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My wife just left me...

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Dillusion, May 21, 2009.

  1. Dillusion

    Dillusion BANNED BANNED

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    Yeah that's it, my wife just went to her mothers house with our two boys because "I'm a illuded prick who believes in something as ridiculous as making a living of the internet, and that if I want to believe in non-existent things I should join a religion", this were her last words before slamming the door on me and saying that I should get treatment.

    I should say at this point that BHW destroyed my life, I have been here for 2 months now, I have made no money, I'm a complete failure at all things IM related and I just lost my family.

    I believe that's it for me, I believe that at this point I will join, as you people here ofter say, the 99% of people that quit IM after they try it.

    Well, it was good while it lasted, when I had the dream of a life making money for me and my family sitting at home with money and time for them and for me.

    It was a good dream indeed, but nothing more than that, just another dream.
     
  2. antsaoo

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    not true , i guess you should probably take a job if you can and do it after that time as hobby till you can make good amount and stable. But i wish you can solve this ;) GL
     
  3. jackanapes

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    The only failure is quitting. Get a job and don't let the door hit you...:cool:
     
  4. aмillionaírе

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    Man I feel your pain, I was in the same situation in the early months... I blamed it on the fictional methods being posted which seemed to purposely mislead members. There's a line between posting something you tried and know will work, and declaring something a method that you have never tried. You just need to filter out the bullshit and read the material from the masterminds, whom I've singled out in an earlier post of mine (I'm going to let you use the search feature for that). Good luck. And yes, you can make money online. There's just a lot of people out there, and in here, that don't want you to know that.
     
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  5. fulcanelli

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    Didn't you post about making some money? You could have easily turned that into more and more. You sounded like you were doing fine.
     
  6. londonscouse

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    Tough times, bro, tough times.

    Two months isn't long enough. Some people go years before making decent money, but those years are necessary to build up the knowledge.

    Get a plan, stick to it, work on it for 2 hours everyday. A little every day adds up to a lot.

    Good luck
     
  7. Sanitarium

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    Well it won't solve the problems for all of us as fast as most think, it's not magical, just powerful once you get a hang of it.
     
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  8. morpheus33

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    You should never leave your dayjob till you are making enough from any business.
    It's that simple.

    From experience, if your wife leaves you for such silly reasons,
    then just ride on in Life, your true partner is waiting, and you will be
    surprised when it happens.

    If you are thinking of trying to win her back, think twice, you have already been
    wounded and the scar will remain.

    As for making money off the net?
    You are not making money yet because you currently don't know
    what you don't know. Period.

    Good luck.
     
  9. ezcashplus

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    I just have to say that the relationship was based on things besides love. If you really want to make some money online to prove something to her find a good mentor and join cash gifting with the peoples program. I know people that are bringing in gifts really fast. I don't like cash gifting but I do know that people are making money.

    I am really sorry though, and I hope that you don't give up.
     
  10. Mp3Mage

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    One of the reasons why people fail is because they get information overload.

    They find so many things on bhw that they want to try everything because it makes $500 a day.

    Think about it, those who do it, they concentrate all their time and efforts on it before its automated.

    Then there are those who want to try everything. I recommend sticking to one thing at a time, and you will see results.

    Give me a PM, I might be able to help you out.

    :usa:
     
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  11. TheInternetHustler

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    Making good money is possible, in fact it can be easy if you know how or are lucky. BUT you always need back up, there is no IM guarantee. You should have kept a job instead of just assuming you would get rich in two months. I feel for you though, hopefully you can get your shit together and work things out. Good luck...
     
  12. fulcanelli

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    Cash gifting is stupid. I don't know about all areas but it's also outright illegal in some places, as far as I know.
     
  13. spaceinvader

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    unlucky mate, i know how it feels to get shit for IM.. even despite seeing cheques arrive in the post some people in my life cant disassociate working at home on a computer from sitting on your arse playing playstation in your undies.

    But you can make money, im living proof and i thought it could not be done at one time. If people cant accept me then i dont value their acceptance anyway, so, in the nicest possible way... fuck them :)

    I do think a more realistic approach to IM tho is not quit your job or have no job but to work on IM in the evenings or go part time if you can afford it.. personally tho i quit my job and went for the all or nothing approach which is why i think i get stress from my woman etc
     
  14. Dillusion

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    doing fine?

    I don't think making $20 in a entire month, working 7 hours a day on IM can be considered as doing fine, $20 won't even pay my internet bill, plus I can't even get paid because this affiliate only pays when you reach $50.

    At this moment I feel like a utter and complete failure.
     
  15. TheInternetHustler

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    Yeah, cash gifting is some bullshit. Probably the worst thing a new marketer can get into... The last thing this poor guy needs is to drop some cash to join a gifting program...
     
  16. fulcanelli

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    You were telling me that you were making like XX an hour translating for people online. You could immediately reinvest that using one of the many many methods on this site and even outsource some/all of it.

    Sure "Oh but I need to pay my bills" but if you get paid fast enough you might as well put it back into business or else you will lose the business and everything else anyway.

    I hope you find yourself out there though. Take care.
     
  17. phxxx

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    There is no get rich scheme out there. period. not even in the promise-filled world of internet marketing. And leaving something secure for something you don't understand is also a fatal mistake, and thinking you'd make alot of money with IM right away is proof you don't understand it. (yes some do right away, but I wouldn't quit your job over it)

    Everyone here has different expectations, skills, and techniques when it comes to what we do here. I myself use what I learn here to supplement what I already know and can help me grow my business. Others use the methods here for a little supplemental income. Afew use it as a hobby that makes money, or uses the skills for something else. And yes there are the ones who make a living off of it, but they put in the EFFORT and SKILL to do so, like everything else. And if you want to same, your going to have to work just as hard and just as long too see the same results. You may be best suited for your old job.

    There are no real quick rich schemes, and IM is no exception

    and i'm sorry to hear about your situation, the best of luck to you
     
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  18. GrotesqueGoddess

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    My heart sank when I was reading this. I personally suggest getting a 9-5 job and approaching your wife with that. You can do your internet work in your spare time. Tell her that you only had the best of intentions and that your motivation was to work at home to spend more time with her and your kids. We love being told we are right... so tell her that. Several times. Tell her you need her and the kids and you will do all you can.
     
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  19. Dillusion

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    I was hired for someone to make translations, I was paid 3 or 4 times, and then I was asked to do a batch of 100 translations, to which after I delivered 50% of them, I was never paid for again, after that I lost my faith in freelancing and also, it seems that I was "lucky" to have been hired that one time, because prior to that situation, I have been posting in freelancing sites for a very long time, and have never been hired, I was probably hired so easily by that guy, because he had intentions to scam me along the line.

    I agree with what many of you say, I should never have left my job for IM, but I read this forum so much, I read so many success stories, I have never seen a post of anyone genuinely arguing that an IM carreer was a bad choice, that I instantly figured, that this was it for me, I thought, I know a lot about computers and internet, I'm a fast learner and I have a high motivation in making this work, at that time for me it was just like changing jobs, I was quitting a job and joining another, but it seems things are not as linear as that, and that hard work on IM will not always make you money.

    Luck plays a big role on this, at least that's what I've come to perceive.

    And I'm usually not a lucky guy.
     
  20. moose88

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    imho opinion i think hes trying to squeeze out methods from some of the users here, by telling his heart sobbing story, and people are falling for it. i mean come on, u lose your wife and kids, and the first thing you think to do is to post your life story online. hes lieing in his original post because he has actually made some money. so whats stopping him from just making everything ellse up? technically if im right, he has already succeeded because 1 or 2 people have suggested way of making money online, and im sure allot more have PM's him with valuable information they wouldnt have otherwise given him.

    if im wrong. then lol my bad. hope all goes well with your family
     
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