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My Inspiration For You

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by 2011nfl, Apr 7, 2013.

  1. 2011nfl

    2011nfl Supreme Member

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    As most of you know, this past year has been very rough for me and my family. Since January 2012 we have been dealing with CPS, and in May 2012 they removed our children from our home without cause..... We fought hard for 8 months to get our children removed home, and finally we succeeded. But we did not succeed without failure and consequence in the middle. During that 8 months, we lost 3 cars, I lost the day job that I had, and we nearly lost everything we owned and loved (including our babies), but we did not give up. The stress caused fighting within the household to get worse and worse until we were on the verge of divorce, but still we managed to stick it out together and fight. I went back to fulltime IM in November of 2012 and am still fulltime. I expanded my services to offer more, and put everything into it..

    Now all of our children are safe at home, we are doing alot better, and the fight is still not over. We still have a final court hearing in June, and have to deal with CPS until then (and maybe after that). Then once it is all over, we will still be filing lawsuit for all of the pain and suffering they have caused our family. This situation has damaged my children severely. My 4 year old daughter will not go to sleep without covering up with my sweater. She chooses that over her blanket, because in her mind it is her security that I will still be there when she wakes up...... My other children have become violent, and very aggressive with each other and others.....

    So you can see that we still have a ways to go, but the point is that in over a year, we have not given up, and have fought constantly. This has been a very painful and stressful year, and we have plenty more to go, but I couldn't be more willing to go through it.


    If you put your mind to something and try hard enough there is only one person who can stop you. That person is YOU
     
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  2. twinblade

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  3. erickishere

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    Thats crazy man, I hope everything will be back to normal especially with your kids.
     
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  5. TeamUnique

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    Mind Blown.

    Sorry to hear about the stress in your life man, i hope all goes well for you and the family, money can be replaced but family cannot, so never stop the fight!
     
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    I already knew you will be good, because no one cant take kids from good guy and brilliant father like you.

    Now you should take care of them as much as you can, since they are young, try to get rid of that aggresivity with love.
    You will get there and im proud of you.
     
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  7. TheMoneyWizard

    TheMoneyWizard Elite Member

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    WOW!
    CPS is f***ed up! I am really glad you got everything back together. I feel sorry for your children, time should heal them.
    Thanks for the inspiration!
     
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  8. PrinceVisi

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    I hate these kind of stories and how they impact your whole life... Been a couple times there, and I promised to myself that I will never, ever, ever let those times come near me in any way!

    I cant congratulate you enough for what you did for your children and wife, and wish you good luck on creating your paradise here on earth.
     
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  9. Untouchable

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    Bro, If you ever need anything let me know. :)
     
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    You have no control over the cards you're dealt in life. How you play those cards determines whether you win or lose the hand. Every hand is a winner or every hand can be a loser. Every good poker player has beat solid hands with weak hands because they learn how to play those shit hands.

    Sounds like you've been dealt a shit hand but play those cards right and you'll be a winner. Grab that your seven deuce and play it like you've got bullets in the hole.

    Never let them see you sweat and play like a pro. Wish you luck although I know luck has nothing to do with winning.

    Kind regards
     
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  11. reinie

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    Proud of you man...!!
    I'm happy for you! ;-)
     
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  12. Sprouts

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    LOL! Haven't laughed this hard at something on BHW since the muscleteen thread a year or two back.
     
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    I'm happy that it's all better now and I know how you are proud of your family. Good luck
     
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    Same for me, but change Muscleteen to Monkey Papal. Haha :D
     
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    I know english isn't everyone's first language, but damn dude...

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    laughed my ass off at wargasm's reply.
     
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    that made my day:) hahahaha
     
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    Thanks for sharing - Really glad that everything has worked out in the end
     
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    wow man , sorry to hear that hope everything goes well for you ..
     
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    Your back had hit the proverbial wall, and for you and yours, there were only 2 options, to sink or to get over and forward though seemingly this was really impossible because of the involvement of state and evil "keeper/s" of Law. But with God-power in you, you chose the latter -- and the result was a brilliant win. It shows that there is a bigger Justice power above all, which is available to those who choose not to sink...

    I've said this often, and have also seen it work wonderfully and miraculously:
    "Adversity causes some men to break; others to break records. " ― William Arthur Ward

    Very True In Deed!

    God Bless you and your whole family! Forever, In Love & Light! <3 :)
     
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    Everyone who knows anything about the OP knows the resolve - determination and care he gives to his home and work, while at the same time always having time to add some humor into his life...

    But what irks and annoys me is the reckless irresponsible way the CPS went about abducting his kids, just because some assholes wanted to imprison his kids so they could ensure they got continued financial support for the respective CPS unit...

    Rest assured there will be a day of reckoning for the CPS and it will not be pretty but thankfully it will mean the CPS is dismantled (as presently set up) and the employees who made the decision to kidnap the kids should be held accountable and pay the consequences...

    Wishing you all the best going forward OP...:cool:
     
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