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My brother had an accident and killed someone :(

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  1. Berkeli

    Berkeli Regular Member

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    Hi fellow blackhatters earlier on I spoke with my brother, he is in Russia, and found out he had an accident. front-to-front with another vehicle at about 140 km/h.

    He was driving from work with my younger sister and another passenger, THANK GOD they were all saved by an airbag but the other driver didn't last even a minute after the accident :(

    the other driver went into the wrong line to take over another car but didn't realise my brother was coming fast. so both jumped on the break and lost control and boom.

    I'm really devastated as my brother might go to jail for something he wasn't guilty.
     
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    RIP both!
     
  3. Stove

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    That really sucks, good luck hopefully you can get this all figured out.
     
  4. hithere

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    Screw the 25k car, who cares? A life is priceless and hopefully everything will be ok and they see it was not his fault.


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    I too used to drive wild once but now I controlled my speed a lot. Life is precious than anything. Hope both your brother and sister recover soon.
     
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    Sorry to hear that.
     
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    Sorry man !
     
  8. Duffers5000

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    A 25K Toyota........Dissapointing
     
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  9. Berkeli

    Berkeli Regular Member

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    It wasn't that he was speeding up, the other guy (poor guy, 25, didn't know his parents, and recently his newborn daughter passed away) wasn't looking where he was going.
    I mean the other guys Life, if I tell you the full story you would just cry, It hurt me so much. If I was in that guy's shoes I would've even be grateful in a way.
     
  10. gigglefit

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    Insurance? I think your brother will be fine if it really isn't even his fault anyway.
     
  11. Berkeli

    Berkeli Regular Member

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    of course life is precious. but 25k Toyota in Russia is almost like 75k mercedes in usa and now to buy the jury not to send my bro to jail it's gonna cost double 25k toyota's
     
  12. gigglefit

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    You should share the other guy's life, I'm interested.
     
  13. BHopkins

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    Why would your brother go to jail if someone was in his lane?
     
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    Berkeli Regular Member

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    Well,
    His parents passed away when he was a 8 months old child, was risen in orphanage and at 11 he was taken by a woman with 4 daughters, As you can imagine it's already one hell of a childhood,
    Then his step-mom, 2 older step-sisters became prostitutes and he left home and was living in a shared house renting a bedsit with his wife, whom he married 2 years ago.
    A year ago they had a daughter who then passed away after a week, don't know the reason. Shit happens.
    He was working as a taxi driver, driving a 4k$ toyota which he bought with money from credits from bank, friends. And everyone was on his ass for money.
    and boom.
     
  15. Berkeli

    Berkeli Regular Member

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    I keep asking the same question, in Russia it goes this way
    his lane, not his lane. someone died. end of story
     
  16. BigBrown

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    Omg! I'm sorry to hear.

    I was just in bali the other month and it was involved in a motorcycle accident. Luckily i was the only one hurt(scrapes bruises, possibly broken rib) but those countries are SOOO dangerous i mean 10x more dangerous than the developed cities. it's scary but driving on the wrong side of the road is as common as changing lanes here.
     
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    sorry man.. :(
     
  18. GutierresSEO

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    That sucks. But there's a saying (at least in my country) that says that "there's a solution for everything but death". So the other guy is in a worst position to solve is problem...
    Your brother's main problem, other than physical and possibly legal problems, is guilt. Psychological problems are the worst kind to live with! If your brother believes this accident is in any way his fault, or that he could do something to prevent it and save the other man's life, he'll sure feel guilty(unless he's a psychopath) and that won't pass in a couple of years! If this is the case, tell him to get help, maybe some therapy. He doesn't have to go through that alone, and there's no shame in seeking help in therapy. And make sure he doesn't start taking pills to sleep, at least for a long period, or he may get a substance abuse problem. Sleeping pills are not the way to cope with guilt! They may help, but are part of the solution not THE solution.
     
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    Toyota $25k Other people life <$25k
    THIS IS HOW YOU SEE IT ?
     
  20. Oblivion13

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    Yea be lucky it wasnt a $30k Gremlin... That last line, kind of killed the whole.. "ah man, sorry to hear that" for me.
     
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