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My little brother is getting bullied!?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by 15mymail, Mar 9, 2015.

  1. 15mymail

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    Hi, i m 16 years old boy and my brother is 13 years old, he is in a private school and i m in college. Yesterday he came to me saying that a three guys bullying him, actually i know one of them and he always pass by me when going to school.

    Should i go to school and talk to the bully or maybe terrifying him ? (Maybe give him a slap)
     
  2. asap1

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    Talk to him first and see whats going on.
     
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    That does sound terrifying.

    Rather talk to your brother's teachers or someone in charge. Violence only begets more violence and you won't be setting a very good example for your little brother.
     
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  4. Aatrox

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    Yeah, you should talk to him first about that. You should talk to the parents of the bully. Try to solve things that way. If it doesn't solve it... well, you know :D
     
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  5. 15mymail

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    Thanks guys, but the bully is well a bully and everybody knows how the bully's are, if you talk to them nicely they will think that you're weak, and if you try to be bigger than them they will start a fight, so a slap will get me out of trouble lol :D
     
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    Notify your parents and the school of the situation, taking matters into your own hands is unlikely to get the result that you want.
     
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  7. White Night

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    better take your brother to a karate class, let's the kid grown up
    there is something in life we have to take care it ourselve
     
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    Slap and kick those guys.
     
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    Talk to the school authorities and take your parents with you to them. Don't waste time as it could turn out to be too nasty. Also give a written complaint, a copy of which can be useful if something bad happens, or if the school doesn't take too strong action. Keep a watch on what happens. Ask your bro to keep you and your parents well informed, because those other students might scare him further from talking to anyone else. You family must have a serious session with your bro, without actually scaring him off.

    Go very careful... A very strong (not always tough and scary) attitude always helps more than any outer appearance. Be careful but without any negativity about it.

    God bless!
     
  10. rob1977

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    If you hit one of them and they turn round and give you a kicking not only do you look a twat but you have no comebacks and no teeth. Send him to a boxing club, martial arts takes too long to become effective. Anyone stepped into my club were fight ready in six weeks
     
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    Did you tell him you are a member of BHW. That should send shivers down his spine..
     
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    fuck them right in the pussy
     
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    I know lot of people will disagree with me or tack shit bout my comment, but fuck it.

    You shuld grab the the kid that is bulling your little bro and smack him good. Not to hurt him but smack him good, and then tell him that the kid they are bulling is your bro( you don't have to say nothing more )
    Talking and other shit wont work, it will probably make it worse. kids and gown men like that are wired differently, if you talk to them to resolve a issue they will just see you ass a pussy that is afraid to stand up for him self.
     
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  14. Boriss

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    +1.

    OP. I have experience in boxing, and I surely regret that I didn't started a boxing earlier. Been boxing since 2006 in matches. You should sign your little bro to a boxing gym or k1 gym. This way you won't have problems with people anymore.

    This bully kids deserve a smacking. If I wear you I would scare him really bad, keep in mind that you're little brother fears them or him, nobody needs to be afraid of people even though all of them are evil in some sort of way.

    Just my 2 cents.
     
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    Get your parents involved by making them talk to the teacher. Anti-Bullying is one of the school policies.
     
  16. Asif WILSON Khan

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    I don't think that will work in OP's case, the type of person that would do that, would not start a thread asking for advice, they would have immediately slapped the kid.
    Also as OP is 16 and the kid is 13(I think), it could backfire badly and he could be the one accused of bullying and depending on where he lives he could be prosecuted as an Adult.
    Most schools do take bullying more seriously now, so it is better at least initially, to go through the appropriate channels.
    Having a word with the kid might be an option, but some kids are aware of what they can get away with, so if they don't fear the consequences then it will be a waste of time.
    @OP, Talk to your Brother and your parents before deciding on a course of action.
     
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    First try to know the matter,may be your brother is hiding something from you.
    Then talk with that 3 boys.
     
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    Take your brother to boxing classes. So he learns how to fight & gains some confidence in himself. Then talk to your parents, to the school & the parents of the bully. If no one does anything sue the school.
     
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    I can only speak from experience but I agree with this, talking etc didn't resolve anything, only standing up with violence ever put them in their place and stopped it. That said every experience is different, I would normally say to let him stand up for himself but seeing as the kid is in a private school talking might actually work while with violence it could be a fine line and might end up the victim/brother being kicked out rather than the bully, certainly don't want that to happen.

    OP, have a talk with your brother and do whatever you both feel is right, you don't want him to feel weak like he has to rely on someone else but he came to you for help so better to talk with him first
     
  20. Dresden

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    I wouldn't bother notifying the school because all they will do is inform the kids parents and after a week your brother will be bullied again and called a snitch. I would go up to him and tell him to leave your brother alone. If he attacks, smack him real good in self defense. It would be best if your brother would stand up for himself because you aren't always going to be there to protect him. Even if he gets whooped he'll only grow stronger. Get him into boxing like someone above suggested.. that will keep him motivated and confident...