention seeking women NEED to be ignored in order for you to stand out...but that's very different from attracting a good looking average girl in your circle of connections.

    Hope that helps.

    Peace
     
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  20. Bartman

    Bartman Power Member

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    ok, yes that helps a lot. I guess i thought you have to ignore and be an asshole to every girl you see...I am wondering how I can fix things with her. I am not going to tell her about the mystery book and all that, that's weird and she will call campus security on me. and you are right, she is not a 10, not even to me...i am mostly in love with her personality, although she is not ugly to look at either.
     
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